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John James, founder of The Grief Recovery Institute

John W. James

Founder of The Grief Recovery Institute®
Co-Author of The Grief Recovery
Handbook & When Children Grieve

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Russell Friedman, Executive Director of The Grief Recovery Institute

Russell Friedman

Executive Director
Co-Author of The Grief Recovery
Handbook & When Children Grieve


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Time Doesn't Heal - Actions Do

I have heard that it takes two years to get over the death of a loved one, five years to get over the death of a parent, and you never get over the death of a child. Is this true?

It is impossible to answer that question without first debunking the phrase "get over."

You will never your child who died, nor would you forget a parent who died, or a spouse, a sibling, or anyone else with whom you had a meaningful relationship. Another problem is the arbitrary determination of time periods for grief corresponding to your relationship with the person who died.

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Ask John & Russell – It's not helpful to blame ourselves for the decisions others make. (Published 6/21/2016)

Q:

My mother lost her battle with cancer a year and a half ago. I was 18 at the time. It happened just two days after my high school graduation. I blame myself because she forced herself to go to the ceremony. We were very close and to this day I still feel responsible for her death. Will this guilt ever go away? I am now 20 years old and in college, but I have lost all motivation and have fallen into a slump because I carry this guilt with me every day. Is there any way to help?


Russell Friedman Replies:

Dear Christina,

Thanks for your note and questions.

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    June 2016
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