I knew Paul and his wife fairly well. My mother was a stunt woman in movies and TV for about 15 years. (Glynn Rubin). She was also engaged to Scott Newman for a time (Paul's Son). They broke up, and within a year he committed suicide by overdose. My mother was devastated as was Paul and Joanne. My mother created an ever stronger bond with Paul right after. She did several movies with him before and after. My mother raised me alone from the age of 2, while doing stunts. After Scotts death, I think because she was his last serious relationship, my mother bonded closer with Paul and his wife. We were evicted from our appt, and Paul and his wife let us stay in their Malibu house for 2 weeks. One thing I remember most about Paul was, we were filming a flop of a movie (eventually) called "Under the Volcano" in Hawaii. My mother actually had both stunt parts, and "extra" parts. It's rare I got to see my mothers face in film. Remember Private Benjamin where Goldi is falling all over herself in the obstacle course? That's my mother, but you don't really see her face that whole time. Anyway, we're staying at this hotel in Hawaii. I'm about 10 years old. We're at lunch at the hotel between shooting, and me, my mother, Paul, and Joane are all sitting at a 4 person table eating in the courtyard of the hotel. These two sweet looking girls walk up, about age 5 and 8, both holding paper and pen close to their chest... so nervous, and slowly approaching Paul and asking for an autograph. I paused for a second, Paul had his hand on his head, leaning on the table, and when they walked up he casually glanced at them and waved them off. They of course didn't understand, and thought he didn't hear them. They asked again, he waved them off again placing his face right back in his hand. My mouth dropped open, but I composed myself. I asked my mother later, she said "he doesn't give out autographs... he thinks people value them too much, and that it's what a man does with his life, not his signature, that's important or valuable.
I saw Paul only about 20 times between the age of 10 and 25, then never saw him again because I left LA and moved to Louisiana. That memory though will follow me forever. I still to this day understand his admirable quality, and yet the look on the faces of those two girls..
Paul was a step above, and complicated to the last. The world is a smaller place today.
Shannon
Posted by: Shannon Rubin Sterling, VA September 28, 2008