Memory Book for Randy Pausch
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I knew Randy when he was at the University of Virginia. I recall him as a very kind, approachable, and friendly person, who always had a smile on his face. I will never forget the time when my young daughter and I unexpectedly ran into him at the airport, and we sat together and talked while waiting for our planes. Randy was single and did not have kids, and yet he had the most amazing way with interacting with my daughter. She was very young and energetic, and was literally climbing all over him. Not only did he not seem to mind, but he was full of smiles and laughter, and made her feel very happy and special. Even then, one could see that he would be a fantastic dad some day. I was very saddened to learn that Randy has passed away. I am also very honored to have known one of the truly great men in this world, who has enriched so many lives, and has left behind such an amazing and inspiring legacy. I was both smiling and crying when I watched his Last Lecture on YouTube. My warmest wishes and deepest smypathy to his family. God bless you all.
Posted by: Kathy Bateman Vienna, VA October 26, 2008
Ich habe niemanden in meinem Leben getroffen, der bei seinem Schicksal eine derartig positive Ausstrahlung vermitteln konnte. Ich bin froh seine Videos gesehen, sein Buch gelesen und seine Lehren verinnerlicht zuhaben. Sie geben Mut und Kraft, die Zukunft positiv anzugehen. Möge er in Frieden ruhen, und seine Familie und Kinder über den großen Verlust hinwegkommen.
Posted by: A. Hamm Germany October 01, 2008
I remember seeing his last lecture on line and it moved me to tears. As tragic as all this may be, due to man's imperfection, Randy will be back in the resurrection as the Bible promises Acts 24 v 15, and his future can be forever in a perfect world. For those who were close to him....what a privilege to have had him in your life! My thoughts are with you.
Posted by: Violet King Torrevieja September 24, 2008
Dear Jai, Dylan, Logan and Chloe: Though I never had the chance to meet Randy, I feel as though we were close friends. It is rather odd but I have cried for a person I never met and for each one of you. I checked his updates almost every day. Jai, as hard as it is... Randy has left you three beautiful and wonderful reasons to continue getting up each morning. Dylan, Logan and Chloe, your daddy faught a great fight for you, so that he could be with you all as long as he did. But the fact that he now is with his father in heaven proves that God needed him more in heaven than on this earth. Except for his family, basically his job here was done. I may add well done job. I'm certain that he is now watching over all of you. His love for you had no end. I will keep you in my prayers. St.Croix, US Virgin Islands
Posted by: Claude Leto Merlo Christiansted August 21, 2008
Jai, I have thought of you, your kids and Randy every day since his passing. Know you all are in the hearts of many as you go through this very difficult time. What a blessing he was to all of us with his words of wisdom and lessons on life and living it. You have a wonderful guardian angel with you. You are very much loved. May God grant you peace and strength as you lay your head down at night. You are a very strong, courageous woman. The world has been witness to it. Thank you for the inspiration.
Posted by: Jen Ankeny, IA August 19, 2008
As I started work on a Doctorate in Education degree, I was very close to quitting in my first class. And then I remembered Randy Pausch telling his student to "Go for the risk." So now I have that on my computer flashing at me daily. I lost my brother to Lymphoma at the age of 47. Cancer is an awful disease. So much money is given to Breast Cancer research (and I am one of those survivors) but we also need to look at pancreatic, liver, lymphoma and other types of cancers and support that research too. To Jai, I hope your memories with Randy will get you through some of your toughest days. He is watching over you and the children.
Posted by: Denise Dayville, CT August 14, 2008
Like Jai, I am a pancreatic cancer widow with children. I lost my wonderful husband last year. The best way I memorialize my husband is by giving what I can to pancreatic cancer research. There is not enough money given to this cause. When foundations were set up to raise money for breast cancer, survival rates improved. We need to make that happen for pancreatic cancer so, please, give if you can. Like Randy, my husband was a teacher, and a brave and inspiring man. I miss him every day and weep as I type this. But tears will not find a cure. Money will. Rest in peace, Randy. I hope there really is a better place for you to have gone to.
Posted by: Jacqueline August 12, 2008
To the family: God bless you and I am a single parent of a 10-year-old who has been diagnosed with Stage 4 breast cancer this past February of this year, and it has spread to my pelvic area and my spine. I only wish you love and strength as I do know what you are going through and also when I was 19 my mother was diagnosed with lung and brain cancer. When she told me she came to my university at the time and gave me the grim news, I was in the end the strong one who had to keep the family together, and spent every moment with her right up until her 6th month. So I understand your pain and the anticipation that one has to go through, knowing that your loved one will no longer be with you. You know it's coming but nothing can really prepare you for it, and on that note, I wish you peace, love, and a part of my strength, and when you can happiness. You and your family will and always be in my prayers. I also watched Randy's video and was very inspired by it to motivate myself to keep myself strong while I am battling my own cancer. Thank you Randy for coming into my life. Elizabeth.
Posted by: Elizabeth Chicago, IL August 09, 2008
From the first time I heard Randy's wonderful lecture, I have been in awe of this man who fought the toughest of battles and never gave up. His life and his message has not been lost on this old woman. I have a new hero in my life. I have henceforth seen the Last Lecture no less that 10 times and I am on my second reading of his book. I bought additional copies for my daughter and my best friend because I feel that his message is that important. I want to thank Randy, and Jai for their wonderful words and their strength as they fought their fight in the public eye with so many people watching in awe at their courage. Jai, for your strength and courage I applaud you. When I was faced with a similar plight eleven years ago, I was not so brave and certainly not as supporting as I should have been. Jai, you are my second hero to be sure.
Posted by: Eileen Truszkowski Matteson, IL August 07, 2008
Thank you Randy and Jai for sharing your love story with us on ABC. I cried through the entire Diane Sawyer interview when I saw it after Randy passed away. I will remember Randy's stories forever. He inspires me to overlook my pains and to climb over my brick walls. Jai, my thoughts are with you. Randy's magic will live in your heart and your life forever.
Posted by: Geraldine Vancouver August 07, 2008
I recently listened to an audio version of Randy's book. We had a lot in common - I am a professor and a scientist with a lab. In addition, my undergraduate studies were at Pitt, so I know its neighbor, Carnegie-Mellon. I was pretty ignorant about Randy and how much he loved living. I even imagined naively that he had beaten his cancer. I liked him and, after I finished the book, had to know more about him. Only then did I learn that sadly Randy had died the day before I began the book. I was fascinated by a video of Randy's lecture and I watched other videos of him. I saw Jai and the children. He and Jai showed immense courage, but what they were experiencing was supremely difficult. Randy's deep love of his family was obvious. What also came across was that he cared about his students and postdocs. In addition to being a great husband and father, Randy was a dedicated and bright scientist and an excellent lecturer. He had a way of saying and doing things that really connected him to people. I am grateful to you, Jai, for letting him do his lecture during what I'm sure was a difficult time. Randy is gone, and I know that you and the children are suffering terribly. I wish there were a way to make this easier for all of you; but unfortunately, like everyone else, I am powerless. It may help a little to know that the children will get to know him, and he affected many people positively. In the meantime, please realize that all of us who had any contact with him, even remotely through his book or videos, are profoundly saddened and are thinking of you and the children.
Posted by: David Figurski New York, NY August 07, 2008
Dear Jai and family: I first saw the Last Lecture on YouTube last year and could not believe the passion and inspiration that spilled out of Randy. I was so excited to read the book when it came out and I have given copies to everyone I know. It feels so unfair that Randy was taken so young. I pray for you an your family and feel fortunate that I was able to hear and read Randy's words. He will never be forgotten.
Posted by: Tonya Minneapolis, MN August 04, 2008
Death of a loved one is one of the most difficult feats we the living have to confront. Jai, you will never forget him, but the pain does get a little easier to deal with as time goes on. You have three beautiful children to care for...and a husband, whose legacy will continue to live on. He left so many wonderful memories and helped many to find inspiration in their own lives. How wonderful an accomplishment to share with mankind. May you and your family find peace in the days to come. May God Bless.
Posted by: Cheryl Issaquah, WA August 04, 2008
Dear Jai, May you, Dylan, Logan and Chloe cherish all the magical moments you shared with Randy. I know you'll always remember his abiding love for each and every one of you. We witnessed it in all the videos and when he spoke about you. What a legacy he has left for you, his family, and for us (friends and strangers)!! Until you and we meet with him again ... keep living, enjoy every moment and achieve your dreams as he would say. I've included a poem that has a lot of meaning for me and I hope you as well. I believe this poem describes Randy's desire to explore the unknown, to prepare us what to expect, and to let us know how to challenge those brick walls along the way. He is Just Away "I cannot say, and I will not say That he is dead ~ He is just away! With a cheery smile, and a wave of the hand, He has wandered into an unknown land, And left us dreaming how very fair It needs must be, since he lingers there; And you ~ O you, who the wildest yearn For the old-time step and the glad return, Think of him faring on, as dear In the love of there as the love of here; Think of him as the same, I say; He is not dead ~ He is just away!" With gratitude for letting Randy share his and your lives with us, Barb
Posted by: Barbara Steinman St. Louis, MO August 04, 2008
Jai, I have just read your husband's book in one sitting. As I wipe away my tears, I am grateful that God gave us the gift of Randy, if even for far too few years. I never met him, but his sage wisdom, wit and honesty will stay in my heart for always. I am a changed woman from watching his lecture and reading his book. People like Randy are far and few between, and how blessed you were to have found each other. I pray for you and your three beautiful children every night, as I know these are your darkest days. May you take comfort in knowing you were as beloved as any wife I've ever known. Thank you for sharing your incredible family with us these past months- what a gift. Godspeed.
Posted by: KD August 03, 2008
Dear Jai and family ~ your husband and father has touched so many people in so many ways. What a beautiful outlook on life - you can either be a tigger or an eyeore. I will strive to be that tigger that Randy spoke of. His message is an inspiration to me - my prayers go out to Jai and the children in this trying time.
Posted by: Robin Boland IL August 02, 2008
Jai, Dylan, Logan, and Chloe, Thank you for sharing your husband and father with us during such a difficult time. Even though I never met him, I feel like I have lost my best friend. He was such an inspiration to myself and millions of others. He truly was a gift from God. May he rest in peace. He may be gone but never will he be forgotten. God bless you and your family.
Posted by: Michelle Brask Lake Stevens, WA August 02, 2008
Like so many more here I did not know Randy but he made an impact on my life. I was diagnosed with stage 4 prostate cancer Aug. 13, 2007. I now have a more positive attitude than I had thanks to Randy. My prayers go out to his wife Jai and the children. May God bless you and protect you always.
Posted by: Roy W Hendersonville, TN July 31, 2008
Randy Pausch's Last Lecture had a profound effect on my life and attitude. I have been trying to enjoy and have fun with my daughter every day. I have been trying to appreciate my many gifts in life and not get bogged down by problems. He made a true difference and I will always remember him and his words.
Posted by: Helen July 31, 2008
I never heard of Randy until I viewed the "Last "Lecture". What a shame that such an brilliant, kind, beautiful person and much loved husband and father had to be taken away so soon. I have shed many tears for Randy and his family and keep asking God, why? My thoughts and prayers are with Randy's wife and three children.
Posted by: Anne Graeber Pleasant Hill, CA July 31, 2008
Thank you to Randy and his family for sharing their experience with this disease. It peaked my interest because I work in educational technology and my dad had pancreatic in 2005. He lived every moment until his last. Unfortunately pancreatic cancer is a doozie and there is nothing you can do but make the best of it. Ironically my mom has cancer now and will be leaving soon. I am with her now. I listened to Randy's time management video over and over when she was diagnosed in January. Since then we've had fun, laughed everyday and made the best of it. We are not immortal - death happens to us all. Randy's generosity in sharing his personal story has helped us. Thank you
Posted by: Therese July 30, 2008
I was deeply moved by his book, in such a way that it makes me want to live more fully. We all need to keep in mind what is important in life, and that is precious time with loved ones. My sympathies to his beautiful family, may time and happy memories heal you.
Posted by: Denise Celaya West Bountiful, UT July 31, 2008
There are no words to describe the way Randy Pausch touched my life, and the lives of many others around the world. Though many of us never knew him personally, watching "The Last Lecture" and reading his book gave all of us a new meaning on life. It was a priveledge to get to hear the wisdom of Randy Pausch. My heart is heavy right now for his beautiful and amazing wife, Jai, and his three beautiful children, Dylan, Logan, and Chloe. May the Lord watch over them in the days to come, and may Jai find the incredible strength to go through this world as a Tigger. Jai, please know that you have strangers praying daily for you and your family. You are not alone in this.
Posted by: Lindsay Carr GA July 31, 2008
I DID NOT KNOW DR. PAUSCH, HOWEVER, I FELT A KINSHIP TO HIM, AFTER I HEARD THE LAST LECTURE. MY GRANDFATHER DIED OF PANCREATIC CANCER, AT THE AGE OF 47,IN 1937, WHEN MY MOTHER WAS A TEENAGER. MY HEART GOES OUT TO HIS MOTHER,SISTER,WIFE AND CHILDREN. HOW FORTUNATE YOU ARE HOWEVER,TO HAVE HAD THIS PERSON IN YOUR LIFE. DR. PAUSCH HAS BROUGHT PANCREATIC CANCER INTO THE SPOTLIGHT,A LONG OVERDUE AND MUCH NEEDED EVENT. MY MOTHER SAID THAT WHEN HER FATHER DIED,THE MEDICAL COMMUNITY WAS PREDICTING THAT A CURE WAS JUST AROUND THE CORNER. IT'S HEARTBREAKING TO REALIZE HOW LITTLE PROGRESS HAS BEEN MADE TO THAT END IN THE LAST 71 YEARS.
Posted by: JANE A. WALKER BRUNSWICK, ME July 31, 2008
You shared the most profound gift of love for your children that will carry on with them throughout their lifetime, as if you are still right there. In so doing you touched the very heart of humanness for millions of people giving us inspiration and insight, a new hope and renewed faith in mankind. There is no doubt you are an Angel of God. The message He sent you to deliver you delivered well. How proud He must be. I think you're the HERO that the world has been lacking.
Posted by: Mary Ann Brewer Whitson Santa Rosa, CA July 30, 2008
What a gift this human being was to us all... How one could face his own mortality with such honesty, bravery and grace; and moreover, derive from it a lesson so great it takes most of us a lifetime to learn, if ever. This is a truly beautiful soul who is not gone, but merely moving on to the next stage of existence. My heart aches for the loss Randy's family endures, but also knows there are countless intangible ways his spirit lives on within them and all of us. God's blessings.
Posted by: Shayna Lenius Watertown, WI July 30, 2008
HOW SAD AND SORROWFUL THAT THIS MAN HAS PASSED AWAY AT SUCH A EARLY AND EVENTFUL LIFE. HIS BOOK WAS AN EYE OPENER FOR ME AND I HATE TO KNOW NOW THAT VISITING HIS WEB PAGE IS OVER. GOD PUTS ALL OF US HERE FOR A REASON AND HIS WAS TO BRIGHTEN AND INFORM ALL OF THE LIVES HE TOUCHED THROUGH HIS BOOK AND LECTURES. TO HIS FAMILY, I SALUTE YOU FOR YOUR LETTING US SHARE HIM TOO AND FOR BOTH OF YOUR BRAVERY.
Posted by: ROSE THOMPSON ROCKINGHAM, NC July 30, 2008
I remember when You Tube first released "The Last Lecture" of Professor Pausch. My life has been greatly impacted by his words and wisdom and made me realize how fragile life is and how much we waste time on trivial things in life. We take so much for granted. Because of Randy, I hug my husband a little tighter now and my 2 daughters know just how much they mean to me. I loved to book so much that I put a link to in on MySpace for my friends to view. Although I never met Randy, I know that he left a lasting legacy for his children, his wife and for the rest of us who have been touched by his life. My prayers go out to his family at this time of grief.
Posted by: Jenny Erie, PA July 30, 2008
After ready his book I bought a little Tigger figure to remind us to be tiggers. My husband was being an eyore and my daught held up the tigger and said"daddy you need to be a tigger". Randy taught us all that even when life gives you set backs you need to always remember we are Tiggers and to keep going and not to give up. I never met him but his wife and children should be so very proud of how their husband/Dad touched so many lives.
Posted by: Suzanne Plymouth, MA July 30, 2008
As I write this, I am thinking of this man, which I never met, but touched my life ! He was a TRUE inspiration. The world was a better place with him in it! I choose to be a TIGGER, and try to see things the way he did it. And to always TELL THE TRUTH!! What a great lesson he set for all of us! My thoughts and prayers are with his family & friends! Heaven has a SPECIAL Angel! Thanks so much for sharing him with us!
Posted by: Kimberly Gibson Highlands, TX July 30, 2008
To Jai, Logan, Dylan, and Chloe; "Perhaps they are not the stars, but rather openings in Heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy." Eskimo proverb Your precious husband and father is not lost...he lives forever in all the love you share and in the transformed lives of countless others whom he touched.
Posted by: Mari Fields Atlanta, GA July 30, 2008
I didn't know Randy Pausch personally, but his inspirational message has touched me deeply. I have been battling leukemia for three years (status-post two bone marrow transplants) and the prognosis is guarded, at best. Randy's message of hope and love has made is legacy an enduring lesson to all of us, and especially me. He defined what's important in living our lives. His "teaching" approach was direct but filled with with kindness, truth, and spirit for life. I feel he made a difference in everyone's lives. I hope I can "live" my life as fully and completely as he did. May God bless his family and friends during this difficult time.
Posted by: Maureen RI July 30, 2008
He was such an inspirational person that has touched so many people. He has helped all of us who have seen his last lecture or read his book to have a new perspective on life and what is truly important. His message will live on for several years through the many people whose lives he has touched.
Posted by: Melissa Summers July 30, 2008
If you want to give to the pancreatic action network - where he has a fundraising page set up (for research, all of it) you can go to firstgiving dot calm forward slash randypausch I hope to see that fund grow and grow in honor of this man's memory and in hopes of helping others who don't even know they have pancreatic cancer yet!
Posted by: sarah timonium, MD July 30, 2008
I just watched Primetime's tribute to Professor Pausch and his family and felt complete and utter sadness at his passing but also hope for a man who was so inspiring. May Randy now rest in peace knowing he left this world a better place for having lived a life so full. Thank you.
Posted by: Regina Hayward, CA July 30, 2008
I wondered what I might say to my love to comfort her if I ever found myself facing Mr. Pausch's dilemma. These are the words that came to me in my my ponderings. I hope they may bring some solace to those who are grieving. I intended to leave this song I had written on the Carnegie Mellon tribute page, but their insistence that they take full ownership of all submitted materials left me a little cold, so I post it here in the hope that Mr. Pausch's loved ones may find it, and in it, find some solace for their grief. The Dew Upon the Meadow copyright (c) by Jerry Drummond, 6/23/2008 All rights reserved Let the dew upon the meadow nor the silence of the hills ever mind you of your sorrow as I held you close and still Do not fault me for leavin' 'twas not my choice nor will in the quiet of the evenin' know my love will never fail Tho' I promised you forever and forever I will give in the laughter of our children and their dreams in which I live Say a prayer before you leave me Braid a bloom upon the hill Tell your new love of my love for you that he'll love you ever still In the dew upon the meadow and the silence of the hills hear my voice as you lay grievin' know I'll love you ever still
Posted by: Jerry Drummond Rochester, NY July 30, 2008
Media reports that Randy Pausch "lost his battle" with pancreatic cancer were wrong. He didn't lose in any sense of the word. He fought it with dignity, humor, honesty and integrity. That's no loss. I first read about him in Parade Magazine, which I don't normally read, and then I began following the blog on his website. He was exceptionally inspirational and I'll never forget this "stranger" and the important lessons that he taught me about the importance of family and living life with passion even in the face of horrific odds. Randy's blog was exceptional in and of itself. He managed to convey clinical information -- sometimes scary -- in a manner that was informative and yet somehow not scary. The professionals can't even do it as well as he did. Even the inevitability of this "stranger's" passing didn't soften the blow when I finally heard that it had come to pass. The lack of postings in July on his blog was ominous and I suspected that the time had come. What a great person this man was. His Last Lecture will be required "reading" for my three children. My sympathy goes out to his three children and his wife for their loss, but his warmth and love will envelop them forever. Sometimes unlikely heroes are the most impressive. Godspeed!
Posted by: Alex Woollcott Atlanta , GA July 30, 2008
Jai and Kids, God has really blessed you and kids to have a such a wonderful person who gave you all so much love and showed you all a road to live with his memories, May god give you all the strength to bear the loss and bless you all. May his soul rest in peace. I was following his health update and just finished reading his book The Last Lecture" felt very sad to know his death and questioned god why didnt he perform a miracle but he said he needs him there than on earth.
Posted by: Swaroop Toronto July 30, 2008
On July 23, 2008, I returned from Paris, France after presenting a paper at an International educational conference. I am a PhD student, who like Randy, will be a professor soon. While in Paris, I coincidently thought about Randy. I wondered how he was doing. I even said a prayer for him.... Two days after I returned home, I heard that he had pasted. I was devastated. I cried all day....Because of Randy's life, I have acquired a new hope in the human spirit, and a new dream for my life (as well as for my research). I plan to give all that I have to my students, and love ones, like Randy did for his. I promise myself that I will have fun while I'm at it too! In all accounts, most believe that at 45, my life has taken longer than usual to get jump started. But like Randy, I hope to fully bloosom now, while I still have breath, as I hold on tenaciously to all my dreams. I will live boldly and "lead my life the right way" (Pauch, 2008) and wait for my "dreams to take care of [themselves](Pauch, 2008). Finally, Jai, thank you for lending us your amazing, inspiring, and loving husband. Thank you for your strength and the wisdom that guided you both to raise your children with such love, tenacity and hope! May God continue to richly bless your life, like He did with the gift of Randy! I will never forget him! Blessing and Peace Sharon Leonie Brown, From Toronto, CAN.
Posted by: S. Leonie Toronto July 30, 2008
Dear JaTo the family of Randy Pausch, My deepest condolences in the loss of Randy - Randy affected the world with his optimism humor and dedication to family. I have mentioned him in one of my own lectures to service personnel at Anchor Health Centers in Naples, Florida, as a shining example of how we all must use our unique gifts in the world! "We never lose those we give to God." St. Augustine.
Posted by: Julie A. Basile Naples, FL July 30, 2008
I just want to say that my thoughts and prayers are with the family and randy's lecture and book will forever change how i look at my own life and will have a huge impact upon the way i raise my children. randy was an inspiration to millions, and his legacy will continue to have a positive impact on the world for years to come.
Posted by: katie lykins ironton, OH July 30, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with Jai and the children. You've fought the good fight with grace and strength. I'll never forget Randy or your example. I sent The Last Lecture to each of my beloved boys and asked them to spend that hour and 15 minutes listening to Randy and learning from him. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Posted by: Holly Garver Rochester, NY July 30, 2008
For you, Jai and your children, my heart goes out to you on the passing of Randy. Both of you faced this "brick wall" in an amazing way. Randy's story has reinforced to me the importance of living life to the fullest and to remember "things could always be worse." You can be proud that Randy has touched so many lives.
Posted by: Charlotte Halabuza July 30, 2008
Randy Pausch even managed to touch the hearts of people on the other side of the world. I live in Canberra, Australia and my mother is battling pancreatic cancer as we speak. Watching his appearances on Oprah and his interview with Dianne Sawyer has brought many a tear to my families eyes(both tears of laughter and happiness). My husband and I cried together when we heard the news of his passing. He showed our family how to find the positive in the face of this horrific disease. Thankyou for your honesty and courage Dr Pausch and thankyou for showing me how to be a Tigger. x x x x
Posted by: Rebecca Sharp Canberra July 30, 2008
It is with a great feeling of loss that I learned of the Professors death. His last lecture and TV appearances touched me deeply. It is a great loss to our planet as a whole to lose a man who truely understood what life should mean and what is really important in this world. My heart felt condolances to his family, freinds and the students who had the honor to study with him. His passing is truly a loss to us all. Sincerest Regards Liz Clarke
Posted by: Liz Clarke Hunts Point July 30, 2008
Randy has become my motivation to do and be all that I can be in my recovery of AML, an agressive form of leukemia. I have survived the stem cell transplant that I received about 4 months ago. Randy's upbeat personality and acceptance of his cancer, his desire and love of others to make a difference in how we face life is the greatest display of love I have seen in some time on the public airways. My deepest condolences to all of Randy's family and friends. I didn't know him personally, but if feel love and friendship for him, and I am not afraid to say that I shared more than one tear in his passing. Memories sustain us in our grief and the memory of Randy's life will live forever.
Posted by: frank musolino middletown, NY July 29, 2008
Randy inspired me not only to be a better person, but to always look for the good in everything, be it good or bad. He was a wonderful man and a one in a million soul. No doubt his family his proud and his legacy will live on for ages. And thank you, Randy, for making me see the elephant in the room.
Posted by: Kristin Las Vegas, NV July 29, 2008
In recent passing of days, I too as those before me have reason to pause, and take notice of the sojourn traveler Randy Pausch. For a moment time fluttered and I caught a glimpse of his life. His world. For he did invite me in. And amidst his spirit's gentle kindness, I found favor in his presence. As a gift he freely offered his best, with the stance and courage of a noble man. For he would share a great truth and ancient wisdom. A word of great prophets, that would rest upon my shoulders as his mantle. Though I came to his life as a nomad, he would take leave of me as a friend. And I will eternally think of him as "brother." And in the love and beauty of his spirit I find no equal, even in the godly splendor of world nature. For it is his light I shall see at the kiss of dawn, and his sparkle I will remember, racing across the depths of night sky.
Posted by: Pe' Peto Loma Knoxville, TN July 29, 2008
Well played, Professor. My sincerest sympathies to the family. May you find strength and solace in your faith and the knowledge that so many were touched by Randy's wisdom. The world is truly a better place by his being in it and I'm certain Heaven welcomed him with open arms. Godspeed, Randy.
Posted by: Deb Ward Colgate, WI July 29, 2008
Randy lived by his words that life is precious and is not to be taken for granted. I have tried to live by that after seeing the lives of so many children where I work for whom life is very hard. Randy's words and presentation brought it all together for what it means to really appreciate the beauty of each day and each moment. I am grateful for having the opportunity to see him through the internet and to read his book. I am also very sad at his death and the pain it caused his family by losing someone who was truly loved. Randy will live on - in his lecture, in the legacy of his students, in his book, in all the lives he touched, and in hearts of Jai and his children. We all have been very fortunate to have him here and for the blessing he brought to us through his illness. I would not wish that cancer diagnosis on anyone or anything, but if it were not for his diagnosis, he would not have touched the vast number of people who saw him, heard him, and realized how precious is each moment of each life. In all the sadness, there is a ray of sunshine and joy that will always be his legacy to those of us who never knew him personally.
Posted by: Robert Fifer Miami, FL July 29, 2008
We watched the entire lecture, all segments on YouTube, we laughed and cried. One tries to take things to heart and assimilate and learn from the examples Randy explained. My husband and I were in the middle of a ridiculous round of arguing over old hurts from 15+ years ago last Friday. It's interesting, as I was writing him an email that morning, saying "Randy Pausch died today, let's celebrate surviving and thriving after 20 years together" -- he was leaving me a voice msg saying "I'm so sorry for everything. Randy Pausch died today". I hope to always end a stupid fight or a bad day with the thought of our good fortune to be here and have one another. Thanks, Randy, and thanks, Jai. What a legacy he left. I will never forget one of Randy's last posts -- with the little video of him carrying his beloved wife off the stage. What a beautiful moment for us all, not just those two. God Bless those who loved him, learned from him and treasure his memory, and may his children grow and remember...
Posted by: njo San Angelo , TX July 29, 2008
Dear Mrs Pausch, I read, with deep sadness, of the passing of your husband. I have heard his "last lecture" and was deeply moved by the strength and courage he showed, knowing with such clarity where his future lay. I feel sure I could not exhibit such courage under similar circumstances. Randy is an example of the best kind of individual, whose life really MEANS something. He will be remembered. You and your family are in my prayers at this time. My deepest condolences.
Posted by: Linda Wonsil Des Plaines, FL July 29, 2008
Prof Pausch changed the way I view the world... Take nothing for granted...He did more in his short life than most people who live twice as long...Your pain is gone..rest in peace...My prayers go out to his family and friends...May his children find comfort in the man he was, and strive to fulfill their dreams, which I bet one will be to be just like their Dad...nat a bad dream at all.
Posted by: Chris McDermott Abington, MA July 29, 2008
Dr. Pausch is now free, has 100% knowledge about our wonderful universe. The loss for his immediate and extended family, as well as close friends is immense. What a giant of a human to have given an insight of life to all of us. Dr. Pausch will always, with his new gift, stay close to his wife, children, family and friends.... and all of us who has had their heart touched deeply. Bless you Dr. Pausch... THANK YOU for your gift to us. Fly free as I know you are. Patricia & Ron
Posted by: Patricia & Ron kBelmontA, CA July 29, 2008
I only knew of Dr. Randy Pausch through what I read on the internet. He was amazing and inspiring. As a teacher, I try to use humor and uplifting words for my students. We have a huge responsibility to our students not to break their spirit but to build it up. Dr. Pausch did just that and his legacy will be spread through the world by his students, colleagues and the rest of us. God bless the family-They should be proud of him.
Posted by: Lou Thomas San Antonio, TX July 28, 2008
I am saddened that I never had the opportunity to meet Randy. I know that he and I would have had many great conversations. I pray for his family and know that his children will be proud to say that they had a great father. God bless you and your children.
Posted by: Mr. Marlin Coffman Clearwater, KS July 28, 2008
I was never fortunate enough to meet Randy in person but after reading his book, The Last Lecture in May I felt actual pain and grief after reading about his death last Friday. I had been following the health updates on his webpage ever since reading his book. My heart breaks for Jai and his three adorable children. May they be able to take comfort in the many wonderful memories that Randy left with them. His constant courage, optimism and humor while dealing with cancer never ceased to amaze me. He was one of a kind.
Posted by: Jan Brumfield Pella, IA July 28, 2008
My brother is 45 yrs. old and has stage IV colon cancer. His sons are 5 yrs. old and 22 mos. old. When I saw Randy Pausch on Oprah, I thought, "I have to know more about this extraordinary man." So I researchd everything I could find on him to help me make sense of my brother's illness. Instead, it ended up helping me understand life. Rest in peace and know how many lives you touched in your short but "fully-lived" life.
Posted by: S. Knight Birmingham, AL July 28, 2008
First, my heart and prayers goes out to the Pausch family. I haven't heard of Randy until I read an article on his passing. Since then, I've done all my research to learn about his incredible life. I also purchased his "Last Lecture" book and finished it. Randy has truly inspired me to achieve my dreams and become a better person. I am truly saddened by his passing as he was an extraordinary person whom was a role model for all.
Posted by: Chih San Diego, CA July 28, 2008
I was deeply saddened to hear about the passing of Randy Pausch. Although I did not know him personally, he was an inspiration to me through his book and the way he lived his life. What a tragic loss of this treasure of a man. I aspire to have his optimistic attitude towards life, no matter what the situation presents. My sympathy to Jai and his children. Thank you for sharing him and his message with the world. His legacy will live on through his teachings.
Posted by: Michelle Farnsworth Salt Lake City, UT July 28, 2008
I am a reader, and had heard of the book 'The Last Lecture', but had not read it. On Friday, when I read of Randy Pausch's death and the story of his life, I immediately went to a bookstore for the book. I sat and read for an hour, and cried throughout. Then I watched the lecture online. I not only bought the book for myself, but also for my father, and read a large part of it to my boyfriend Friday evening. I am sincerely moved and inspired by Randy, and only hope that his story will help inspire others to lead happy, fulfilling lives. I send my condolences to the family at this hard time. But if these kids are anything like their Dad, they are going to be OK. You are all in my thoughts.
Posted by: Leanne July 28, 2008
It was with a great deal of sadness that I learned of Randy's passing. He was an inspiration to all of us and he will be greatly missed. My wife was going through life threatening cancer when Randy's "last lecture" came out and it helped all of us to reflect on "whats really important in life and to not wait to live out your dreams". Through his life and most certainly through the Last Lecture, Randy has left his wife and children a great legacy. How many of us can say that!! You will be missed Randy. I applaud your courage to share your life with the world in the face of your passing.
Posted by: Peter Ferguson London July 28, 2008
I never leave messages on line, so this is a first. Randy was also a first,last and only and when a bright light like his goes out, the earth is a sadder and dimmer place. I believe, however, partially as a result of his inspirational talks and examples, more lights will shine. Even though he never met any members of my family or friends, we have all been inspired by his actions and words. My heartfelt condolences to Jai and his children.
Posted by: S Boyle July 28, 2008
I lost my father to pancreatic cancer in December 2006. My fathers cancer was textbook to Randys Pausch. I remember my Dad and his frame of mind, it was not my father as I remembered him for 38years of my life. He told me he was "scared and not ready to go" those words will be with me forever. Randy was full of hope and left wonderful memeories for Jai and their childred. I have wonderful memories before his illness but in the end I would rather forget the last year of his life. Thank you Randy for your outlook and gifts to others...
Posted by: cheryl Royal Oak, MI July 28, 2008
Dear Jai, Logan, Dylan and Chloe, Thank you for sharing your husband and dad with all of us. While he was just being a great partner and dad to you he taught the rest of the world lessons that some people never dreamt possible. He changed my life. I truly believe that he will forever live in the hearts of millions. I know that he will be in mine. Through love and hope and determination you will always have your dad with you. And when you get older the legacies he left for you will amaze you. God Bless You and keep you in his everlasting love.
Posted by: Andrea Indiana, PA July 28, 2008
Thank you so much Randy for your last lecture. Your excellent advice and insights are something I will remember and reference for the rest of my life. I wish the best to your loving wife and children. How blessed they are to have you as their guardian angel.
Posted by: Sarah Richmond Fayetteville, AR July 28, 2008
After reading your book and watching your Last Lecture, I started to deny the existence of no-win situations. You showed us the way to fight already lost battles and finally you won the most important one - the campaign for virtousness, everlasting memory and the fight for our hearts. With due respect. PS: I told my children to start painting wishes and dreams on the walls of their rooms.
Posted by: Arndt Stroscher Fürstenfeldbruck - Germany July 28, 2008
An incredible man who lived a simple life and he asked for nothing in return. Randy found beauty in everything; that in itself is a legacy. Our heart and prayers go out to Randy's wife and children. What a beautiful legacy he left his family and all people. Listening to "The Last Lecture" and reading the book has profoundly changed our lives forever. Randy Pausch was a gift to all mankind.
Posted by: Tracy and Emily Sigfrid Minneapoilis, MN July 28, 2008
Dear Mrs. Pausch, I only "knew" your husband through the two lectures he gave late last year and his book, so while I have no memories to share, I am grateful to him for his excellent advice and you for unselfishly encouraging him to write the book with Mr. Zaslow. He may only have cared about the first three copies, but thanks to that book his intelligent zest for life has and will continue to inspire many to lead a more ambitiously hopeful existence. May God bless you and your children, now and in the years to come.
Posted by: Dennis South Bend, IN July 28, 2008
A miracle would have been appropriate to give this man more time with his lovely wife and children. It was not to be. I only learned about Randy Pausch and his life story one day after his passing away when my husband watched his "Last Lecture" online. I have since then thought about why the life of such an extraordinary human being has to end like this. It makes it hard to believe in any creator who is supposedly watching out for us. The only "sense" I could see in this tragedy is that without his illness he would not have given that lecture, a, he would not have written the book, he would not have spoken in front of Congress. He would not have helped to raise awarness for this horrible type of cancer for which research is so terribly underfunded. People like I would have never read up on pancreatic cancer and would not have donated money for research. If his life story will really lead to a cure or at least improved therapy against pancreatic cancer, maybe it will help make the loss a little bit more tolerable for his immediate family.
Posted by: Sandra Singapore July 28, 2008
To say I knew Randy is false. But through his lectures I felt like I'd known him my whole life. I'm so grateful for the day I found him. To say his words have been inspiring to me would be an understatement. I've spent too much of my life as an Eore and didn't really feel the Tigger inside of me. My kids will have permission to paint their walls, I just won my first jumbo stuffed animal and I now use the speaker phone function on my cell phone, thanks to him. ;^) Randy, you have made such an impact on this world and not only with computers. Thank you for reminding us to live our lives to the fullest. I know God is holding your family and close friends in the palm of His hand right now. May their grief soon turn to joy as they celebrate your life. May we all celebrate your legacy in our own lives and choose to be a Tigger everyday!
Posted by: Aaron McCullough Columbus, OH July 27, 2008
To Jai, Logan, Dylan and Chloe: Randy's courage was such an inspiration! I loved the photo of Chloe he posted, comparing her to Cindy Loo Who. His love of life and family was evident in the way he lived. An incredible man to share with the world the struggles of his disease. Thank you for sharing him with us!
Posted by: Susan Gardnerville, NV July 29, 2008
My daughter was in her first year of college at the University of Virginia. She called home one night and told me to watch this video on utube. I watched it immediately and was very inspired. She called home a few months later and was so excited because he was coming to the University to speak. She had just found out that he once taught at the University of Virginia. She thought we should go and I was so excited. I got there very early and there was a large line. She volunteered once a week at the cancer center at UVA hospital and was going to have to sprint over to meet me and make the lecture. I called her and told her about the line and she told me to get in if I could and she would get there as soon as she could. I got in and saved her a seat. Both our lives were touched that day!! What an amazing man! We both sat with tears in our eyes a different points in the lecture. We are both so glad we make it in Old Cabell Hall that day. Our prayers are for his wife and kids. You were blessed to have him and we were blessed to experience a small part of him.
Posted by: Mollie Blackard Fishersville, VA July 28, 2008
I once read a book why to bad things happen to good people... it makes me think of Randy. God must need him for some other devine plan in heaven to change the world with him. He has changed people in this world to be more kind, thoughful, and appreciative-no one will be the same without him. His work has only just begun. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and children. To Randy, my children will be painting their rooms someday! Thank you!
Posted by: Jill Izydorczak Buffalo, NY July 28, 2008
Hearing of Randy passing was like a brick hit me, the world has truly lost a great man but he has left us all with a great gift about life.I re lessened to all of is lectures, I am a TIGGER! To Jai and the children my heart goes out to you. Randy Pausch was an amazing man.
Posted by: carmel grace Montreal,Qc July 28, 2008
I am so sadden that our world has lost such a great man. Randy touched us all and only good will come from his life and the love he had for his family and friends. I'm just a fan of his and the most impressive thing he did was doing his push ups on stage. That was great!
Posted by: Jacalyn Sue Greene Athens, TN July 27, 2008
I recently lost my husband to pancreatic cancer. I watched Randy's video and read his book. It was truly an inspiration to me. My heart breaks for Jai and her three children. My thoughts and prayers are with them as they too go through the grieving process.
Posted by: Sandy Waterman Tampa, FL July 27, 2008
I would just like to say Randy Pausch touched my heart and soul. I will never forget him and all that he taught us about living life, karma, apologies, childhood dreams, and most of all how to love. I hope to pass his knowledge on to my kids and tell his story, so that his legacy will live on. I pray for his wife Jai and his three beautiful children that they find comfort in our Lord. He expressed to all the world how much he loved them! I pray they find comfort knowing he is in heaven, healthy and waiting for them.
Posted by: Linda Hassler Ripon, CA July 27, 2008
Wow, it warms my heart to know that God has another ANGEL, but it is so frustrating to know that THIS man is no longer with us. It was a pillar in our COUNTRY..He left you with something even if you didn't meet him physically. Sending our prayers to his wife and children. He is YOUR GUARDIAN...
Posted by: Dorothy Daniel, Fort Hood, TX July 27, 2008
Jai you have my deepest condolences. Randy sure did have a way of teaching people to LIVE every moment. I have you and the children in my prayers. The world has lost a great teacher. You've been blessed to have been married,and loved by him. Your children they will remember what they know,and the legacy that Randy has left to them, they have been blessed with a wonderful father. May God hold you and yours in the Palms of His hands. God Bless you all.
Posted by: Mary IL July 27, 2008
My heart breaks for Jai and the children. You are all so lucky to have had Randy in your lives, and he is gone way too soon. Thankfully you and the children have the tapes that he made for all of you. Randy came into all of our lives so suddenly, and made such a huge impact. God bless all of you; you're all in my thoughts and prayers.
Posted by: Judy Goldberg Atlanta, GA July 27, 2008
I first learned of Randy Pausch when a co-worker sent me the link to his last lecture video. It was just amazing and I could see that Randy was someone very special. I started following his homepage, and was inspired by the humor that he showed throughout his fight with this awful cancer. After a month went by without a posting, I knew the end must be near. I will miss those entries of Randy and his family's life, and the warmth that it spread to me and to others. I wish there were more people like you in the world Randy. Please be our advocate up in heaven. I can't think of anyone better qualified. Jai and family, my heartfelt thoughts and prayers go out to you. May God bless you and keep you safe.
Posted by: Karen Marlette Manassas, VA July 27, 2008
Jai, you have lost your best friend, life's partner, and there are millions who cry with and for you. I am warmed by the sheer numbers who people in this world who care, who live life and who love, especially as all we seem to read in the papers are story after story of atrocities that occur all over the world. Randy Pausch was an amazing man, to have written what many of us feel, and know to be true. I have terminal cancer, and i am 42 years old. The dreams were and are different but the story the same. Read and believe everyone, that life is to be LOVED and LIVED, and then it is as beautiful in todays world as it is described to be on the other side. I am sad, very, very sad, for the Pausch family. There is just no sense to be made of the fact that we must die. It just is, and it is awfully hard when you are left behind. How does one find happiness again after such a great love? Warm regards, Amrit, Perth, Australia
Posted by: amrit perth, Australia July 27, 2008
No words can express the profound sadness the world is feeling right now. We have lost a great person! We find comfort in his words, wisdom and kindenss that he has left behind and need to teach the next generations to come Randy's lecture. To his family our deepest condolences and respect for living your hardest moments in the public eye. Carry on his message and know that he left a huge legacy in real time and in history!
Posted by: The Wuebbolt Family Toronto, Ontario, Canada July 27, 2008
randy pausch. i was inspired by you. i wrote in to readers digest about you, this was before you passed. when i found out you had died i cried for hours, i never met you but you had a power that made me change my outlook in life. i would have loved to meet you. april barber.xx rip
Posted by: april barber west wyalong July 27, 2008
Jai and family- please know that you're in the thoughts of millions as you come to terms with your tragic loss. My heartfelt thanks to you for sharing your precious final months with Randy with the rest of the world--it is truly a gift that will keep on giving. I feel extraordinarily privileged to have known of this fine human being and feel the loss of a brother, a teacher, and a friend in his passing even though I never met him. You're in my prayers. Dear Randy--I know angels are escorting you to your next adventure. Happy travels...you will be missed dearly.
Posted by: Supriya Portland, OR July 27, 2008
This is indeed a sad day. I didn't know Dr. Pausch personally but, like so many others,I admired his honesty, love of life, and his great love for his wife and children. His "Last Lecture" reached not only his students but made students of us all and inspired us to reach our own dreams. He was the consummate educator. As an educator myself, I hope to take his lessons and pass them along to my own students. My prayers and thoughts are with Dr. Pausch's family. He will be missed.
Posted by: Mary Villanueva Portland, TX July 27, 2008
I was so sad to read on Randy's updates that he passed away yesterday, but I am comforted by the fact that Randy lived every day to the fullest and I can only hope to do the same. He was an inspiration to many and will be missed by all. My thoughts are with his family.
Posted by: Cathi Edmonton July 27, 2008
I never met Professor Randy Pausch, but saw his story on the internet. I was so amazed by Professor Pausch that I downloaded and watched his Last Lecture. He is an inspiration. I hope that I can someday live my life with the same enthusiam, trust and faith in the Lord, that he had, even knowing that his life was coming to an end. I admire his wife for the strength that she posses, being able to remain stoic under such incredible circumstances. Even never meeting Professor Pausch, I will miss him. Through his interviews, Last Lecture, and daily blog, I feel that I have been given the privilege of knowing a wonderful person. I pray for Mrs. Pausch and their children. May the Lord be your strength through this trying and devastating time in your lives. My heart is with you.
Posted by: S. Bellue Atascadero, CA July 27, 2008
My continuing thoughts for Jai and children. This world will be a little less without Randy. During his short life here, he has touched so many lives in such a profound way! I have shared his website with everyone that I know and feel blessed to have it to share. The "Last Lecture" changed my life in a very positive way. It gave me permission to go ahead and go for my dreams. To snap out of drudgery and realize that anything is possible, and sing it with a song in my heart. Following your dreams can be spooky but the trip is worth it. The years ahead for Randy's family will not be easy, but I am sure that Randy has done his level best (which is far better than most other's) to assure his family of all the comfort that can be given in such hard circumstances. It has been a blessing and a privilege to have known of some of his work.
Posted by: Cynthia Walters Norman, OK July 26, 2008
I first saw him on The Oprah Winfrey Show & was in tears. To face death in such a positive way is a lesson to us all. May your family draw strength from the inner strength you had. Your legacy will live on for many, many generations. I hope & pray we will all continue to be inspired by you.
Posted by: Linda UK July 27, 2008
We feel like we lost someone whom we knew personally. Randy helped me and my wife who is now a cancer survivor see our new life in very positive way. We have read his book and viewed his Last Lecture and will do so many more times ahead. You will never know how many lives you affected in such a wonderful way. Thank you Randy for your inspiration and encouragement. Well done and rest in eteranl peace. Our hearts and condolences go out to Jai and your children.
Posted by: T.Kirk Houston, TX July 27, 2008
To each generation comes a person whose philosophies transcend the ordinary and touches people in a profound way. Those who have read or heard Dr. Pausch's "The Last Lecture," know that he left his mark on this world in a way very few people have. He will be remembered among those of our greatest souls. The loss of someone so uniquely wonderful is heart wrenching, but we are better for having heard his message. The heart never truly heals after such a devestating loss, yet his words will echo in our hearts and aid us to living our lives like Tiggers. My thoughts and heart is with Jai and their children-may his love for you help you get climb that wall instead of letting it stop you.
Posted by: Jodi Hunt Syracuse, NY July 26, 2008
We never met, but I feel like I knew you personally. My heart aches, even today, the day after you passed from this life to the next, even 3 months after hearing about you for the first time and reading your book and preparing myself for your passing. Tears fall freely. I became a better person through your words and your insight. I am saddened for Jai and the children, and my prayers are with them at this time. My solace lays in knowing that you're not sick anymore. Randy, you became my friend, you became my inspiration, you became my hero. Thank you, thank you, thank you. I look forward to the day in Heaven when I get to meet you and hug you and thank you face to face. Rest in peace friend.
Posted by: Molly Mormon CT July 27, 2008
My thoughts and prayers go out to the Pausch family. I first heard of this story on Oprah's show and how moving it was for my family and myself. I wish his family a lot of love right now in these trying hard times and just know he is with are wonderful Lord and Savior.
Posted by: Sunny Cure Hemet, CA July 27, 2008
Jai, I know Randy to be a very special person from reading his book to my husband, listening to his "last lecture" on the web and checking his blog every day. I know this Tributes.com web site is a place to honor our memory of Randy but I want to pay tribute to you, his primary caregiver, best friend and mother of his and your three small children. You have been a silent inspiration to me, a caregiver to my husband who has been fighting back against cancer. I am exhausted without a recent move, loss of a spouse or responsibility for the needs of 3 small children. I trust the fact that you have been an inspiration to caregivers will give you a smidgen of comfort. It was evident from everything he wrote and said that he cherished you and loved his children.
Posted by: Carole Kilcher Burleson, TX July 27, 2008
Jai and family, So sorry about your loss of a truly remarkable man. I watched Randy's lecture, read his book and read his web page. I had hoped and prayed that he would beat the cancer or at least survive a while longer. He was such an inspiration to so many people. My father and a 46 yr. old brother both died of pancreatic cancer over 30 yrs ago. There have not been any breakthroughs in all those years as Randy had ststed in his address to congress. Randy was blessed to have you and his children if only for such a short time. But he left a lifetime of memories. The world has been blessed by his life. May his strength and inspiration help you now and in the future. Thoughts and prayers are with you.
Posted by: Barbara Pompano Beach, FL July 27, 2008
Words cannot express the sadness I feel for Jai and Randy's children. I have followed his website and looked forward to hearing updates always with the hope that something would be discovered that would help in his struggle against pancreatic cancer. I am so sorry that this was not the case. Randy has left a wonderful legacy to his wife and children but I am so sorry they have to endure this pain. Please know there are many who hold you in their thoughts everyday. I will miss Randy posts.
Posted by: Barbara Le Breton Lombard, IL July 27, 2008
Thank you, Randy Pausch, for setting such a high standard in the face of such great adversity. After having read your book and heard your lecture, thousands of people throughout the world have re-evaluated and re-prioritized their lives. No words can describe the magnitude of that gift. To all who knew and loved this very special man personally, may you be comforted by those in your circle of friends and family who can share in the very special recollections of this unique human being.
Posted by: Susan A. CA July 26, 2008
I was deeply touched by Randy's lectures, which I've watched online. I'm glad his thoughts have influenced so many - it's just very sad that this came so late in his life. The example of his life, his words and actions continue to make a profound difference to people around the world, though. I'd like to extend my sympathy and best wishes to his family, friends and colleagues. He seemed such a lovely guy, wise and unassuming, and the world is a poorer place now that he's no longer with us.
Posted by: Rosie Clarke London, UK July 26, 2008
I learned about Randy from the Oprah show. He had my attention immediately. As a nurse, I experience death and dying for a living. Randy so inspired me to help others find the most positive and precious moments left in their lives and to share their struggles. He helped me view life with more meaning and death with more purpose. A truly blessed and gifted man.
Posted by: Susan Portland, OR July 26, 2008
I really hope that Randy's family gets the chance to read these tributes. They will know how much he was loved all over the world. I appreciate so much the reminder to grab life by the horns and really live. I think Randy lived more in the last few years of his life than many do in their entire time on this earth. I am so inspired by his positive attitude in the wake of such opposition. To his family, I know this is a difficult time, but you can be assured that Randy's legacy will live on for a very long time. Having a young child myself, I can't imagine what it would be like for three kids to lose their father. I hope that the impact he had on the world will be of some comfort. Thank you for sharing him with us. Many lives have been changed for the better because of Randy Pausch.
Posted by: Lisa Chino Hills, CA July 26, 2008
A person who shocked, motivated, embarrassed and made me happy. When i want to look at strong people i look at handicapped people or people like Randy Pausch. They act like they have no problems. They teach everybody the lessons of life and how to maintain the smile that everyone forgets so fast. This person will always stay in my mind thanks Randy Pausch & Rest in Peace
Posted by: Ibrahim Oezcan Duesseldorf July 26, 2008
Thursday night, I was reading The Last Lecture. I was about to read the last chapter and I couldn't. I was worried that if I read the last chapter and he passed, it would be too emotional for me. So I put the book down, and couldn't sleep. I turned the light back on and wrote the following. Thank you Randy for your inspiration. I am confident you are in a beautiful place. A Place of Beauty One day, I became a beautiful white dove. On that day, my only desire was to fly high into the heavens. As I did, I found the hands of my Lord, cupped together. And there I landed. Resting in His love and peace. A place of serenity. I had no desire to ever leave this place of beauty. As I raised my eyes to look into His face, I knew at that moment I could not stay. It was not my time to stay. He thrust His hands up sharply to make me fly away. To be here, with you. A place of beauty... To be here with you. ~Kimberley Ann Parfitt
Posted by: Kimberley Ann Parfitt Oakmont, PA July 26, 2008
Jai, My Heart is broken for your loss, but it also rejoices because of what you and your Family have in your lives because of this man. I wish I knew you. I would like to be Friends with someone with the courage, strength and Heart that you have. I will keep you all in my prayers. Your story has changed my life... Susan
Posted by: Susan Knoxville, TN July 26, 2008
After seeing "The Last Lecture" on Diane Sawyer I was moved and inspired. I read the book and shared it with my father as well, it in many ways helped heal our pain from losing my mother to this disease. My thoughts and prayers, as well as my deepest sympathy go out to Jai and the kids.
Posted by: Sheila Eckersley Calgary, AB July 26, 2008
I first heard Randy's story when ABC announced him as their "Person of The Week". I was so moved by his spirit, his passion for living I thought I have to write to this man to pass along words of encouragement and I must confess information on alternative modalities for cancer. (Something I later discovered he said not to do ;)) I kept checking in on this wonderful soul who touched so many of us with his inspirational message praying he would be spared an untimely exit. Two days ago prior to his death I looked over at a man who was smiling at me who looked the exact image of Randy, I thought he looks just like Randy Pausch, then I began to cry. It is only now that I pause and wonder about the magnificence of spirit and how that encounter felt like a hello and a thank you from beyond that transcended time. We all have been blessed by this shooting star that illuminated what is truly important in life and unites us still by his example and his love. Godspeed dear one.
Posted by: Michelina Malibu, CA July 26, 2008
Wow! What an inspiration, what a hero and role model! Randy didn't think of himself that way, but he profoundly touched my heart and made me stop and examine how much I have taken for granted and the great potential we all have within. My heartfelt condolences to Jai, the three children, his mom, sister and all of Randy's other loved ones and friends. Grace and peace always.
Posted by: David Carrboro, NC July 26, 2008
To Randy's Children: You are blessed to have your Dad's eternal energy flowing through you and by talking about him you will feel his presence always. What a great man he is! And your mother will feel you and your dad's energy every time you hug her. May it be often and much.
Posted by: E Huggins Toronto July 26, 2008
I only really have one memory of Randy Pausch. My memory of Randy is watching his wonderful last lecture to his students on YouTube. I learned so much from that one speech. He left me inspired and hungry for life. Thank You for being a shining example to all of us. My thoughts and prayers go to your family.
Posted by: Azhar Nawaz July 26, 2008
Our world has lost an exceptionally gifted teacher,scientist and human being. Mrs. Pausch and Logan,Dylan and Chloe have lost a loving husband and Dad. Many people have been praying for this precious family in the past months. We will continue to pray as we ask God to give Mrs. Pausch the courage and strengh to live the words of The Last Lecture.
Posted by: Susan KY July 26, 2008
I am only 17 years old & Learned about Randy through my very good friend & teacher Betty in April. She told me to watch this thing with Diane Sawyer. Unfortunatly I was only able to watch the last half hour. But I saw it & was touched. Since then I have followed his story, saw many parts of the lecture & Read the book within 4 days. I was hooked on Randy. He was a great many. To many of us, it feels like we have lost a best friend. I wish I had meet him. I got a txt yesterday morning from my teacher & said, He died ashlyn, he was only 47. At first I had no idea who she was talking about, & Iwas still half asleep. But I asked who died? And she said The professor, my heart immediatly dropped & got on the enternet. You were a great man, & have changed many lives including mine. You've taught me while Im still young how to deal with a lot. Thank you for everything. Jai, & kids, Thank you for sharing him with all of us. And Jai, you & your family are in my thoughts & prayers. Much love.
Posted by: Ashlyn Rich Orland, CA July 26, 2008
What a truly remarkable & inspiring individual Randy Pausch was. When I first heard him speak about 5 months ago, my concerns seemed so trivial by comparison to the challenges he was facing. His enthusiasm for life and the soulful wisdom with which he recognized that disappointments in life are opportunities for growth and a deepening of "spirit" and compassion, are lessons that will stay with me always. My heart is heavy with the sense of sorrow and loss that those who knew him personally must feel at this time, especially his wife and children. Thank you, Randy, for sharing yourself with the world!
Posted by: Bernadette MacLeod Dunvegan, Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia, Canada July 26, 2008
I loved viewing The Last Lecture and reading the book. It gave me a lot to think about. I so admired Randy's outlook and courage. Almost every day I would check the website for updates and loved how Randy even called his experience with this relentless disease an "adventure." My husband also died of pancreatic cancer at age 46, leaving me with 5 dependent children. Every year, I try to get each of my children some type of gift from their father. This year, I got a copy of Randy's book for each of them, and signed the card "from Dad." I hope that Randy's family will find comfort in each other at this sad time, and know how blessed they are to have had these wonderful years with their husband and dad,knowing that they will see him again someday, and that he is still watching over the family he loved so much.
Posted by: Diane Johnson Barnhart, MO July 26, 2008
The world is a better place because of Randy Pausch. I know all to well the journey you have experienced, as I lost my father to pancreatic cancer just a week after Randy was diagnosed. Randy was an amazing man who inspired so many people and made each of us a better person. He is now in a world of no pain and suffering and will forever be an angel to watch over you all. He lives in you all! He has taught us all to be a Tigger. Thank you Randy Pausch and the Pausch Family for making me a better person. Randy Pausch may you now rest in peace.
Posted by: Michelle Long Charleston, SC July 26, 2008
Pancreatic cancer took Randy Pausch, but he has left a lasting legacy that illness cannot take. I have been touched and inspired by his words, his strenth, his passion and his optimism. He has put words to that which I would want my own son to hear. Thank you Randy, and rest in peace.
Posted by: Pamela McClelland - Ontario July 26, 2008
I heard of Randy around 6 months ago, and right away bought the DVD and book. He is truly an inspiration to us all. I am so sorry for his loved ones. To lose someone you are close to is awful, but to lose such a bright light is truly a tragedy. My heart goes out to you all. Much prayers and love for you.
Posted by: Michelle from Cincy Cincinnati, OH July 26, 2008
Randy Pausch's words in his lecture and book have left a lasting legacy, not only for his children, but for the millions who heard and/or read them. I am just one of the millions. I am saddened for his family and friends who now grieve his loss. I am thankful for the great sacrifice of time together that he and his wife made so that the world could benefit from his insights and inspiration. May Randy's great love be felt in a deep way by his children all of their lives.
Posted by: Karen July 26, 2008
Jai, Dylan, Logan and Chloe - What an incredible family you are and while the hand you've been dealt from this day on is not what you want, I know the way you deal with it will be filled with the ability to survive and thrive. Isn't the internet a wonderful thing! Randy will be with you forever, as will he be for those of us who never even knew him, but will remember his words and positive love of life and apply what we can to ours. My sadness for all of you and those that were priviledged to be touched by him feels as if it's ok because all of you have been given the greatest gift ever from Randy, the lesson of how to live,love, lose and grow. My thoughts for you now are just one in millions and I've never felt the urge to do this but wanted his family to know I recognize how lucky you all are, someday - but not today. Lots of thoughts, prayers and peace as you get through the time ahead.
Posted by: D. Russ Dunedin, FL July 26, 2008
There are no words that I can use to express my sadness for the loss of such a man. A man who forever changed my life and the lives of millions of people all around the world. Randy was and will always be one of the biggest and best inspirations in my life. Randy taught me that: "Experience is what you get when you don't get what you want," and to tell the truth all the time. Randy, you will be missed so much and my love and prayers go to the Pausch Family.
Posted by: Megan PA July 26, 2008
My mother-in-law passed away from pancreatic cancer in April 2007. Since seeing Randy on Oprah, we have followed his struggle with this disease. When I heard the news of Randy's passing I felt as if we had lost her all over again. There are not many people who given the news of a terminal illness can live with passion as Randy did. He will never know how many lives he has touched, our thoughts and prayers go out ot his family and friends. He will forever live on in our hearts.
Posted by: WHL Cincinnati, OH July 26, 2008
I had just finished with Randy's book when I heard of his passing. I can tell he was a great man and father and he will truley be missed by all the lifes he touched. Even if I do not know him it just feel's like you do. Jai, I know you will have a long rode ahead of you dealing with everything and taking care of your children, but I want you to know it will get better with time. I was only 28 when my husband died suddenly leaving me with 3 childrn to raise. This was 13 years ago and were all ok! Take it day by day and I know it will not be easy but you can do it. You have 3 good reason's why. My thoughts and prayers are with you always!
Posted by: Karen July 26, 2008
There are not words to describe the heart felt sorrow that I know his family is feeling today. But he was right in his book about being able to have the time to say goodbye. The last year will be one that his children and wife will never forget. My heart goes out to them. I lost my husband unexpectedly one year ago and the not say goodbye is awful. Jai all I can say is let the love you two share be you strength. I know as much as you will miss him you are also glad that he is no longer in pain. He was an amazing person, but no one has to tell you that. May God keep you all in the palm of his hand in the day, weeks, and months to come. god
Posted by: Deborah Lynn Smith summerville, SC July 26, 2008
Randy, You taught us all so much about living life to its fullest, about living for excellence, intelligence and peace. Now we mourn - a time we were hoping against hope for as we kept abreast of your tests and numbers (even if we weren't sure what they meant but we could gauge by your blog if it was good news). Thank you for all you gave - 110% and we pray that Jai and the kids will feel that they can lean on us - your long distance friends you never met, now and in the future. I only hope that one day I can meet you on the 'other side' and hear of lectures you have written since the time of your passing from this realm. Peace and Love
Posted by: Connie Kaylor Nashville, TN July 26, 2008
Last night I came home from the rehearsal dinner for my son's wedding. It was an evening full of joy and celebration. Randy gave me that. His lecture gave me the opportunity for the first time in my life to live in the now, to be a tigger, to embrace life. He truly was in my thoughts with gratitude. My most sincere thoughts of strength and unity goes to all his loved ones. And to Randy - Thank you
Posted by: Bev Sapp Greeley, CO July 26, 2008
I learned of Randy Pausch through the Oprah show, immediately bought his book and watched his online lecture. There aren't too many people in the world today that one can credit with changing their lives, but Randy did that for me. I re-examined my own life and relationships with those close to me, and I am choosing to live the rest of my days with passion and Tigger-ishness. Thank you Randy. You lived so humbly and yet how could you ever know the difference and impact you have made on so many -- all the while, your focus was on your children and lessons you wanted them to have. I shed tears today because they will know you through your words and videos but are robbed of so many memories that we all take for granted with our own families. From the bottom of my heart, thank you for showing us so much light and love in your darkest hour. Rest in peace, your work is done now and you can go home. Godspeed.
Posted by: Mel Ottawa July 26, 2008
Just a thank you from a bladder cancer survivor. Randy was such an inspiration to me. My cancer had invaded the lymph nodes, but after 2 years I am well & thankful. To his family my deepest sympathy and thoughts. To the Mrs.: he appeared to love you sooo much. How lucky you are to have experienced that. My thoughts, Margie
Posted by: Margie Crabtree Greensboro, NC July 26, 2008
You treated the light things in life very seriously, and the serious things very lightly. You practiced the highest of arts — the art of living, the art of life itself. My personal tribute is here: view link
Posted by: Subbaraman Iyer July 26, 2008
Dear Randy, dear Family Pausch, we saw your lecture on the internet and were like all others here touched, impressed and inspired. You managed to show us in beautiful and simple words what is important in life and therefore I feel grateful to have seen it. Thank You for your way of beeing and for your advice. May your love and wisdom accompany your wife and children in these hard times. Heaven needs people like you to turn them into angels. We will miss you!
Posted by: Nicoleta Beck, Germany Munich July 26, 2008
Randy, thank you for selfishly sharing your life and your death with the world. Your inspiration and honesty have truly touched so many. You have truly given so much of yourself to help others learn how to give more of themselves to others. May you truly enjoy peace now and may your wife and children also feel your peace and love forever.
Posted by: MAMR Houston, TX July 26, 2008
Thank You to Randy and his wife for sharing your love of life and one another with us. Anyone who heard the ideas expressed by Mr. Pausch can only love deeper and care stronger than before. I know that your loss is great and your grief painful. My condolences. Please know that we who lives are touched by yours share your loss and feel your grief. God bless you and comfort you
Posted by: The Henry Brown Family Houma, LA July 26, 2008
I am a better person after reading Randy's book and listening to his last lecture. I have followed his website from the beginning and am saddened today by his passing. His wonderful spirit and legacy will live on. His family will be comforted in knowing he was loved by so many people who hardly knew him. He was an extraordinary man and will remain in all of our hearts forever. Jain and the children will be in my prayers. God Bless Randy Pausch.
Posted by: Rosanne New Fairfield, CT July 26, 2008
Dear Randy, dear Pausch family...i have been following your webblog for months, each day checking how you were. Im devastated to read about your death this morning and im sitting in front of my laptop crying. I want you and your family to know that you are an incredible inspiration to me...each day im trying to have fun, to do the things which really matters. Whenever i see my 19 months old daughter painting the walls in her room, im thinking of you and im smiling. You really touched my life, my heart and i will never forget what you have taught us and i will be trying hard to achieve my childhood dreams... I wish your wife and children all the strenght, the comfort by their family to go thru this....im sure you will be their guardian angel in heaven watching over them. Thank you for everything that you shared with us....you will be missed deeply
Posted by: Nicola Barcelona,Spain July 26, 2008
A friend emailed me the lecture and I was hooked! His words and easy going manner made him an "Instant Friend" I found his website and visited regularily..and took comfort in his posting...Knowing that he was still doing well...but, I saw this coming..the postings were less frequent and further apart and I had actually said it out loud......my friend is dying and he is spending this time with his family, as it should be. My sister called me late this evening and asked me if I had heard.....and I had not! I had not watch TV or gotten on my computer today.....She was upset......she also said she felt like she lost a friend. I/we can only imagine the lost his family must feel......The Pausch family and friends are all in my prayers. The world is emptier and the heavens richer indeed in his arrival. Are hearts ache for your loss. Vaya con dios
Posted by: Valerie Leon San Leandro, CA July 26, 2008
I haven't met him in person, didn't even know about him up to an hour ago when I firstly heard his last speech, but it didn't take long to make me bow down in front of his true and strong spirit. He surely had a lot to show the world and I hope his words reach as many people out there as possible. Rest in peace!
Posted by: Nikolay Kolev July 26, 2008
I learned of your fight Randy about 7 months ago when my mom emailed me the video of your "Last Lecture". As a 32 year old father of 3 myself, the idea of knowing you only have 6 months to live brought tears to my eyes. But beyond that, your words and viewpoint has been a service to us all; no matter what walk of life we lead. I thank you for bringing perspective to my own life as well as the life of others. You are truly a credit to the human race and I pray for your family. Your ultimate goal was to leave a "message in a bottle for your children" and through your words I'm sure you have comforted them forever. You will not be forgotten.
Posted by: Scott Tucson, AZ July 26, 2008
My 12 year old son bought with his own money the Last Lecture for us around Fathers day, sorry that we are only 3/4 quaters of the way done. It's late here, but I had to wake my son and let him know the "Randy" had passed on. It was hard for me to do, but coming so soon after my Mothers passing in February I guess it was easier for me. I greive for you, Mr. Paucsh's family. I won't pretend that I had known of your loved one with the exception of his book. I won't try to assuage your grief at his passing with whatever banal words my mind can come up with. All I am able to do is relate to you that Mr. Pausch did touch my life, the life really of my entire family, as reading his book aloud to my wife and children has become the norm here. I imagine that such words will fail to keep you warm at night, and yet for me at least sitting here in the comfort of my home, that some stranger living across the country could reach out and touch our hearts is truely a miricle of love. Requiescat in pace Randy Pausch
Posted by: Heine Family Franklin, WI July 26, 2008
Randy Pausch has changed the course of my life and my childrens' lives. I look at everything differently- take it as it is and "play the hand I am dealt" with humor, grace, and love. Remembering to be a "Tigger" and to "introduce the elephants in the room." My children will be able to paint their rooms whatever colors they want, and I'll tell them they have you to thank for that. How often is it in our lives we get the oppertunity to change millions of peoples attitudes and perspectives- Thank you Randy, for taking that oppertunity and playing your hand well. I know the world will miss you and we pray for your family.
Posted by: Amber Wilkerson Visalia, CA July 26, 2008
I first heard of Dr. Pausch through my friend who is also my haircutter. I came home that day and looked for everything I could find regarding him, including listening to and watching his lecture. What a man, what an inspiration, and along with millions of other people I somehow feel, with tears flowing as I write, that I have lost a friend. I can't begin to imagine the great loss for Jai and their children and the rest of the family. Dr. Pausch made a deep impact on my own life just in his sharing of "The Last Lecture", and for that I say thank you. You will never be forgotten.
Posted by: Will Byrd Concord, CA July 26, 2008
I am deeply saddened and at the same time tremendously honored to be invited through this link to recognize such a positive man and powerful teacher of life's most important and valued lessons. Randy's legacy and his truths rang true in my life for me as they have for countless others. I have read EVERYTHING I could find over the internet, U-Tube, TV and Dr. Pausch's best selling book ever since I learned of him a few months ago as he fought the battle of his life mostly for his children and his wife, Jai. I did not know of Randy before the "Last Lecture", but I can tell you his words moved and inspired me to new levels in my own life. I have repeatedly watched his interviews, lectures, talks and written word again and again. My heart goes out to Randy's courageous and beautiful wife, Jai and there beautiful children. What blessed children they are to have such a wonderful daddy and mommy. All of you will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers! I so hoped that Randy would miraculously have beat this awful disease. Please accept my deepest condolences as you grieve and celebrate his all too short life on this earth. And thank you, Randy" for being that amazing instrument of God's peace for all of us, through your words and by your amazing example of hope. You will be missed by ALL of us, even by those of us who never were privileged to know you personally.
Posted by: Mary Vallelonga Scottsdale, AZ July 26, 2008
I was saddened by the tragic news of Prof.Pausch's death. His courage really touched and changed a view of my life with my own chronic illness. Even though my illness is not life threatening, my daily pain is so agonizing that I was becoming a bitter and an angry person, but his speech about "having fun, enjoying living and loving" showed me that it is all up to me how to "perceive and interpret my illness." It is so easy to get defeated by difficult issues, such as illness, in life, but through his courageous fight, he prooved that "IT IS POSSIBLE TO HAVE FUN, ENJOY LIFE, AND LOVE" no matter what the circumstance in life is. It is all up to me how perceive/interpret it and to react to it. I will always remember his inspiring/life changing speeches for the rest of my life. He is my true hero. Prof. Pusch will be sorely missed. M. Kolbenschlag
Posted by: M. Kolbenschlag July 26, 2008
I am deeply saddened and at the same time tremendously honored to be invited through this link to recognize such a positive man and powerful teacher of life's most important and valued lessons. Randy's legacy and his truths rang true in my life for me as they have for countless others. I have read EVERYTHING I could find over the internet, U-Tube, TV and Dr. Pausch's best selling book ever since I learned of him a few months ago as he fought the battle of his life mostly for his children and his wife, Jai. I did not know of Randy before the "Last Lecture", but I can tell you they moved and inspired me to new levels in my on life. I have repeatedly watched his interviews, lectures, talks and written word again and again. My heart goes out to Randy's courageous and beautiful wife, Jai and there beautiful children. What blessed children they are to have a Daddy and mommy. All of you will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers! I so hoped that Randy would miraculously have beat this awful disease. Please accept my deepest condolences as you grieve and celebrate his all too short life on this earth. And thank you, Randy" for being that amazing instrument of God's peace for all of us, through your words and by your amazing example of hope. You will be missed by ALL of us, even by those of us who never were privileged to know you personally.
Posted by: Mary Vallelonga Scottsdale, AZ July 26, 2008
At this moment, all I can say is Thank You...thank you...thank you. Your view on life has taught me how to live my life, for the sake of my children. At a time when I was facing some of the toughest times, your lesson taught me how to live my life and be the best mother and example for my children that I can be. Thank you. My prayers and thoughts are with the Pausch family.
Posted by: Ruth July 26, 2008
Today I feel as if I lost a very good friend. I figured that Randy was losing his battle with pancreatic cancer when I kept checking his website and his last posting showed the same date of June 26, 2008. I can identify with Randy's family because I lost my mom to pancreatic cancer almost 10 years ago. My mom was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer 6 days before she passed away. Randy met this horrible disease head-on. May his spirit and love of life, and mostly his love of his family be a guide for all of us in what is truly important to us in life----and in death. May you rest in peace. I shall remember you always.
Posted by: Arline Tepper-Trister Thousand Oaks, CA July 26, 2008
Nothing has ever touched me as watching this beautiful man face the challenge before him with such courage, and joy for life. A life he wanted to share with his family. His family will always have wonderful memories of him and can be sure that he, at this time is watching over them, healthy, strong and waiting for the time when he will be with his wife and children once more. Be strong and remember him often, be inspired by him and live your life to the fullest.
Posted by: Irene Bates Huntington Park, CA July 26, 2008
Randy Pausch was a gift to us here in this world filled with pain as well as beauty. We are blessed to have known of somebody who placed so much emphasis and value on the BEAUTY, rather than the pain. His wisdom and his presence will be sorely missed. I truly wish I had in myself, the passion for life that he possesed--and I would have loved to debate with him, just this type of unjustifiable situation which makes the world so unfair; and at times, unbearable. I know he would have had some great things about it. Randy's words changed the lives of many, and as long as his word gets out there in the world and stays out there, we have a fighting chance at happiness in life. Remember that LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL. Absolutely my whole heart goes out to Randy's beautiful family, he and they will undoubtedly be in my thoughts and prayers.
Posted by: Ally Turner July 26, 2008
What a loving man God gave to Jai, his children and the world. I am thankful for his book that I too have shared with loved ones. I am a Mantle Cell Lymphoma survivor of five years and cancer free going on 10 months. I too have been through hell and back. I am 47 and have a loving husband a 14 yr old son and a 23 yr old step-daughter. I now consider myself a "Tigger". May God Bless you Jai and your family. I have read in the Bible that our loved ones can see us and pray for us everyday. Randy is still watching you Jai and your lovely family. My prayers are with you and your family as they have been since Randy wrote the "Last Lecture". May you continue to have faith and strength to get you through the next day, weeks, months and years. God's Blessings Always ~ Jena in Austin, Texas
Posted by: Jena Kokas Austin, TX July 26, 2008
What a loving man God gave to Jai, his children and the world. I am thankful for his book that I too have shared with loved ones. I am a Mantle Cell Lymphoma survivor of five years and cancer free going on 10 months. I too have been through hell and back. I am 47 and have a loving husband a 14 yr old son and a 23 yr old step-daughter. I now consider myself a "Tiger". May God Bless you Jai and your family. I have read in the Bible that our loved ones can see us and pray for us everyday. Randy is still watching you Jai and your lovely family. My prayers are with you and your family as they have been since Randy wrote the "Last Lecture". May you continue to have faith and strength to get you through the next day, weeks, months and years. God's Blessings Alway ~ Jena in Austin, Texas
Posted by: Jena Kokas Austin, TX July 26, 2008
I was driving to work this morning when i heard Professor Pausch had passed away. Although I knew the day would come I was still very shocked and saddened. I shed a tear for Jai and the children. His book and lectures are an inspiration to all. Because of him I will try everday to be a better human being. Thank you Randy, for your thoughts, lessons and bravery.
Posted by: V. Godinez San Jose, CA July 26, 2008
His humor and passion for life reminds me very much of my husband, Larry, who died from pancreatic cancer on Christmas eve 2007. May his family find comfort in their loss of such a brilliant, giving and loving man, by the passion for life that he continued to share until his final breath on earth.
Posted by: Cynthia Gottlieb Glendale, CA July 26, 2008
I would like to thank Randy for the wonderful Carnegie Mellon commencement speech from May 2008, which we used at the Tuesday, July 22, 2008 summer school commencement for the Botetourt County Schools in Virginia. He was an inspiration to all and to those students who took a "little longer" to graduate, and who had goofed up some in their lives, too.
Posted by: Lynn Ellen McCutchen Thompson Roanoke, VA July 26, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with Randy's family and friends tonight--I feel as though I have lost someone I knew and cared about too! I think we all hoped that this day would not come and he would be somehow "cured" and could go on inspiring so many of us! Jai--stay strong and keep remembering his smile and put it in your heart!
Posted by: Rose M. Auburn, MI July 26, 2008
I never met Randy except for watching his last lecture on You Tube but I feel I did in a way. I was deeply saddened to here about his passing.I just wanted to thank Jai and the children for sharing their husband and father with the rest of the world. I am using his lecture to teach my nieces and nephews that they are capable of anything and to never let circumstances discourage them.My deepest condolences go out to Jai and the kids. You are in my prayers.
Posted by: Karen Moore , OK July 26, 2008
I am sorry to hear that Professor Pausch died today. I love his philosophy for life. I was crying when I was reading his Last Lecture. I lost my husband due to the liver cancer, who was also pretty young. I could feel his pain for his family. Jai is very lucky to share her life together with Professor Pausch.
Posted by: Yoon Kahm Encino, CA July 26, 2008
I received the novel, "The Last Lecture," as a graduation gift this spring. I finished the book within a month, and during that time, I picked up many helpful lessons about life and how to treat people. As a senior going into college this fall, I find Randy's words to be helpful and encouraging. I am very happy that I had the opportunity to read and listen to Randy. Thank you. -Kevin
Posted by: Kevin Henry Leesman Springboro, OH July 26, 2008
To Jia and the children, I can't even begin to understand how badly this hurts, I only hope that the legacy Randy has left to his children will allow the nto truly understand what kind of man he was, and how to be the kind of man they should grow into. My deepest sympathies to you and your family.
Posted by: Christopher M. Koeppel Wichita, LA July 26, 2008
There is an old saying, I don't know where it is from, that I often use at times like these. "May his memory live on as a benediction to all your days." Surely Randy Pausch's memory lives on for all of us, but especially for you, Jai, and your children. I lost my husband at age 48 to pancreatic cancer. Like another poster here said, I cannot know what you are feeling right now, but I can have a glimmer having gone through the same loss. The memories will sustain you, I promise. And I promise that as time goes by the memories will cause less pain and bring more joy. Rest, comfort yourself, and perhaps you can take some small peace in knowing that literally thousands of people are sending loving thoughts to you and your family.
Posted by: Shoshana Beaverton, OR July 26, 2008
I know that no words can possibly console children so young, now or ever, when faced with such a loss but I wanted to share how incredibly inspirational Randy Pausch has been to so many. Not only have I watched the video several times and bought the book but the most profound effect was through teaching junior high students. I showed the video to my 8th and 9th grade students and they were enthralled and captivated. Never have they been so eerily quiet and engaged in any presentation and the journal entries submitted afterwards were reflective of the serious contemplations they experienced watching the video. I'm grateful your father/husband was able to share so much of himself with everyone given the limited time he had. We are all better for it.
Posted by: Gr 8/9 Teacher Canada July 25, 2008
I, too, knew nothing more of Randy than what I saw on YouTube or read in his book. But he gave me back the childhood dreams I gave up because "girls weren't supposed to want to be things or do things, just get married". And he taught my son why it's important to work hard for the things that really matter. And in some undefinable way, he helped me come to terms with the death of a dear friend, four years ago, from pancreatic cancer -- Annie had the same fighting spirit that Randy showed every step of the way, and I'm sure she wrung the very last drop from life the same way he did. My heart goes out to Jai and the kids -- but you know that you had a husband and father who loved you with everything he had. And he had a tremendous "everything" to love you with.
Posted by: Susan Richfield, MN July 26, 2008
While attending a Peter Frampton concert in Minnesota tonight, Peter Frampton's last song was dedicated to Randy Pausch. He played "While My Guitar Gently Weeps" this is a rock ballad written by George Harrison. Mr. Frampton also expressed that Randy was his hero. I had the pleasure of reading Randy's book and it was very touching and makes you realize the importance of living your life, not just existing. Thank you and God Bless You Randy, because you sure blessed us!
Posted by: Kristine Victoria, MN July 26, 2008
I didn't know Randy -- except through what I've come to know of him through his appearances on TV and his wonderful book -- but he's truly touched my life. I was deeply saddened to learn today that cancer proved itself to be his brick wall, but the way he met that challenge, the way he fought to scale it, is one of the many great life-lessons he's left for us. He was an astounding teacher right to the end. My heart goes out to Jai and Randy's children. Your husband, your Dad was one of a kind. Thank you for sharing him with the rest of us. May God bless and keep you.
Posted by: Shirley Catterson Orland Park, IL July 26, 2008
Dear Pausch family, I would like to send my condolences to each of you. Randy was an inspiration to millions of people in this world. Your children will grow up knowing what kind of dad they had, knowing he made a difference in this world. He was an awesome person, and may you cherish your memories of him. He was loved by many.
Posted by: Amanda Williams Monroe, LA July 26, 2008
Randy, I am throwing you kisses to heaven, for taking your tragic illness and sharing it with the public, so that we could all benefit. I am mouring your loss, and I never even met you...but I HAVE watched "The Last Lecture" 4 or 5 times..... I sm not as eloquent as you, Randy, however, I WOULD like to say, to your beautiful wife and children, that there are MANY of us out there, who are grieving today right beside you, right with you....Randy was not ONLY an amazing husband and father and Professor, but through his billiant articulation, he has managed to force us all to "step up to the plate", to live our own lives to their fullest... I am sure that God shall abundantly bless your family, as we are all energy, and the energy that you put forth, Randy, was immensley positive. Blessings and shalom, my teacher and my friend. Diane
Posted by: Diane Hauptman PSL, FL July 25, 2008
A blessed man who shared with the world all that he was. My heart goes out to his wife and children. I know the memories they have will carry them through and I know he will be watching over them. The world was lucky to have such a man share his life with us. He touch so many people and change my life forever.
Posted by: Chris Meridian, ID July 25, 2008
I didn't know Randy, but like so many others, I mourn him. I would like for his family to know that I used his "last lecture" as an assignment in my college composition class at Front Range Community College. My students came up with their own "last lectures" as a result and were so moved by Randy's example. I hope that his amazing family takes comfort in the knowledge that Randy had a tremendous impact on our lives....more than he ever knew.
Posted by: Lisa McCann Fort Collins, CO July 25, 2008
What an inspiration....at least it can be said that he " went out with his boots on." It was a privilege just to hear the lecture on 20/20. I can only imagine how it must feel to call him a friend, or a family member. In describing an individual's passing, we sometimes use the phrase " the world is a better place because he was in it." Only in Randy's case, it was true. I speak also for my wife when I say that our hearts truly go out to his wife and kids. All of you, family, can be proud, and know that he loved you with all of his big, big, heart.
Posted by: Scott Finley Augusta, GA July 25, 2008
To the family of Randy Pausch- In your time of grief, know that the world cries with you because you did deserve more time with your beloved Randy. For months, we have all held our breath hoping for just one special miracle and knowing there was a good chance that miracle would evade us all. Today we know that truth and hope that you find comfort and joy in the memory of Randy. I personally have been touched by the life and stories of Randy Pausch. Thank you for sharing your Son, Husband, and Dad with the world.
Posted by: Jennifer Ithaca, NY July 25, 2008
I was very sad today to hear the passing of Randy Pausch, he was a remarkable man, sharing his last days with total strangers, but most of all his children will have all those videos of dad trying to explain life as he knew it and how to handle death in a simple way. He is certainly in a better place and in no more pain. God Bless his wife and children you will be in my prayers tonight.
Posted by: Christina Fitzpatrick Chadds Ford, PA July 26, 2008
I was touched by the man behind the glitz. Your genuine integrity and inspiration will lead many to find themselves and fulfil their dreams. I wish your family the best and to your wife, because behind every great man there is always a great woman. I hope the your niece and nephew take your little ones out and remember the soda in your shiny new convertible. :) You will be missed but will live forever in my heart.
Posted by: Theresa Buzzarde moreno valley, CA July 26, 2008
Thank you for sharing your life and lessons with us. I can only hope to be half the man that you were. Your video is on my ipod now and I'm heading to the gym to help me bring out my "tigger". Bless your family and thank-you for letting Randy share himself with the world!
Posted by: Ryan Mann Windsor, Ontario July 26, 2008
After watching your video, I learnt the importance of incorporating fun in every little thing that I do. As a result I had truly reap the rewards. I thanked you for a lesson that had positively impacted my life in ways whereby you cannot imagine. Lastly your 'last lecture' has not just been a phenomenon in North American, it had truly affected me, a Singaporean. RIP.
Posted by: Ong Beng Hwee July 26, 2008
Dr. Pausch exemplified the type of person I want to be... strong, intelligent, creative, witty, loving, loyal, clear and most of all respected. I will always remember that as Randy was laying the 'nets' for his family to support them when he was no longer there in person, he did the same for many around the world. He has taught me so much in such a short time about how I want to live my life, and lead my children. Thank you Jai for letting him share this with us. God Bless.
Posted by: Judy Wityszyn Toronto July 26, 2008
Maybe no one will read this. I am 32, a mother of a one year old, four year old and six year old. My family very much like Randy's. I have lived in fear, anxiety, depression and sadness for no damn reason. It has taken over my life, that fear monster. He lived knowing he was dieing and I am dieing while living. What hurts is that I have no reason for those fears. I felt hopeless, I felt guilty and ashamed. However, after reading his book and listenning to his video, I want to be that person that lives, that has happy holidays, that treasures my blessing. Thank you Randy for giving me the want to fight for happiness. Thank you for giving me hope. I want my children to be proud of me like I know your children will be proud of you, Please God give Jai and the kids the courage to live happily ever after. Please if anyone knows the family, please let them know he helped this little lost sole find a purpose to fight for her family and life. I love you Mr. Pausch may God give you eternall hapiness.
Posted by: Julie Miami, FL July 26, 2008
As I sit here in tears for your family, the pain is so close to our hearts. We lost our husband and Dad at the age of 45 over 8 years ago. After a 6 month struggle with incurable cancer Michael passed quietly into a better life. Leaving behind 2 teenage girls, older then yours, our ability to recover was likely a bit easier then what you may experience. In the short time that we 'knew' Randy, we grew to love his strength and understanding of what was really important. We miss our Michael, as you certainly miss your Randy. But life does go on and the pain will fade into fond memories and you will find the strength to keep the bond of family strong. Randy touched our lives. Our hearts are with you.
Posted by: Tne Britos Kutztown, PA July 26, 2008
Thank you, Randy and Family, for giving my family a renewed hope as we had to say "farewell" to my husband and my children's father in 2006. My husband left an endearing legacy, one that was filled with love, laughter, and devotion. Having garnered innumerable awards in his life, when he died in the throes of renal failure due to prostate cancer, he moved on in peace, recognizing that, like Randy, his children and family were his most precious gifts. God bless the Pausch Family.
Posted by: Marcia Boyer Phoenix, AZ July 26, 2008
I did not know Dr. Pausch. I began reading his book about a month ago. I stopped when I got to the chapters about his wife and family as I thought they would be so sad to read. I will surely finish the book though, now. I am 35 years old. I have a Master's Degree in special ed. and teach adolecents with Asperger's Syndrome("high functioning autism"). I realize that I am at a crossroads in my life. I love teaching my students but my school is a bit difficut in the administration area. I have two interviews with public school districts this week. I have also always wanted to live away from here where I have spent my entire 35 years...I want to live at the beach and teach whomever it is that will benefit most from me. I feel that Dr. Pausch's book has encouraged me to move forward and not just settle for where I am in life. I intend to get another job and to move to the ocean while I am able to enjoy it. A sincere thank you to Dr. Pausch for his encouraging words in the wake of such a tragic illness that so recently took his life. My deepest sympathy to Randy's wife and children...although...they had the unique experience to have such a wondeful man's enduring and everlasting love for them. Randy was a true assest to the world. I am sure his presense will be felt for many years to come.
Posted by: Monica Snyder Greensburg, PA July 26, 2008
This man changed my life. I am tempted to speak up about all the other countless lives he has changed as well; however, I'm only truly able to speak for mySelf... for how in the world could I have found the time, avenue or energy to peek over onto someone else's "paper"; while my very own was being bombarded with a deluge of "Randy PauschISM's" that simply waited for NO One? No, I wouldn't have had the time. But I am so very grateful that Randy found "just enough" time to share his beauty and raw Human kindness with the rest of us! His death only ispires me to transform any fear of death into enthusiasm and childlike anticipation for the very next time we will, again enjoy the texture of his warm spirit tickling the air around us - making us laugh ourselves into hysteria!
Posted by: Lisa Via Mission Viejo, CA July 26, 2008
Randy Pausch was the real deal. I heard him lecture at a small video gaming conference in 2002. He spoke for an hour and had complete command of the topic and audience. You could tell he was a man on a mission. He had found his professional passion and was courageously living life. His lecture and the book solidify him in my life as a personal and professional hero. As someone who has been in remission from cancer (non-Hodgkin's lymphoma) for 12 years, I take a moment of silence to recognize the bravery amidst the pain for him and his family. His example proves that it's not that we die, but how we live that exalts us. God bless him, his wife and family.
Posted by: L. Manning Dallas, TX July 26, 2008
Randy Pausch was an inspiration to the world. His love of his family and life along with his untouchable passion to educate everyone he could possibly reach are unimaginable to most. I have forwarded his lecture to my children and ex husband and spoke of him often to friends and relatives with cherished words. I only hope that I too can rise to his expectations of his life in my own. I will grieve for him and only wish his family my heartfelt condolenscenes for they are so lucky to have personally known the man. My thoughts are with you Mom and yours and Randy's children. With Love, Anne-Marie Hart Bolton, Ontario
Posted by: Anne-Marie Hart Bolton, CA July 26, 2008
My deepest condolences to the Pausch family. I would like to mention to the family, that The Last Lecture has impacted me, and came at a crucial time in my life. Professor Pausch will not be forgotten, because his legacy lives on. It was truly amazing hearing his words. May his soul rest in peace.
Posted by: Onejda CT July 26, 2008
My condolences to all of Randy's family. He will be deeply missed at Carnegie Mellon University by his close colleagues and students. But he will be remembered by many around the world as a role model for how we should all live our lives: that is to live life fully, to love, and to have fun each day God grants us.
Posted by: John Finkbiner FL July 26, 2008
Dear Family, We are saddened by the news and want you to know that we are praying for your comfort from God. I have given the book to my grandchildren for lifes examples and pray that they will follow it and know that life if a joy and heaven is even better. Our love to you and yours
Posted by: joanne spurlock Gilbert, AZ July 26, 2008
(((((((((((((((((((Dr. Pausch)))))))))))))))))))))))))))) ((((((((((((Mrs. Pausch and children))))))))))))))))))))) May you and your family be surrounded by love and light. May you feel the love that surrounds you. Thank you for your wise word and loving heart. With gratitude, Heather
Posted by: Heather Stecher July 26, 2008
Randy Pausch's legacy to so many is inspiring us all to either reconnect with our childhood dreams, or to perhaps, dream some for the first time! Teaching so many how to live well, even in the face of the most difficult of times, is such an enduring legacy. My prayers are for his family and friends. Surely, he is with God in eternity.
Posted by: Sara G. Hopewell Junction, NY July 26, 2008
When I first saw your book on the bookstand at the airport I never thought it will become this much life changing experience. But after reading your book and watching your last lecture I felt like a revolution inside me. I started dreaming again after a very very long time and this time believing that I can make them become true. I do envy your students very much for knowing you in person but I'm happy that I at least had the chance to know you true your book and lecture and call you my "Hero". I will never forget you saying that experience is what you get when you didn't get what you wanted. I always thought not getting what I want is a failure but looking back at mylife now I know that I owe some of my life experiences to not getting what I wanted and now I don't feel bad about them and I sure don't see myself as a failure. Rest in peace professor Pausch and wherever you are have fun. My prayers and wishes will be with your wife and children. You will be missed Tiger ;-).
Posted by: S.D July 26, 2008
After I saw your interview with Diane Sawyer, I immediately went to buy the book "The Last Lecture". I was so touched by your strength. My mum just passed away, and I was inspired by your courage. Rest in peace for eternity, you are your children's guardian angel now!
Posted by: P.F.M. WY July 26, 2008
I feel oddly connected to this man and his family of which I have never met. 12 years ago, my husband, at age 43 passed away from brain cancer leaving me with 3 children (1 girl and 2 boys). Today my oldest son is a student at the ETC (founded by Randy) and the youngest son is working there as an intern this summer. I don't believe in coincidences anymore. My support to Jai and the kids, having been through a similar situation I know you will have the strength to endure this. Thank you Mr. Pausch for the wonderful opportunities you have provided for my children.
Posted by: n.c. rome, NY July 26, 2008
Thank you Mr.Pausch for the challenges you have given the rest of the world. You, by example, have challenged everyone to live a life full of dreams and hope. The world is definately a sad place today because we lost a Tigger like no other. Although you have gone, the legacy you so kindly left is a gift to all humanity. On behalf of those of us who were not fortunate to meet you in person, I thank you from the bottom of my heart for your spirit. My thoughts and prayers go out to your wife, children, mother, sister and everyone who was fortunate to know you and know of you.
Posted by: Kelly Charlotte, NC July 26, 2008
My prayers are with this noble and brave man's family right now. What an inspiration he was to so many people. His "Last Lecture" really left a deep imprint on my heart and mind and the world is a much better place because of his selfless giving of himself. Heaven is a little brighter today.
Posted by: Gayle V. Richmond, VA July 26, 2008
I just loved watching the last lecture on the web. And telling my sons about it. I remembered the moon landing, too, being just a couple of years older than Dr. Pausch. It was so refreshing to have a professor become popular that believed in hard work. No ideology in his message. A professor who could be a positive influence with my children, who could convey to them some things I couldn't express so well.
Posted by: Craig Klampe San Diego, CA July 26, 2008
Since seeing parts of his lecture on Oprah and hearing the story that was done on him on an evening news show, I had to read the book. It was so heartfelt I had to share it with eveyone i knew! Everyone who read prayed he would make it for Jai and the kids. We are all saddened, and yet lucky to have heard his message. It's a message I have taken to heart and have really tried to follow the advice given. God Bless the family and friends. Reading his book and blogs, waiting for him to get better, I was deeply saddened this morning. I thank his wife for sharing him with the world the last months of his life.
Posted by: Jenn Garcia Williamsburg, VA July 26, 2008
My memory of this wonderful person is purely from the internet. I'm a 47 year old woman from the UK. I watched the last lecture and bought the book. They have inspired me to dream my dreams and believe they are possible. Thanks to the inspiring writing and life of Randy Pausch, my life has taken on new meaning and depth. I never had the privilege of meeting Randy, or his family, but I owe them much. My condolences to the whole family.
Posted by: Natalie Tidy Lancaster, UK July 25, 2008
I don't know if Randy's family will read any of this; I hope so. I want Jai to know that among the millions of lives he touched, I was one. I first heard of Randy on Oprah, and have been following his progress on his web page. I am truly inspired and uplifted by his positive approach to life. He was a blessing to mankind. Thank you for sharing him with us. May you have peace through knowing that.
Posted by: Maria sLC, UT July 26, 2008
Me heart breaks today for the loss of Randy Pausch, may God be with his family and friends as they grieve. I saw The Last Lecture on the internet and I read the book and I am very sad today. Randy was an inspiration to all and I am happy to have had some glimpse of him as a man.
Posted by: Katie Berrien Springs, MI July 25, 2008
This message is from those of us in Chesapeake who gained an essence of Dr Pausch's spirit by all that he and his family gave to our weary world and to this area in particular; our thoughts and prayers are sent to the family he cared so much about. This is his journey, tho caring voices may still echo around him as he moves into the light; there will remain an aura around him long after he's gone from this reality...
Posted by: mary esterlund chesapeake, VA July 25, 2008
I did not know Dr. Pausch personally, and don't feel I needed to. He has had such an impact on countless lives across the world. I hope all those who feel a sense of loss today are able to be the safety net he so worried about not having when his family was put through the ultimate pain of losing him. How blessed we all are to have been touched by such a great man. "Grief is the price we all pay for love." The world lost one of a kind today.
Posted by: Lisa Berg Beachwood, OH July 25, 2008
Upon first hearing of Randy Pausch, after he appeared on the Oprah Winfrey show,I quickly watched his "Last Lecture" on the internet and then purchased his book. He was a tremendous inspiration for anyone who heard the sound of his voice or read his book. I am a great believer in Miracles and I always prayed that his cancer would leave him. Now I realize that the Miracle I was praying for had already been granted....it was his being born and sharing his beautiful life with us all. As with many things we seem not to appreciate them until they are gone. I truly thank God for letting Randy Pausch's life touch mine and hope that his family will find strength to face their time of grief. Randy did all he could to prepare them but I imagine the pain they are experiencing now is intolerable. I count myself among the millions that will be praying for you.
Posted by: Don Sylvia Los Angeles, CA July 25, 2008
We have truly lost a great gift. God sent Randy to us to teach and that he did. He taught us to live, learn, love and how to live each day to its fullest. Randy has touched every heart, soul and spirit. What a wonderful man. We are all blessed to have had him in our lives. Thanks to his family and please know that everyone that Randy touched is praying for each of you. God Bless.
Posted by: Cheryl A. DeAntonio Oak Hill, VA July 25, 2008
Randy- Thanks for your inspiration and your wisdom. I have thought of you and your family everyday since watching your lecture. The network of family, friends and loved ones that surrounds your family will ensure that your wife and children will be well taken care of. God bless you.
Posted by: David J. Whitlach Phoenix, AZ July 25, 2008
Heaven is even brighter today because Randy is shining as an Angel. To his family - I know your grief is so substantial right now, but I hope you are all comforted by the fact that Randy's memory will live on forever. His brave battle with cancer and his refusal to give up as a parent to his three children and as a husband to his wife is remarkable. He is an inspiration and will be dearly missed.
Posted by: Cassie Nashville, TN July 25, 2008
What a wonderful man!! I just wanted to share my first experience when Randy became a "Big" part of my heart. My daughter is 5..The day of her 5th birthday (Jan.21.2008) my husband and I sat with our daughter in the C.V.I.C.U at Stanford Children's Hospital awaiting a donor heart. This could be our last night to be with her..the doctors just walked in to tell us this was it, the medicine was failing. She was not able to live any longer without a new heart. She had all surgeries she could have (3 Open heart starting at 6 days old). They all failed. The next morning, the transplant team of doctors came in to tell us there was a heart, and they were taking her away to prep her. It was her B-day again!! I was inspired by Randy Pausch just months after her transplant when I seen him on 20/20, I was sitting in the Ronald McDonald house. I became alive in a way I can not explain. The next day I bought his book!! I wish I had the chance to tell him what he has done and said, has inspired me with life. To VALUE what I have, and know the right way to spend life even when I have hit all my brick walls. THANK YOU RANDY!! RIP.. My prayers are with you Jai, Logan, Chloe and Dylan
Posted by: Rebekah Wellington, KS July 25, 2008
When my dear Dad, Silvano, was battling pancreatic cancer, 01Aug-30Nov2000, he did not have a positive attitude mainly because there was no one else we could find to offer hope. I firmly believe that had my Dad witnessed Dr.Randy Pausch's journey, he would have survived longer than just 4 months! Now I find comfort in volunteering for pancan.org with the recent 6th annual "Walk thru the Vineyards - www.vineyardwalk.com This year we raised over $103,000.00! Our best year yet, and Dr.Randy Pausch's book was for sale at the event held annually at St.Supery Vineyard, Napa Valley, California. Always held the Saturday before Father's Day. Thank you for sharing and being such an inspiration. From my family to yours - best wishes and may you find comfort in all your wonderful memories! Heaven has a new Angel...
Posted by: Silvana Brindisi Petaluma, CA July 25, 2008
Randy brought smiles to our faces, tears to our eyes, and sometimes both at the same time. Losing a loved one is devastating, but we have all been left with a special gift - our memories. They are often the only things we have left after that special person is gone. Though at times they may be painful to think about, with them, our loved ones remain a part of us forever. In Randy's words have fun, never give up, and look for the good in others. Rany was truly an inpsiration. He and his family will be in my prayers.
Posted by: Ivy Plata bronx, NY July 25, 2008
Randy Pausch displayed amazing spirit in his fight against cancer, and his love & concern for his family. Reading his book was a great experience. I hope I can meet the bar he has set if ever challenged as he was. I suspect his legacy will continue to teach; I bet he'd like that.
Posted by: Ken Kessner Boise, ID July 25, 2008
Professor Pausch: I have been reading your blog almost since you started the effort, every time, I was wishing for your miraculous recovery such as the "tumor count would go down etc...". But deep down, we all know the ultimate eventuality. Your ability and vision to live a full life regardless of what cards that life dealt you. Your ability to view each day with such optimism and desire to make it good has inspired me with new light as to deal with my own problems which are really "not so bad" as compared to what you faced. Randy, may we pray for your family's ability to cope with this sad loss. I know It will take a while for us to get over the sadness that you are gone. God always takes the good ones for himself. May you rest well, Randy!
Posted by: Anne Lam Los Angeles, CA July 25, 2008
I am so deeply saddened by the loss of Randy Pausch. I wish that he knew how profoundly he has touched my life, his lectures has been such an inspiration in how to live. Randy is in my prayers as well as his wife and beautiful children. Thank you, Randy for all that you have taught me! God bless!
Posted by: J. Fineron Santa Clarita, CA July 25, 2008
What a wonderful legacy Randy left for his wife, his children and his family. He lived his last days with such a positive outlook! I never met Randy but I read his book and was moved by it. He will live in the hearts of many people for years to come. God bless his wife, his children, and his family.
Posted by: Anne I. Fagan Greensburg, PA July 25, 2008
I'll always remember the first time I watched your lecture on Oprah. I was so moved I immediately went on the net and watched the whole lecture. Your words and philosophy made/make me think so much and to do something with my life. Randy you are an inspiration and I pray that you are with God. I know that your words and message will long, long be remembered and watched by generations to come. My thoughts, prayers and condolences to the Pausch family. Thank you Randy...
Posted by: Guy London July 25, 2008
I'll always remember the first time I watched your lecture on Oprah. I was so moved I immediately went on the net and watched the whole lecture. Your words and philosophy made/make me think so much and to do something with my life. Randy you are an inspiration and I pray that you are with God. I know that your words and message will long, long be remembered and watched by generations to come. My thoughts, prayers and condolences to the Pausch family. Thank you Randy...
Posted by: Guy London July 25, 2008
I never met Randy ~ I read his book after hearing about his lecture at Carnegie Mellon. I was so inspired by his outlook on life while facing death. What a wonderful legacy he has left for his wife and family. His courage was unbelievable. It is so sad that such a wonderful person was taken from us at such an early age. He may be gone but he will never be forgotten. God bless his wife, his children and his family.
Posted by: Anne Fagan Greensburg, PA July 25, 2008
Thank you Randy for your inspirational words. You are a father every child wishes to have. I am currently studying Computer Science and to know you were also born on the same month and day as I am is a bit surprising. Nonetheless, your 'last lecture' will always hold a place in my heart where inspiration, strength, and confidence resides, because of your genuine actions and responsibilities to yourself, family, and dreams. Thank you and God Bless.
Posted by: Sylvia July 25, 2008
Your words, your message and your zest for life were truly inspirational. You inspired me to go back to school and begin working towards dreams that I thought were impossible. For that and a multitude of other reasons, you have my heartfelt thanks. There are no condolences that could possibly comfort your family at this time, but I think that they, and you, might appreciate this one thing. Remember how your mother always introduced you as a doctor who didn't help anyone? Well, as it turned out, you proved her wrong. From everything I've read about the both of you, the two of you would laugh at that. Go with God, Randy, and thank you. You will be missed dearly. To the Pauch family: I'm so very sorry for your loss.
Posted by: Dana Soltani moneta, VA July 25, 2008
As a faculty member at UT Tyler I was inspired by his Last Lecture and his gift to connect with his students and others. Having a very dear friend diagnosed with pancreatic cancer a year ago, I felt connected in a different way. Terry's last scan indicated no cancer seen so we are all praying that the experimental medications she is on truly cured her. I wear my purple bracelet from PanCan to show my support for people with pancreatic cancer everywhere. My prayers are with his family.
Posted by: Gayle Varnell Larue, TX July 25, 2008
Seeing the lecture online at the beginning of the year made me reprioritize and make some major changes in my life. I am happy to say that I am a Tigger today as a result! I give a copy to all who have a birthday since the book was published. Thank you Jai for sharing him with the rest of us. My thoughts and prayers go to you and your extended family and friends. Rest in Peace Dr. Pausch.
Posted by: Denise Boston, MA July 25, 2008
Randy is an inspiration to many including me. I tend to be more of an Eyeore, but want to be a Tigger. I'm glad he's blazed a trail for me. To Jai and the kids -- grieve well and celebrate this incredible man who's waiting for us all just around the bend...
Posted by: crispy pitman, NM July 25, 2008
I am extremely saddened by the news. I first learned of Dr. Pausch through the Pancreatic Cancer Action Network, and this past March I hoped to meet him while I was with PANCAN in Washington, D.C. asking our congressmen and women to increase funding for pancreatic cancer research. Unfortunately I did not get a chance to meet Randy, but he later testified in front of Congress which was huge. I lost my Carl in August 2004 from Pancreatic Cancer. He was 34. My deepest sympathies to his wife and children. Your husband and father will always be remembered for his courage, kindness, and love for life lived well. This world was made a better place by having him.
Posted by: Rebecca Mackover Menlo Park, CA July 25, 2008
This man was truly an angel from above, now gone home after sharing his "SPIRIT of LIFE" with us all--how truly blessed we are to have shared in his life on earth. Hi insights and beliefs have touched me and changed my life. God bless the Pausch family.
Posted by: Patricia Johnson Stillwater, OK July 25, 2008
To Jai: My husband died of leukemia on August 7, 2005. I cannot say I know what you are feeling now, nor will I ever be able to say that, but the following quote is one of my favorites. It is one of the strongest statements I have ever read about life in the face of death. I don't know if Randy knew this quote, but he truly exemplified it. "But the man who dares to live his life with death before his eyes, the man who receives life back bit by bit and lives as though [life] did not belong to him by right but has been bestowed on him as a gift, the man who has such freedom and peace of mind that he has overcome death in his thoughts —- such a man believes in eternal life because it is already his, it is a present experience, and he already benefits from its peace and joy. He cannot describe this experience in words. He may not be able to conform his view with the traditional picture of it. But one thing he knows for certain: Something within us does not pass away, something goes on living and working wherever the kingdom of the spirit is present. It is already working and living within us, because in our hearts we have been able to reach life by overcoming death." I believe the quote to be from Albert Schweitzer. I know that sleep will not come easily to you now, nor ease, without that familiar and beloved man to turn to when you need a place to lean that you trust implicitly. But lean where you can, sleep and eat as you can, and let people comfort you as they will, with food and hugs and the gift of stories and of silent presence. You will receive so many cards and letters; keep them all. You wil l read them again later --perhaps years later, as I did-- and wonder again at how many people loved your husband almost as much as you did. I do not know you, but wish you and your children well. Someone told me that the worst part of a successful marriage is that one of you will be left behind. My sympathy extends to all of Randy's family, but especially to you. From another grieving widow,
Posted by: Claudia Williams Waxahachie, TX July 25, 2008
I read Last Lecture at a time in my life that was difficult. This book was truly inspiational. I knew this day was coming, and I am so sad for his loved ones. What an extaordinary man he was, the love for his family was breathtaking. I never had the honor of knowing Mr. Pausch personally, but his death saddens my heart tremendously. Pausch family my prayers are with you.
Posted by: Michelle from AZ Chandler, AZ July 25, 2008
When I read this morning of Randy's death, I wept softly at my desk. This man's statements about life and living will be with me for the rest of my days. While I listened to his Last Lecture last fall I caught glimpses of his wife's face. Her posture said it all. She was immensely proud of him and the legacy he was leaving for their children. Randy got life right. I wish others would get it also, but without the death knell. For whom the bells tolls today left his mark on humanity. May his wife find peace and comfort from those who love her and may his children grow up to mirror his bravery and love of life.
Posted by: Kay Wood Potomac Falls, VA July 25, 2008
I, like so many others, did not even know Mr. Pausch but I gave a copy of his lecture to everyone I could. I, like many, have never been so inspired by someone I've never met. The enormity of my sadness at his passing is so great that I can hardly imagine how those that truly know him and love him must feel. Society has a huge hole to fill and Heaven has an Inspirational Angel that could never be described by words. His legacy will live on through his wife and children and certainly as the poem above states, he did achieve life's success. He left this world a much better place because of his beautiful sharing soul. After I saw him on Oprah and "googled" his lecture I sent to every one in my e-mail address book. I wanted so badly to meet him before he passed away that I even sent a letter to Oprah which, of course, went unanswered. I'm sure she got a million more just like mine. Godspeed, Mr. Pausch! You've earned it! My deepest sympathies to his adored wife, Jai, and his beautiful children and the rest of the family. Sincerely, The Languzzi Family of Orlando, Florida.
Posted by: Sharon Languzzi Orlando, FL July 25, 2008
I was a student at Carnegie Mellon twice from 1981 - 1989 (E '85, IA '89) and never had the pleasure of meeting Dr. Pausch. I did see his interviews on television and am very very proud that he was a part of the Carnegie Mellon family. May he rest in peace and let God be with him.
Posted by: William Brant Lexington, SC July 25, 2008
The Definition of Success Poem is stated below. No one achieved success more than Randy Pausch. I didn't know him, but I feel a loss at his passing. I rejoice in knowing he is in paradise. "To laugh often and much; to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children; to earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends; to appreciate beauty; to find the best in others; to leave the world a little better place than we found it, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch or a redeemed social condition; to know even one life breathed easier because you lived. This is to have succeeded."
Posted by: Mary Brownlie Amherstburg, Ont Canada July 25, 2008
im sorry to hear of your lost i want to send you my sympathy's. i know its hard to find comfort at this hard time. thats why i wanted to share something i found comforting. its the hope held out to us in the bible. its found at revelations 21:3,4. i hope it brings you the same comfort as it brings me. please take take care.
Posted by: christina MD July 25, 2008
It’s hard to sit here at work today. I almost lost it on my way to work when I read the news. I was a lucky one who actually knew Randy - he as the teacher, I as the student - at Carnegie Mellon University. In 1997 I was selected to be in the inaugural Building Virtual Worlds class. It was an amazing class that although seemed bumpy at times because it was new and no one knew what to expect it was at the same time very exciting because there were no rules. I can honestly tell you that Randy was an inspiration around campus. It's amazing how some people like Randy can really touch your life. Mine will forever be touched.
Posted by: Ed Knittel Chicago, IL July 25, 2008
To the Pausch Family - I never had the privilege of knowing Mr. Pausch, but I wanted to express my sincere condolences to the family. It's evident from his obituary that he was loved and respected by all. During such a tragic time, I know there are no words that can take away your pain, but a promise that I find most comforting is found in John 5:28, 28 that says, "Do not marvel at this, because the hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out, those who did good things to a resurrection to life." While this may not ease your pain right now, this is a guarantee from our creator. I hope that it brings a measure of help. With warm love,
Posted by: Amber O. Tamarac, FL July 25, 2008
My heart grew heavy as I read about Randy's passing. I am so thankful to him, his wife and family for giving such a wonderful gift to so many people. As an educator I will continue to pass his inspirational message about life and living to my students and to my daughter. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Posted by: Joanna Wilmington, NC July 25, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with Jai and the children. I saw Randy on Oprah which encouraged me to get a copy of his last lecture and book and what I found changed my life. My brother died of pancreatic cancer and I only wish I could have shared some of this wisdom with him. The world lost a great man today. How come the good are taken so quickly?? Again, my thoughts and prayers are with the family who I know will sorely miss this great man.
Posted by: Marilyn seattle, WA July 25, 2008
I am grateful for the life of Randy Pausch and all that he stands for! Love of his family, honesty, integrity and honor! May God grant peace to the Pausch family. I have bought several of his books and gave them away at M.D. Anderson in Houston, Tx, I have also bought the video which is presently being distributed around to family members. He was and is an inspiraton to the world!
Posted by: Debra Keller Houston, TX July 25, 2008
I was so saddened to hear of the passing of such a remarkable man. Like so many others, I never had the privelege to meet him but, I feel like I know him. Through his amazing book and lectures, he reminded us all of what really is important in life. He has made such an immense impact on the world and he will be missed. To his wife and children, thank you for sharing Randy with the rest of the world when you only had such a short time to enjoy him here on Earth. My thoughts and prayers are with you!
Posted by: Kimberly Sallie Carlisle, PA July 25, 2008
Randy Pausch was an inspiration to all and taught others how to live. As a person with a spinal cord injury, Professor Pausch taught me to stop feeling sorry for myself and enjoy what life has to offer even with a disability. I will never forget him and the messages he shared with the world. I hope he knew all that accompished during his lifetime. He faced death like no one else has and gave all who heard his messages a lot in the short time he was given. God bless him, his family and thank you to his wife and children for sharing him with us during this difficult time. I will miss his web site and updates, but I know he is in a better place watching over all those he loved and who loved him.
Posted by: Marsha Tannersville, PA July 25, 2008
Like many, many people, I did not know Randy Pausch. I read his book and afterwards, made a donation to pancreatic cancer research to receive a signed copy of his book for my college-aged son. Why? Simply because his message is a message for every son and daughter... and for the child in each of us. And being a parent, I am incredible touched by his focus and love for his family. We reach great heights, previously unimagined sometimes, because we are motivated by the questions we have on our minds and the love we feel in our hearts. I feel fortunate to have experienced a bit of how his mind worked through his writing. The world was no doubt a more interesting place because Randy Pausch was in it and asking questions... Prayers and best wishes to those he loved the most.
Posted by: Marcia Jacksonville, FL July 25, 2008
His words and his wisdom helped me take a freshlook at the relationship between my daugther and I. Being a single father things have always been a little stressful; but his book showed me that fun is a necessity in life, no matter what is going on. And bringing it into every situation makes life a little bit easier; especially when you see your little girl smile. Mr. Pausch thank you and your family for taking the time in the last year to share your thoughts with the world, it has changed my outlook on life. God bless and Godspeed.
Posted by: Sean P. Springfield, VA July 25, 2008
I've never been so touched or impacted by someone whom I never met in my entire life. I bought numerous copies of the Last Lecture immediately after reading it and gave it to the people in my life that I value and love the most. Thank you Randy for reminding us what's truly important!
Posted by: Teri Elliott Richmond, TX July 25, 2008
I have tears running down my face, so deeply sorry for his family. What a wonderful person he was and to share his thoughts with us. I guess we were all hoping for a miracle, but the miracle for us was to be able to learn from him what life really does mean. Thank you to his wife and family to share Randy with us I will always remember him and his teachings, thanks
Posted by: penny rex youngsville , PA July 25, 2008
We are all so fortunate to have been given the opportunity to listen to Dr. Pauschs words of encouragement and his view of life which was not only inspirational but extremely heartfelt. He will be missed. If his purpose of life was to teach and touch people than he achieved that and much more.
Posted by: Kathleen C. NY July 25, 2008
The Last Lecture was one of the most touching books I've ever read... Being able to live one's life every day with passion, laughter, love and optimism, even in the face of sadness and adversity, is something that's very difficult for most. Randy's messages are a gift to all that are open to receiving... What a loss...
Posted by: Elaine Haney Ashland, MA July 25, 2008
Randy Pausch
Professor whose 'last lecture' became a sensation dies
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