Message from the Family
We would like to thank you every one who gave us love and support during this difficult time. It means so much to us. Love, Miho, George and Patrick (Jr)
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“Mihosan,
I just learned of your loss.
I am so very sorry that Patrick was taken from you so soon. I remember when you were dating back at...Read More »
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1 of 58 | Posted by: Laura (Jacobson) Werner - IL
“Sorry for your loss
Dr. Gilles was very nice to us
We met last year during The la costa matrix boys under 14 boys soocer season,my son Estevan...Read More »
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2 of 58 | Posted by: Humberto Gonzalez
“My most sincere condolences to Miho, George and Patrick Jr. I remember seeing Patrick at the soccer games. He will be greatly missed.
The Olavide...Read More »
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3 of 58 | Posted by: Rafael Olavide - Carlsbad, CA
“Dear Miho, George, and Patrick (P.J.)
It is with tremendous sadness that I have learned of Pat's sudden passing. I went to high school with him...Read More »
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4 of 58 | Posted by: Sue DeMaat Habegger - Crete, IL
“please accept our most sincere and heartfelt condolences. Life's is a mystery to all of us. George and patrick jr. and miho , you are in our...Read More »
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5 of 58 | Posted by: cyrous sheikh - carlsbad, CA
“When I think of Pat, this is what rings in my head ... "Good job son!" "Good idea son." OUr son Travis was lucky enough to have Pat coach him for...Read More »
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6 of 58 | Posted by: Kristine, Justus and Travis Breese - CA
“Dear Gilles family,
I am so sorry to hear of Patrick's passing. Please accept my heartfelt condolences. He was the most competent, thoughtful and...Read More »
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7 of 58 | Posted by: Wolfgang Kusser - colleague
“We are so sorry to hear about Patrick. Please accept our sincere condolences. Our thoughts and prayers our with you.
Joe Ryan& Laurie Ryan &...Read More »
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8 of 58 | Posted by: Joe Ryan - Eagle, ID - Cousin
“Dear Gilles Family,
Our Deepest Condolences To Your Whole Family. We Our Very Sorry To Hear Of Your Recent Tragedy. If We Can Help In Anyway,...Read More »
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9 of 58 | Posted by: Freeman Family
“Dear Gilles Family,
No words can make the pain go away but we know that Patrick's love will bring you comfort and peace now and through the days...Read More »
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10 of 58 | Posted by: The Donato Family - friend
“I was lucky to meet the Gilles family as George's coach on the Titans two year ago. I remember Patrick as so humble and kind, as George tore up the...Read More »
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11 of 58 | Posted by: Charlie Kuznia - Encinitas, CA
“My condolences to Dr. Gilles ' Family,
During this time of great sorrow, may it comfort you to know that others are deeply touched by your loss....Read More »
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12 of 58 | Posted by: Lynn (tlppta@yahoo.com)
“Heartfelt sympathies for your loss. I worked with Pat when he was leading the Services team from 2005-2007; mostly at long distance until I had the...Read More »
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13 of 58 | Posted by: Linda Brooks
“Miho, George & Patrick:
Word travels far and wide on the wings of a good man. I sit here writing this with such a heavy heart and sadness after...Read More »
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14 of 58 | Posted by: Joel B. Marx - Boise, ID - Friend
“George & Patrick, I am very sorry to hear about the loss of your Dad. I remember him as an awesome Soccer coach. He always pushed his players to...Read More »
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15 of 58 | Posted by: Eric Vazquez - Carlsbad, CA
“Dear Miho, George and your youngest child : We are very sorry to hear about Patrick and we want you to know that our heart goes out to you at this...Read More »
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16 of 58 | Posted by: Robyn King - Carlsbad, CA
“Rest in Peace Pat. We will all meet once again.
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17 of 58 | Posted by: The Wood, Larson & Sullivan Family
“I was saddened to hear the news about Pat. Just last week I was thinking of him when I ran across an article he had written. I have fond memories of...Read More »
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18 of 58 | Posted by: Amy Duncan - Del Mar, CA
“Our prayers and thoughts are with you today and always. God bless you. B Vincent and family
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19 of 58 | Posted by: Bernadette Nash Vincent & Family - LA
“I am truly saddened for your tragic loss. Pat and I shared an office when I was at 1600 Faraday Ave. Pat was more than a colleague, he was a good...Read More »
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20 of 58 | Posted by: Peter Qiu - North Potomac, MD
“My heart is filled with sadness at the loss of Pat. He was a great guy, a pleasure to work with. At work, he brought a maturity and thoughtful...Read More »
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21 of 58 | Posted by: Martin Gleeson - San Diego, CA
“Miho - Words cannot ease the pain at a difficult time like this, but know that there are so many people from the days at Callaway Golf who came to...Read More »
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22 of 58 | Posted by: Carol DeGrazier - CA
“I wanted to let you know I am so sorry. i am thinking of you and sending you a hug. best, Bev(from yoga)
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23 of 58 | Posted by: Beverly Godman - Encinitas, CA
“Please accept my deepest sympathy. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. I have so many wonderful memories from my childhood with Patrick and...Read More »
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24 of 58 | Posted by: Joyce Zoiss - Silver Lake, WI
“Dear Miho, George, and Patrick (PJ),
We are deeply sorry for your loss! We pray for you and your family's health and happiness, and that Patrick's...Read More »
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25 of 58 | Posted by: Liane & Gary - Vista, CA
“Miho and family,
I am deeply saddened about the loss of Patrick, one so kind and true. I had not seen him for many years, but I'll always remember...Read More »
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26 of 58 | Posted by: Kay Faaberg - Ames, IA
“Dear Miho, George and Patrick,
Our love and prayers are with you. Sorry for your loss.
Anika, Nena and Ashton
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27 of 58 | Posted by: Nena Knudsen - Salt Lake City, UT
“Pat was an amazing person, gentle and humble, deeply respectful of everybody and absolutely devoted to everything he did. He was truly a friend, a...Read More »
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28 of 58 | Posted by: Larissa Karnaoukhova - Vista, CA
“Dear Miho, George, and Patrick,
I am so saddened to hear of your tragic loss. Pat was an extremely dedicated, kind, generous, and gentle coach and...Read More »
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29 of 58 | Posted by: Stephanie Watts - Carlsbad, CA
“Dear Miho-san, George & Patrick
With deepest sympathy to you and your family at this sad time.
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30 of 58 | Posted by: Emi Takiguchi - Chula Vista, CA
“Pat coached our son Kevin through a couple of AYSO seasons, including a stint in All-Stars in '08. He was a great coach who motivated the kids...Read More »
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31 of 58 | Posted by: Kerry, Lauren, Kevin and Katie Guinn - CA
“I was deeply saddened to see this news on the AYSO website today. Coach Pat coached Damian on the Spring Select Team 09. He was a great coach and...Read More »
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32 of 58 | Posted by: Kim and Damian Jones - Carlsbad, CA
“Pat was a great guy, with a quick smile that was always able to find the humor in a situation, often at his own expense. I remember some of his ...Read More »
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33 of 58 | Posted by: Mark and Becky Peeples - Columbus, OH
“Pat, you will be dearly missed. My recollection of you from Rush days is that you were a fun loving person and very friendly. I seen you once since...Read More »
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34 of 58 | Posted by: Kailash Gupta - Bethesda, MD
“Pat was a wonderful colleague and friend--extremely generous, engaged, curious, and just a warm, giving spirit. I'll miss him greatly.
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35 of 58 | Posted by: Steve Warrick - Escondido, CA
“Condolences to your family.
-Michelle-
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36 of 58 | Posted by: Michelle Gain - San Diego, CA
“I was very lucky to get the opportunity to work under Patrick. He introduced me to the area of DNA sequencing which is now my career path. Not only...Read More »
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37 of 58 | Posted by: Nikhil Chopra - San Francisco, CA
“I consider myself privileged to have worked with such a brilliant scientist.
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38 of 58 | Posted by: Sheila Shah - Carlsbad, CA
“Our heart goes out to your family! We love you all and will miss Pat very much.
Our condolences,
Brad, Andrea, Alex, and Caitlyn
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39 of 58 | Posted by: The Vaughn Family - Carlsbad, CA
“I am very honored and proud to call Patrick and Miho friends. It is with great sadness that I learned of Patrick's passing. My family sends its...Read More »
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40 of 58 | Posted by: Greg Houlgate - Carlsbad, CA
“Miho,George and Pj and family,
A tenuous life so special and whole with all of you we are so saddened by Pat's passing. See his smile and remember...Read More »
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41 of 58 | Posted by: Valerie and Davie Sorrells - CA
“Pat was a great guy and I feel privilidged to have shared soccer with him.
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42 of 58 | Posted by: Dale Stubblefield - Carlsbad, CA
“Words cannot adequately express how much my heart breaks for you all. I run the on-site fitness center at Life Technologies. One of the great...Read More »
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43 of 58 | Posted by: Chris Kosik - Carlsbad, CA
“Dear Miho, George and Patrick,
We are deeply saddened to hear of your loss. You are in our thoughts.
Pat will be missed by many.
Let us know...Read More »
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44 of 58 | Posted by: Tony, Sasja, Ciaran and Liam Campbell -Bouwer - CA
“Dear Miho, Patrick & George,
I am so very sorry for your tragic loss. You have been in my thoughts and prayers all week.
I regret I did not...Read More »
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45 of 58 | Posted by: Michael Brunson - Carlsbad, CA
“Dear Miho, George and Patrick-
I am so terribly sorry for your devastating loss.
Pat was one of my favorite AYSO people. He was so sweet and...Read More »
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46 of 58 | Posted by: Chris Hoolihan - Carlsbd, CA
“Dear Miho, George & Patrick,
We are so deeply saddened to hear about your Dad, our soccer Coach. His kind & gentle spirit will be missed by many....Read More »
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47 of 58 | Posted by: Janet, Pete, Caylen & Brandon Doyle - CA
“As Regional Commissioner for AYSO La Costa the past 3 years I had many dealings with Pat, helping him to get his Spring Select team together for his...Read More »
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48 of 58 | Posted by: Tony Rogers - Carlsbad, CA
“Dear Miho, Patrick, and George,
I am completely speechless. This loss was truly unexpected and I feel for your family. Patrick was a special person,...Read More »
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49 of 58 | Posted by: Shinobu Simmons - Murrieta, CA
“My most sincere condolences on your tragic and sudden loss.
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50 of 58 | Posted by: Scott Provost - Oceanside, CA
“Sincere condolences
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51 of 58 | Posted by: Alain RICO - Paris, France
“Dear Miho, George and Patrick,
I am so sorry to hear your loss. It is so unexpected. You will be always in my thoughts. Please let me know if there...Read More »
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52 of 58 | Posted by: Meilan Hsieh - Encinitas, CA
“Dear Miho, what a tragic loss for you and your sons. I have no words to help, only the ones I know, which are to grieve deep and well in honor of...Read More »
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53 of 58 | Posted by: Michele Bollo - Encinitas, CA
“Dear Miho, George and Patrick,
We are so sorry to hear that you have lost your husband and father. We feel so blessed to have been able to renew...Read More »
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54 of 58 | Posted by: Cathy and Phil Gorski - Lisle, IL
“Miho, George, and Patrick,
Although it has been many years since I've seen Pat, I still remember him very fondly from our time at Rush Medical...Read More »
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55 of 58 | Posted by: Barb Newton - Columbus, OH
“Dear Miho and family,
I am so deeply saddened to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Susan Webb
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56 of 58 | Posted by: Susan Webb - Carlsbad, CA
“I'm so sorry for your loss, please accept my heartfelt condolences.
Ira Perrot
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57 of 58 | Posted by: Irasema Perrot - carlsbad, CA
“Pat you will truly be missed. Your contribution to the community was remarkable. I admired you as a father, husband and coach. As a fellow...Read More »
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58 of 58 | Posted by: Dan Sweeney - carlsbad, CA
My beloved husband of 24 year, Patrick Gilles, passed away unexpectedly on July 16, 2010. One week before his death, he celibrated his 51st birthday. Pat had two wonderful sons, George who is 14 years old and Patrick who is 13 years old.
Pat was born on July 9th, 1959 and grew up in Riverdale, IL. I met Pat when we were both 19 years old at Western Illinois University. He was a very handsome guy with long red hair and a freckled face and I was a funny looking girl from Japan who spoke very little English. I fell in love with him immediately and we dated through college. After graduating, however, we decided to go separate ways. I went back to Japan and he moved on to work on his Ph. D at Rush University Medical Center in Chicago. Six months later, however, he wrote me a letter saying “I miss you and I want to visit you in Japan.” So he came and stayed with me in a tiny studio apartment in Tokyo for 6 weeks. We had a great time in Japan and talked about getting back together. After going back to the U.S., he sent me an engagement ring. However, I was not quite ready at the time and did not give him a definite answer. According to his sister, Eileen, Pat was devastated. Another six months went, and I was ready to marry him. Unfortunately, Pat was very upset and would not take me back. I was desperate and wrote him a letter every day for several months. Finally, he told me to come back to the U.S. On March 18th, 1986, Pat and I got married in a City Hall in Chicago and had a wedding on July 20th, 1986.
We moved to San Diego in 1988 for his Post-Doctoral Fellowship at the Scripps Research Institute in La Jolla, CA. We had our first baby, George, in 1995 and another son, Patrick, in 1997. Without a question, Pat was the most dedicated dad to his children. He spent so much time with the boys, coaching their soccer teams and taking them to many sports events. He volunteered as an AYSO soccer coach for 8 years. He inspired and encouraged many kids on his teams as well. Pat loved George and Patrick so much. He taught them by example, how to be tough, polite and humble. He was also very proud of their accomplishments in school and sports.
Pat worked at Life Technologies, formally known as Invitrogen, in Carlsbad for over 10 years. He held various positions at the company through those years, but at home he never talked about his work. So I did not know Pat as a scientist and I did not even think he had many friends at work. Boy was I wrong to think that. During the viewing service, I had an opportunity to speak with many of his coworkers and found out that Pat was loved by so many people. Everyone I talked said Pat was the nicest guy they ever met, very dependable and he was the “go-to” guy when they needed help. He was passionate about science and dedicated to his work. Also, Pat was always the first guy to be at work. Many were wondering what time he actually went to work every morning. Well, he got up around 5am every day, got ready and left. So my guess is about 6am. It is very comforting to know Pat loved his work and enjoyed working with many of the coworkers.
To me, Pat was like “fresh air.” Because of him, I could breathe, stay alive and feel great, but I often took him for granted. However, without him, I could not breathe and would not know what to do. Now, he is gone, I must learn how to breathe by myself. But, I will stay strong for my sons, George and Patrick. I will raise them to be wonderful human being just like Pat and keep his legacy going. Pat, I miss you so much and love you forever.
Love,
His wife and best friend, Miho
Patrick N. Gilles, Ph.D.
Biotechnology Research (12 years):
February 1999 – July 2010: Life Technologies, Carlsbad, CA
2007-2010 Principal Scientist
2004-2007 R&D Customer Services Manager
2003-2005 R&D Product Development Manager
1999-2004 R&D Lead Scientist
November 1997-January 1999: Senior Research Scientist, Nanogen Inc., San Diego, CA
August 1995-November 1997: Research Scientist, Immusol Inc., San Diego, CA
Academic Post-Doctoral Research (6 years):
October 1991-July 1995: Post-Graduate Microbiologist, University of California San Diego (UCSD)
November 1988-October 1991: Post-Doctoral Fellow, The Scripps Research Institute, La Jolla, CA
Background Education:
September 1983-June 1989: Doctor of Philosophy in Immunology, Rush University Medical Center, Chicago, IL.
September 1981-June 1983: Master of Science Degree in Microbiology, Western Illinois University
September 1977-June 1981: Bachelor of Science Degree in Biology, Western Illinois University
Visitation
July 22, 2010
4:00 PM
to 8:00 PM
El Camino Memorial Encinitas Cha
340 Melrose Ave
Encinitas, CA 92024
Funeral Service
July 23, 2010
11:00 AM
to 12:00 PM
St Elizabeth Seton Church
6628 Santa Isabel St
Carlsbad, CA
Interment
July 23, 2010
1:00 PM
to 1:30 PM
Mission San Luis Rey
4050 Mission Ave
Oceanside, CA
Mihosan,
I just learned of your loss.
I am so very sorry that Patrick was taken from you so soon. I remember when you were dating back at Western. I saw Linda Hauskey (from Western, my roommate after you) this past weekend and we were talking about you, Kyoko and Junko (I'm sure I messed up the spelling) and what fun times we had ordering pizza late at night and just being gigglie girls.
I remember back in college what
Mihosan,
I just learned of your loss.
I am so very sorry that Patrick was taken from you so soon. I remember when you were dating back at Western. I saw Linda Hauskey (from Western, my roommate after you) this past weekend and we were talking about you, Kyoko and Junko (I'm sure I messed up the spelling) and what fun times we had ordering pizza late at night and just being gigglie girls.
I remember back in college what a special love you and Patrick shared...I had no idea of what you had gone through to get back on track with each other...what an incredible love story!
I was blessed to have shared a room with you and to have met you from such a far away land. My mom often mentions the red and white carnations she send you for your birthday to remind you of your home.
My thoughts and prayers are with you my friend. I wish you the love and joyful memories that you have to carry you on and to share with two such beautiful sons that you have! Be well my special friend.
Laura (Jacobson) Werner
Posted by: Laura (Jacobson) Werner - Elk Grove Village, IL - Roommate of Miho at WIU. Dec 30, 2011
Sorry for your loss
Dr. Gilles was very nice to us
We met last year during The la costa matrix boys under 14 boys soocer season,my son Estevan played with George last year.
Posted by: Humberto Gonzalez - Goerge and Estevan team mstes Nov 07, 2010
My most sincere condolences to Miho, George and Patrick Jr. I remember seeing Patrick at the soccer games. He will be greatly missed.
The Olavide Family
Posted by: Rafael Olavide - Carlsbad, CA Sep 18, 2010
Dear Miho, George, and Patrick (P.J.)
It is with tremendous sadness that I have learned of Pat's sudden passing. I went to high school with him and have wonderful memories of him. Pat was smart, kind, funny, and truly a good person who looked for the best in everyone. While I have not had the pleasure to see him in many years, it is good to learn of the many positive ways his life has touched so many people.
I pray that God will grant you peace and ease your heart.
Posted by: Sue DeMaat Habegger - Crete, IL Aug 17, 2010
please accept our most sincere and heartfelt condolences. Life's is a mystery to all of us. George and patrick jr. and miho , you are in our thoughts and prayers. Cyrous sheikh DDS at discovery children's dentistry
Posted by: cyrous sheikh - carlsbad, CA - the boys dentist Aug 16, 2010
When I think of Pat, this is what rings in my head ... "Good job son!" "Good idea son." OUr son Travis was lucky enough to have Pat coach him for three AYSO seasons. He gave Travis the biggest compliment of his soccer career, telling him that he had "the heart of a lion." Pat was the most inspiring and caring coach Travis has ever had in any sport or activity in his 13 years. Our lives were forever touched
When I think of Pat, this is what rings in my head ... "Good job son!" "Good idea son." OUr son Travis was lucky enough to have Pat coach him for three AYSO seasons. He gave Travis the biggest compliment of his soccer career, telling him that he had "the heart of a lion." Pat was the most inspiring and caring coach Travis has ever had in any sport or activity in his 13 years. Our lives were forever touched and enhanced because of that sweet and demanding guy in the big sun hat. Soccer season, and life itself, will be diminished without him. Love to George, Patrick and Miho.
Posted by: Kristine, Justus and Travis Breese - Carlsbad, CA - friends Aug 16, 2010
Dear Gilles family,
I am so sorry to hear of Patrick's passing. Please accept my heartfelt condolences. He was the most competent, thoughtful and positive colleague anyone can wish for. i cherish every minute I was able to interact with him during my time at Invitrogen R&D Carlsbad
Wolfgang Kusser
Munich, Germany
Posted by: Wolfgang Kusser - colleague Jul 29, 2010
We are so sorry to hear about Patrick. Please accept our sincere condolences. Our thoughts and prayers our with you.
Joe Ryan& Laurie Ryan & family.
Posted by: Joe Ryan - Eagle, ID - Cousin Jul 29, 2010
Dear Gilles Family,
Our Deepest Condolences To Your Whole Family. We Our Very Sorry To Hear Of Your Recent Tragedy. If We Can Help In Anyway, Please Do Not Hesitate To Ask. Stay Strong And Sorry Again.
-Freeman Family
Posted by: Freeman Family Jul 28, 2010
Dear Gilles Family,
No words can make the pain go away but we know that Patrick's love will bring you comfort and peace now and through the days ahead. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and let us know if we can help out in any way.
Love,
Chuck, Teresa, Conor, and Rylie
Posted by: The Donato Family - friend Jul 28, 2010
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I first worked with Pat in the Spector Lab, where he forever left an impression of being the hardest worker in the lab. Emblazoned in my memory is the image of Pat in surgical mask, gown, and booties toiling away in the BL3 facility doing HIV research. Even with the most deadly of materials, Pat was cleaning up after others, stuffing the autoclave with infectious waste, long after everyone else had gone home.
Over the years Pat helped me to get interviews at Nanogen and Invitrogen, and was always interested and willing to help.
Later, we were surrendipitiously reunited when Applied Biosystems merged with Invitrogen. I was supporting the applications in the field, that he was helping to develop. I could see his happiness to be back in the lab; he was almost euphoric about his projects, something I had not seen in Pat previously. He made the merger all the sweeter, and visiting the R&D facility something to look forward to.
Pat was special in so many ways. He was the only one I can think of that could call me "pal" without it seeming odd or sarcastic. But it did usually take me a few seconds to realize that he meant it in the sincerest and kindest sort of way. Such a simple gesture, but so endearing. He was a beautiful gracious man.
Pat, I will miss you buddy ol' pal.
I first worked with Pat in the Spector Lab, where he forever left an impression of being the hardest worker in the lab. Emblazoned in my memory is the image of Pat in surgical mask, gown, and booties toiling away in the BL3 facility doing HIV research. Even with the most deadly of materials, Pat was cleaning up after others, stuffing the autoclave with infectious waste, long after everyone else had gone home.
Over the years Pat helped me to get interviews at Nanogen and Invitrogen, and was always interested and willing to help.
Later, we were surrendipitiously reunited when Applied Biosystems merged with Invitrogen. I was supporting the applications in the field, that he was helping to develop. I could see his happiness to be back in the lab; he was almost euphoric about his projects, something I had not seen in Pat previously. He made... READ MORE →
Posted by Marshall Pilcher
from Del Mar, CA - co-worker and friend
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July 23, 2010
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Pat was a wonderful colleague and friend to many in the laboratory during his post-doctoral training. He was always a pleasure to work with - always upbeat and optimistic. I remember when he first made the observation that HIV infection in macrophages was upregulated when in contact with endothelial cells. He was so excited he could barely speak and finally just said, "Steve, take a look at these graphs". Pat was the lab's phototographer during those days (thus, only a few pictures of himself).
Pat also got me a great discount on Callaway golf clubs. I was just taking up golf and Pat told me that Miho could get a set of Callaway clubs for a great discount. I think of Pat and Miho every time I use those clubs.I am greatly saddened by Pat's passing and give my hear felt condolences to Miho, his children and family.
Stephen Spector
Pat was a wonderful colleague and friend to many in the laboratory during his post-doctoral training. He was always a pleasure to work with - always upbeat and optimistic. I remember when he first made the observation that HIV infection in macrophages was upregulated when in contact with endothelial cells. He was so excited he could barely speak and finally just said, "Steve, take a look at these graphs". Pat was the lab's phototographer during those days (thus, only a few pictures of himself).
Pat also got me a great discount on Callaway golf clubs. I was just taking up golf and Pat told me that Miho could get a set of Callaway clubs for a great discount. I think of Pat and Miho every time I use those clubs.I am greatly saddened by Pat's passing and give my hear felt condolences to Miho, his children... READ MORE →
Posted by Stephen Spector from La Jolla, CA - Advisor during Post-doctoral fellowship at UCSD on July 23, 2010 -
During the period that Pat and I had worked in the same building, I had been almost always the second person arriving to work in the morning because I need to leave early in the afternoon to pick up my kids. I came back to work on 7/26 after my two-week vacation and saw an empty parking lot. I said to myself: "Even Pat is taking a vacation!" (I did not find out that you decided to go as far as the heaven until later that day and was just trying to justify my taking the long vacation). Yes Pat, you are just on a long, long vacation. You have worked so hard that you deserve it. Now when I become the first person coming to work in the morning I am feeling a deep emptiness. Pat, rest in peace! You and your family will always be in my prayers.
During the period that Pat and I had worked in the same building, I had been almost always the second person arriving to work in the morning because I need to leave early in the afternoon to pick up my kids. I came back to work on 7/26 after my two-week vacation and saw an empty parking lot. I said to myself: "Even Pat is taking a vacation!" (I did not find out that you decided to go as far as the heaven until later that day and was just trying to justify my taking the long vacation). Yes Pat, you are just on a long, long vacation. You have worked so hard that you deserve it. Now when I become the first person coming to work in the morning I am feeling a deep emptiness. Pat, rest in peace! You and your family will always be in my prayers.... READ MORE →
Posted by Lansha Peng from Carlsbad, CA - Collegue on July 23, 2010Comments
Posted by Lansha Peng from Carlsbad, CA - Collegue on July 23, 2010Correction: "I came back to work on 7/19...". I guess this typo does not matter to you Pat because you are enjoying the eternity.
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What are you gonna do this weekend? I don't know, what are you gonna do? I don't know. Let's check with the boys from Riverdale and see what they're doing. (This was a conversation overheard in the hall at Marian Catholic H. S. back in the day.) Nothing has changed, everyone wanted to be where you were Pat, you just got transfered back to the home office too early for the rest of us. Save us a spot eh? We will miss you. Miho, George and Patrick, I will lift you up in my prayers. All my love, Tim Burke
Posted by Tim Burke from Good Hope, IL - childhood friend thru college roomate on July 23, 2010 -
I had the privilege of meeting Pat and his family three years ago at the start of an AYSO soccer season. After volunteering as an assistant coach a couple years, I thought it was time I tried to be a Head Coach of the “Blues Brothers”. Pat was assigned as my assistant coach, and it became apparent that he knew quite a bit more than I did about soccer. I asked him to be the Head Coach, but he said I volunteered, and I needed to follow though with it. He was supportive of my coaching philosophy and was passionate about the playing the game. He loved coaching his sons in soccer and would push his sons to a level of play they were not aware they could play soccer. He did not ask anymore from his kids and the other boys on the team than he would ask of himself. He always participated in the drills and ran sprints with the boys at the conclusion of practice. At the end of the season, we agreed to coach together next year.
The next year, Pat and I connected for another season of coaching. I asked him to be the Head Coach this year, but he declined. He said, “Things were just fine the way we had it.” After coaching a year together, we had a better game plan for this soccer season with the “Gladiators”. We had a team of “over-achievers” that ran through the BU12 division with a 9-2 record and won the championship. At the conclusion of the regular season, Pat was asked to be the All Star Head Coach. He was so proud to be selected as the coach and he approached this responsibility with the same passion and care for the boys that he had with all his teams. After the season, we agreed to coach again next year. We went our separate directions – he went to coaching Spring Select soccer and I went to coaching baseball.
The following year, Pat and I connected again for another season of soccer. This time, we got the opportunity to draft a BU14 team. Pat knew most of the kids, so most of the draft picks were Pat’s idea. That year with the “Men in Black”, we had the incredible team of players. We won another Region 1282 championship, but it was not the wins and losses of the team, but the character of the team that made it so special. With Pat’s guidance, we had selected a group of 12 and 13-year old boys, with commitment, passion, and a selfless approach to the game. Pat had selected a team that embodied the values that all people cherish and it worked for this team. After the season, we agreed to coach together next year. He went to coaching Spring Select soccer and I went to coaching baseball.
This year, I contacted Pat about coaching again, but the answer was different this time. Pat said that his son Patrick had moved to Matrix soccer (George had moved to Matrix a couple seasons ago), and he was not going to coach anymore. I asked him about “three-peating” a championship, but he said Patrick wanted to play Matrix. I asked him “What was I going to do without him as my assistant coach – that it would be difficult to do it without him.” With that calm Pat voice, he said “Don’t worry, you will do just fine. I know you can do it”.
Tonight, I had my first soccer practice without Pat in three years and he was right. We do find in ourselves a way to make it through it.
I will miss you coach.
Pat, Miho, George, and Patrick will always be in our fondest memories. Thank you and God bless.
I had the privilege of meeting Pat and his family three years ago at the start of an AYSO soccer season. After volunteering as an assistant coach a couple years, I thought it was time I tried to be a Head Coach of the “Blues Brothers”. Pat was assigned as my assistant coach, and it became apparent that he knew quite a bit more than I did about soccer. I asked him to be the Head Coach, but he said I volunteered, and I needed to follow though with it. He was supportive of my coaching philosophy and was passionate about the playing the game. He loved coaching his sons in soccer and would push his sons to a level of play they were not aware they could play soccer. He did not ask anymore from his kids and the other boys on the... READ MORE →
Posted by The McCarthy Family - Cliff, Vicki, Connor, Justin, and Mitc from Carlsbad, CA - Coach and Friend on July 23, 2010
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Some day around Christmas of 2009, not many people worked in the lab. I was looking for some DMSO to freeze cells. I asked Pat if he had any. He said he did not. But he helped me look for it.
Later he gave me some DMSO he digged out the fridge. You know, Pat, I really appreciate that. You are a very nice guy. And it is amazing that that DMSO worked very well on the cells. That batch of frozen cells behaved much better than the cells frozen later. I also remember that you tried to help me find some waste disposal sheet. I did not expect you are serious about small things like that. I do not know if there is heaven. But if there is, I hope you can hear me from there. I want you to know that you are deeply missed. I will remember your kindness. That warms my heart. And I believe your kindness must have warmed many people's hearts.Some day around Christmas of 2009, not many people worked in the lab. I was looking for some DMSO to freeze cells. I asked Pat if he had any. He said he did not. But he helped me look for it.
Later he gave me some DMSO he digged out the fridge. You know, Pat, I really appreciate that. You are a very nice guy. And it is amazing that that DMSO worked very well on the cells. That batch of frozen cells behaved much better than the cells frozen later. I also remember that you tried to help me find some waste disposal sheet. I did not expect you are serious about small things like that. I do not know if there is heaven. But if there is, I hope you can hear me from there. I want you to know that you are deeply missed. I... READ MORE →Posted by Lin Hong from San Diego, CA - coworker on July 22, 2010 -
I actually met Pat & Miho at a Gilles family outing shortly after my brother, Don & Eileen were married. They were not yet married but appeared very much in love.
As is most often the case with untimely, unpredictable, unexpected transitions such as Patrick's, it is all too often the case that those of us farthest away from their day-to-day lives get to know them most during times of deep sadness and loss. But through the expressions and lens of his family, friends & associates who knew Patrick all to well, it is by no surprise to see the loving & devoted family he and Miho became with their two handsome sons,George & Patrick. It is also no surprise that despite his quiet demeanor, this young man, whom I met over 30 years ago, gave his life to serving others, through his work and supporting causes that could only improve the lives of those he touched. It appeared evident in his eyes that this is who he would become. His, is indeed, a life to be celebrated even in this difficult time for those who will miss him dearly.
To Miho, George, Patrick, his Dad & Mom, Rita & George, his siblings, Eileen & my Brother Don, David and Kathy and of course my neices & nephews and the entire Gilles family gathered with you in Carlsbad, please know we are there with you in spirit and that our prayers are with you now, and always.
Sincerely,
Loretta Nash(Andrew)Brown & Woolridge FamiliesI actually met Pat & Miho at a Gilles family outing shortly after my brother, Don & Eileen were married. They were not yet married but appeared very much in love.
As is most often the case with untimely, unpredictable, unexpected transitions such as Patrick's, it is all too often the case that those of us farthest away from their day-to-day lives get to know them most during times of deep sadness and loss. But through the expressions and lens of his family, friends & associates who knew Patrick all to well, it is by no surprise to see the loving & devoted family he and Miho became with their two handsome sons,George & Patrick. It is also no surprise that despite his quiet demeanor, this young man, whom I met over 30 years ago, gave his life to serving others, through his work and supporting causes that... READ MORE →
Posted by Loretta N Brown from Rochester Hills , MI - Eileen's Sister-in-Law on July 22, 2010 -
It is well known that Pat always started work very early and left work very late. But few of us knew how early exactly he got into the office. When I joined the ASA group a couple of years ago, I rented an apartment very close to the company. I decided to figure this out. I tried getting to work at 8:00am, 7:45am, and 7:30am. He was there already every time. One day I made an extra effort and arrived at work before 7:00 am. I knew I succeeded finally as soon as I saw the completely empty parking lot. However, Pat didn’t show up at work for the day at all. Later I found out he was on a business trip that day. I gave up my attempt after that.
Now we don’t see that familiar white Camry in the parking lot any more … …
Your colleagues miss you, buddy!My heart goes out to the family!
It is well known that Pat always started work very early and left work very late. But few of us knew how early exactly he got into the office. When I joined the ASA group a couple of years ago, I rented an apartment very close to the company. I decided to figure this out. I tried getting to work at 8:00am, 7:45am, and 7:30am. He was there already every time. One day I made an extra effort and arrived at work before 7:00 am. I knew I succeeded finally as soon as I saw the completely empty parking lot. However, Pat didn’t show up at work for the day at all. Later I found out he was on a business trip that day. I gave up my attempt after that.
Now we don’t see that familiar white Camry in the parking lot any more … …
Your... READ MORE →Posted by Tom Chen from Carlsbad, CA - Colleague on July 22, 2010 -
I was priviledged to work on a project with Pat when we first starting trying to insure better documentation for our processes at Invitrogen. The fact that he was in R&D and I was in Quality, and he sought me out, was a testament to his desire to ensure his team was leading the effort to make our customers happy. This set my impression of Pat. Most recently I would see him in the early morning in the gym at work - very quietly exercising and sweating away with the rest of us, but always a "good morning, Kel". I will miss that. His family is in my prayers.
Posted by Kel Locklar from Oceanside, CA - colleague on July 21, 2010 -
Miho, George, Patrick, Rita, Red, Eileen, Don, David, Kathy and Children,
It was such a shock to hear about Patrick. It has been many years since I have seen him, yet I have so many memories of Pat. We grew up as neighbors and friends. Ice skating in his back yard, playing with Roger and memories of Queen of Apostles. I cannot imagine the loss that all of you will have, and my thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Posted by Barbara Wood Larson from Crown Point, IN - Childhoold and Family Friend on July 21, 2010 -
Pat was my supervisor at Invitrogen from 2000 to 2004; he was a great boss and friend. The Pat I remembered was passionate about life. A native of Chicago, he loved the Bears and later, San Diego Chargers. I have been a long time Packer fan, so work can be intense during football seasons. Scores, records and playoffs; we betted on everything. Winner got treated to lunch at California café, Pat always paid regardless.
Pat appeared reserved first, though he had a great sense of humor. Sometimes my husband and I would joke that Pat played an important role in our life, we were introduced by him. Later, when he wanted to take a jab at us, he would say, “I sent you over to Rob to get your computer set up; little did I know you have been setting up something else instead.” He was our unintentional match maker.
As a brilliant scientist, he believed silliest things. I once found this Chinese horoscope on line and as a joke, read the description of “Earth Pig”, the birth year of Pat to him, “Pig people are friends for life. Their relationships are very deep, devoted, and rich beyond measure. The Pig people are noble and give and receive lots of hugs. They are gallant and extend old-fashioned chivalries towards people they meet. Pig People are quiet, studious, and thorough. The Pig will have an abundance of good fortune and an abundance of years. The Pig will know a life filled with serenity and riches.” He thought it was the most accurate accounts of him, made me printed out a copy and taped to his office.
Dear Miho, George and PJ, I will always remember Pat’s love for his family, the pictures of the boys and AYSO team photos over the years in his office and in the lab. I will always remember his funny stories about traveling to Japan before he got married and with the kids when they were young and finding the perfect yellow roses for Mother’s day. His face would light up when he talked about the sound of little bare feet running through the hallway in middle of night. Something I only fully appreciated after the birth of our boys.
Dear Pat, rest in peace. GO BEARS!
Pat was my supervisor at Invitrogen from 2000 to 2004; he was a great boss and friend. The Pat I remembered was passionate about life. A native of Chicago, he loved the Bears and later, San Diego Chargers. I have been a long time Packer fan, so work can be intense during football seasons. Scores, records and playoffs; we betted on everything. Winner got treated to lunch at California café, Pat always paid regardless.
Pat appeared reserved first, though he had a great sense of humor. Sometimes my husband and I would joke that Pat played an important role in our life, we were introduced by him. Later, when he wanted to take a jab at us, he would say, “I sent you over to Rob to get your computer set up; little did I know you have been setting up... READ MORE →
Posted by Ying, Rob, Thomas and Alex Madison from Carlsbad, CA - friends on July 21, 2010 -
It was pretty much taken for granted that throughout the year you would find Pat on the soccer fields, with a ready handshake and a smile. Pat was my son’s first soccer coach. And he instilled his passion for that game into so many children for so many years. While gentle mannered, Pat could be powerfully loud when he called instructions from the side of the field. Our son’s played together on a number of teams and I feel fortunate to have also been a coach for George.
In a way Pat and I played together as well. We refereed together, coached against one another and last year we even had one big blowout of a disagreement regarding how the recreational soccer teams should be divided up. He thought I had the better team selection and of course I thought he had the better selection. Yes, Pat was passionate and competitive, but he never let it get in the way of our relationship. And we good-naturedly kidded each other about it all last year. Our teams actually ended up meeting in the championship game and it even had to go to a penalty-kick-shoot-out to decide the winner. Pat’s team won. But in his consistently gracious style he talked to me weeks later and in a kind gesture to make me feel better told me that in the championship game his team played their best game of the season.
That’s the Pat I will always remember, kind and caring, gentle and passionate, competitive and warm. The last time I saw Pat he gave me a big hug, I’m happy to have had that last hug, and now wish I could have held it longer. But there is no doubt that I will most certainly hold on to the dear memory of this wonderful man, generous community volunteer, devoted husband and father.
My prayers are with you, with Miho, George and Patrick.
It was pretty much taken for granted that throughout the year you would find Pat on the soccer fields, with a ready handshake and a smile. Pat was my son’s first soccer coach. And he instilled his passion for that game into so many children for so many years. While gentle mannered, Pat could be powerfully loud when he called instructions from the side of the field. Our son’s played together on a number of teams and I feel fortunate to have also been a coach for George.
In a way Pat and I played together as well. We refereed together, coached against one another and last year we even had one big blowout of a disagreement regarding how the recreational soccer teams should be divided up. He thought I had the better team selection and of course I thought he had the... READ MORE →
Posted by Doug Gilmore from San Diego, CA - Friend on July 20, 2010 -
I first met Pat while working at the Scripps Research Institute when Pat was a post-doc in Frank Chisari's lab and I was a research associate in Dennis Carson's lab. Our labs participated in a a 24 hour relay fundraiser to raise funds for vaccinating children. It was easy to convince Pat to join us as he was an avid runner. Pat told me that that he had a goal of running the distance of a marathon. The relay was set at a track and participants ran or walked around the track in shifts. We could not convince anyone to run the grave yard shift. Pat stepped up and took the shift. He asked me to keep track of his laps. Well, around 3AM and in a state of delirium from lack of sleep, I lost track of Pat's laps. I furiously looked at my scratch pad of hash marks; was it three more or five more laps? As Pat ran around the track in his own state of delirium he asked me how many more. I reported back that he had a few more laps to go. I looked at my notes trying to resolve how many more he needed to complete his goal. Each time he passed me, he asked me how many more and I kept telling him a few more, which was starting to get annoying. He was looking really tired and his pace slowed down considerably. I finally told him that he had two more laps and he perked up and gave it one last good effort around the track. When he finished, he was so relieved. However, when I looked through my notes, I realized that I had miscounted; Pat needed two more laps to complete the distance of a marathon. I never told Pat until several years later while we were enjoying a Guinness. He laughed and slapped me on the back.
Pat, I will miss you dearly and will always treasure my thoughts of you.
My heart is heavy with sadness. Miho, George and Patrick I pray for you as continue on your journey.
--Dave
I first met Pat while working at the Scripps Research Institute when Pat was a post-doc in Frank Chisari's lab and I was a research associate in Dennis Carson's lab. Our labs participated in a a 24 hour relay fundraiser to raise funds for vaccinating children. It was easy to convince Pat to join us as he was an avid runner. Pat told me that that he had a goal of running the distance of a marathon. The relay was set at a track and participants ran or walked around the track in shifts. We could not convince anyone to run the grave yard shift. Pat stepped up and took the shift. He asked me to keep track of his laps. Well, around 3AM and in a state of delirium from lack of sleep, I lost track of Pat's laps. I furiously looked at my scratch pad of hash marks;... READ MORE →
Posted by David Wu from San Diego, CA - Friend of Pat Gilles on July 20, 2010




