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“There is no significance in the date or any specific memory that brought me to your page today. It's just a typical day. I have so many memories...Read More »
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1 of 52 | Posted by: Elizabeth Jackson - Modesto, CA
“I can hardly believe it has been 2 years since you left us. I still come here all the time looking for you. There are so many things I would like...Read More »
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2 of 52 | Posted by: Elizabeth Jackson - Modesto, CA
“Miss you Jeff
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3 of 52 | Posted by: Dave and Shelly Wakefield
“"Once you greet death and understand your heart's position, your life feels different on you, You wear your life like a garment from the mission...Read More »
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4 of 52 | Posted by: Marla - Las Vegas, NV
“"The Lord bless you and keep you:
the Lord make his face to shine upon you, and be gracious to you:
the Lord lift up his countenance upon you, and...Read More »
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5 of 52 | Posted by: Linda - Mother of Girlfriend
“Today would have been your 50th Birthday. We would have planned a big party for you and invited all our friends and family. For your Birthday I...Read More »
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6 of 52 | Posted by: Elizabeth Jackson - Modesto, CA
“I have always cherished each day I had with you and still miss you and think of you every day. I read this today and of course thought of you so...Read More »
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7 of 52 | Posted by: Elizabeth Jackson - Modesto, CA
“There hasn't been a day since the day I met you that I haven't thought of you. I miss you.
"There's this place in me where your finger...Read More »
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8 of 52 | Posted by: Elizabeth Jackson - Modesto, CA
“Our lives are ever changing. We move from one space to another without ever being sure of what the new space will bring to our us. Sometimes it's...Read More »
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9 of 52 | Posted by: Linda McQueen - CA
“Here we are coming upon 1 year since you left us. One year ago today was an important day for us. We made it to our 90 day mark. I had taken a...Read More »
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10 of 52 | Posted by: Elizabeth Jackson - Modesto, CA
“My heart aches for you. I would give anything to have just one more moment with you. Just one more touch of your hand, one more kiss of your lips,...Read More »
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11 of 52 | Posted by: Elizabeth Jackson - Modesto, CA
“I am reminded of Jeff everyday as this time last year is when we were falling in love. I never realized how much someone can touch your life and...Read More »
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12 of 52 | Posted by: Elizabeth Jackson - Modesto, CA
“Elizabeth and Jeff had a joke that she wouldn't commit to him before she'd known him for 90 days. He passed away on the 91st day, not the 89th or the...Read More »
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13 of 52 | Posted by: Linda McQueen - Grass Valley, CA
“Jeff...I remember him being so funny! It's true what Shelly described; all of us at a sleepover at their home and Jeff was one of us! He was always...Read More »
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14 of 52 | Posted by: Veronica Hofheinz - Nevada City, CA
“Today is Jeffs Birthday. It is a day to celebrate his life. I am so glad I got to be part of it. I wish we could have celebrated together. I wish I...Read More »
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15 of 52 | Posted by: Elizabeth Jackson - Hughson, CA
“Not a day goes by that I am not still thinking of Jeff and wishing he was still here. My life does not seem complete without him. I miss him more...Read More »
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16 of 52 | Posted by: Elizabeth Jackson - Hughson, CA
“I miss you so Jeff. I can't cry all the tears I feel about losing you. I miss your goober laugh and the funny magical show you would do for my...Read More »
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17 of 52 | Posted by: Shelly Wakefield (Vollmer) - CA
“I miss my good friend. Today would have been a day I'd have called him for sure. Not because it was anything significant (like his birthday which I...Read More »
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18 of 52 | Posted by: Michael Noriega - Mariposa, CA
“Not a day goes by that I am not thinking of Jeff. He was the most incredible man. He filled my life with so many great memories. There is no unhappy...Read More »
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19 of 52 | Posted by: Elizabeth Jackson - Hughson, CA
“I saw 10 hot air balloons in the sky today. I thought to myself, what a wonderful thing to do! I hurried home and looked it up online. The page I...Read More »
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20 of 52 | Posted by: Passing By
“Jeff,
you were always there to make the day better. You were like a brother who could pick on us one second and defend us the next. I can tell by...Read More »
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21 of 52 | Posted by: cyndi beoshanz/buchanan
“Another week has passed since Jeff passed away. Tomorrow is 12 weeks. I am still struggling with it. I miss him everyday. One of our friends sent me...Read More »
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22 of 52 | Posted by: Elizabeth Jackson - Hughson, CA
“I remember hangin' with shelly and spending the night or the whole weekend on La Jolla st. and Jeff and his friends would wrestle us down in the...Read More »
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23 of 52 | Posted by: dawn cochran - stockton, CA
“Daad, there are absolutly no words to describe the way a daughter feels to loose there amazing father at 17, Dad i thank God every day for giving me...Read More »
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24 of 52 | Posted by: Morgan Vollmer
“Jeff and I came back from Tahoe a day early because it was our friends Roxanne and Sue's birthday party at Sharon's Lounge. This picture was taken at...Read More »
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25 of 52 | Posted by: Elizabeth Jackson - Hughson, CA
“I was so looking forward to sharing more high school memories, discovering more mutual friends as we looked over more yearbook pictures, and watching...Read More »
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26 of 52 | Posted by: Pam Stalnaker
“My heart goes out to Jeff's family and friends. My life is richer for knowing him. We shared walks and talks that brought us so close as friends. He...Read More »
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27 of 52 | Posted by: Wendy Kelly - Patterson, CA
“Another memory has come to me, one of my all-time favorites. Several people went backpacking; the group included my dad, George, Jeff's stepdad,...Read More »
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28 of 52 | Posted by: Robin Allison - Stockton, CA
“I knew Jeff Volmer as a co-worker at the Lawrence Livermore National Laboratory, and through being friends with Betty, Roger, and Shelly. Jeff was a...Read More »
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29 of 52 | Posted by: John Larson - Stockton, CA
“I met Jeff face to face only once, but I knew him for a long time. I knew him for the smile on my daughter's face, the light in her eyes and the...Read More »
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30 of 52 | Posted by: Linda McQueen - Grass Valley, CA
“Jeff and I went to Santa Cruz for the weekend. We took a bike ride along the beach to a lighthouse. We hopped the fence because he wanted to show me...Read More »
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31 of 52 | Posted by: Elizabeth Jackson - Hughson, CA
“Dear Morgan and Family, I am so sorry I never got to meet your dad. He was so well loved by many. Cherish every moment you had with him!! I know he...Read More »
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32 of 52 | Posted by: pat farris - winter garden, FL
“Dad i dont think im ready to write on here. i was sitting here with mommy and i saw she was writing to u, i starting to break down i couldnt hold the...Read More »
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33 of 52 | Posted by: Morgan Vollmer - FL
“I never had the pleasure to meet Jeff. Elizabeth was keeping him to herself... I do know however what a wonderful man he was, we all could see it and...Read More »
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34 of 52 | Posted by: Glena Jackson - Hughson, CA
“I have Shelly, Jeff, and their parents to thank for some of the best childhood memories any one could ask for. It was an enchanting time to be who we...Read More »
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35 of 52 | Posted by: Barbara Campos Gates - Oceanside, CA
“After reading the touching thoughts shared by many friends I have been introduced to a young Jeff. You see, when I met Jeff he was already a grown...Read More »
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36 of 52 | Posted by: Linda Ewart - Stockton, CA
“I didn't know Jeff very well.
I met him through a friend, I think it was the mid 80's.
He said something to me that changed my life.
(Can't stop...Read More »
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37 of 52 | Posted by: Felicia Craggs - Marina Del Rey, CA
“I haven't seen Jeff in nearly 15 years, although I have fond memories of our childhood. As cousins, we would play and swim in his backyard pool and...Read More »
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38 of 52 | Posted by: Robin Allison - Stockton, CA
“Shelly, Dave, Kaylynn, and all friends and family members of Jeff - You are all in our hearts and thoughts during this difficult time. Take comfort...Read More »
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39 of 52 | Posted by: Arlene & Tony Goligowski
“I loved him with all my heart and all my soul.
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40 of 52 | Posted by: Elizabeth Jackson - Hughson, CA
“Wow I don't even know where to begin but I have known Jeff and Shelly pretty much my whole life growing up on La Jolla Dr. My best memory of all is...Read More »
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41 of 52 | Posted by: Leona Swanson Radovich - Lodi, CA
“I met Jeff at a wedding in Port Alberni about three years ago, and we had so much fun....He always had a smile on his face..My sister thought he...Read More »
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42 of 52 | Posted by: christine marquardt
“Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your loved ones at this time.
Morrie and Tori
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43 of 52 | Posted by: Morrie and Tori Lewis
“ONE OF MY MOST FOND MEMORIES OF JEFF WAS WHEN HE AND I TOOK MY MOTHER( SHE WAS 81) OUT DANCING. SHE HAD NOT BEEN OUT DANCING FOR YEARS.JEFF BEING THE...Read More »
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44 of 52 | Posted by: CAROLYN WATERMAN
“Jeff and I are good friends. I know many, many people that would describe Jeff as their good friend. I met him at Sharon’s Lounge in Rancho Cordova...Read More »
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45 of 52 | Posted by: Sue DAmico
“My thoughts are with the family!!Jeff was truly a remarkable man.I met him five years ago when Rick introduce me to him.I am ricks girlfriend so I...Read More »
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46 of 52 | Posted by: Sylvia Macdonald
“To my bestfriend...
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47 of 52 | Posted by: Rick Helwick
“Sad to hear of someone passing so young. I knew Jeff in his 20's and early 30's till I moved away. I was at his wedding. Jeff had a bright...Read More »
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48 of 52 | Posted by: Michael Cohen - Valley Springs, CA
“Living with him back in the day, he was always happy and energetic,Good morals
and great attitude about life, He will
truly be missed by all who...Read More »
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49 of 52 | Posted by: Art Sanguino - Stockton, CA
“Jeff and I had a great time in Reno and Tahoe. We were soooooo happy. I will write and send more pics soon. I miss him so much.
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50 of 52 | Posted by: Elizabeth Jackson - Hughson, CA
“Here is a picture of Jeff and me in Reno. It was a great time. We were sooooo happy. I will take some time soon to write more and send more picutres.
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51 of 52 | Posted by: Elizabeth Jackson - Hughson, CA
“Shelly and Dave my hugs on Saturday are all for you. There is a reason that he was called home. And Home is where he is. Cricket
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52 of 52 | Posted by: cricket clark
This is about Jeffery Gene Vollmer’s life, at least the one I knew. We'd love to hear what stories, love and life he had with you. Please contact us if you have pictures you'd like to add to the Gallery as well.
I had the privilege of having Jeff as my brother for a short 47 years. Jeff was born and raised in Stockton California to Ron and Betty Vollmer, July 12, 1961. Jeff was the curious type, I think from day one he wanted to know the whys of things and life. We shared a home on La Jolla Drive, went to John Tyler for one year then were bused to Martin Luther King, then off to Webster for middle school and then to Stagg Sr. High where he graduated with the class of 1979. Jeff tried many things, constantly investigating something different. Our home was always filled with kids, whether including Mike Noriega, Niki Keyser, Paul Alverez, Ralph Martin, Matt Dinkle, Vern Smith or all of my friends that Jeff was always in the middle of. Barbara Campos, Dawn Cochran, Veronica Perez just to name a few. I would have a slumber party and Jeff would be in the middle of all us, to my chagrin.
My father and mother divorced and not too far in the future we met our step-father Roger Crawford who has been a wonderful guide and person in his life. Our biological father stayed in Jeff’s life but passed away on Dec 5, 2005. Jeff has a step brother KC Crawford and a step sister Cary.
Jeff had the single life while going to and graduating from San Joaquin Delta College with an AA in Mechanical Engineering Tech. He soon went to work for Lawrence Livermore laboratories. Life changed when he met Lisa Feldman. She was the one for him they eventually got married and had a beautiful son Tyler Preston Vollmer, a child so much like himself, full of curiosity and intelligence with that wonderful compassion. A couple of years later he and Lisa had a beautiful daughter Morgan Vollmer. Jeff loved motorcycle riding, had a home full of little critters and there was always something happening at the Vollmer residence. I’m hoping his kids and Lisa will tell you more about what Jeff’s life was about with them.
Lisa and Jeff divorced and Jeff maintained a long distance relationship with his kids traveling to Florida at least once every other month and most holidays. I know he talked with Tyler on a daily basis.
Jeff changed his career a few times but his heart was always in the sales scene. I’d listen to him on the phone so many times and he was a true professional.
When Jeff moved to Rancho Cordova for what I thought would be a great change of pace, he found happiness in living near the American River and having a great pub across the way that dearly loved him.
Jeff met Elizabeth who is and was special to him. She and his best friend Rick were with him when he took his last breath.
Everyone knew Jeff differently, but I think we all can say he wouldn’t hurt a fly; he was a gentle man and a gentleman. He loved his kids…and loved being their dad. He was searching for love and found Elizabeth.
I saw my brother very few times, although we lived in the same area. On occasion he would join Dave and me ballooning either in Sacramento or at the Great Reno Balloon Races. I loved Jeff, I wanted us to grow old together but fate has changed this.
No matter who you are please write things you knew and saw both in and with Jeff. Please send pics and music, thoughts etc…
Memorial Service
November 07, 2009
2:00 PM
Sharons Lounge
11050 Coloma Road
Rancho Cordova, CA 95670
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There is no significance in the date or any specific memory that brought me to your page today. It's just a typical day. I have so many memories of us that I am reminded of you everyday. No matter where else life takes me you hold a place in my heart that will never fade.
Posted by: Elizabeth Jackson - Modesto, CA - Girlfriend Feb 07, 2012
I can hardly believe it has been 2 years since you left us. I still come here all the time looking for you. There are so many things I would like to say and yet have said them so many times already. You touched my life in a way I never thought possible. I realize that I have to move forward in my life without you and I am but I still miss you more than any one could have imagined and will love you for the rest of my life.
Posted by: Elizabeth Jackson - Modesto, CA - Girlfriend Oct 31, 2011
Miss you Jeff
Posted by: Dave and Shelly Wakefield - Brother-in-law and Sister Jul 13, 2011
"Once you greet death and understand your heart's position, your life feels different on you, You wear your life like a garment from the mission bundle sale ever after -- lightly because you realize you never paid nothing for it, cherishing it because you know you won't ever come by such a bargain again."- Louise Erdrich
Wishing all love and light in the loss of Jeff.
Posted by: Marla - Las Vegas, NV - Cousin of Girlfriend Jul 13, 2011
"The Lord bless you and keep you:
the Lord make his face to shine upon you, and be gracious to you:
the Lord lift up his countenance upon you, and give you peace."
Numbers 6:24-26
For all who loved Jeff
Posted by: Linda - Mother of Girlfriend Jul 12, 2011
Today would have been your 50th Birthday. We would have planned a big party for you and invited all our friends and family. For your Birthday I wanted to send a few pictures of some fun times we had. I never stop thinking about you loving you or missing you.
Posted by: Elizabeth Jackson - Modesto, CA - Girlfriend Jul 12, 2011
I have always cherished each day I had with you and still miss you and think of you every day. I read this today and of course thought of you so want to share it with others who love you.
What moves through us is a silence, a quiet sadness, a longing for one more day, one more word, one more touch, we may not understand why you left this earth so soon, or why you left before we
I have always cherished each day I had with you and still miss you and think of you every day. I read this today and of course thought of you so want to share it with others who love you.
What moves through us is a silence, a quiet sadness, a longing for one more day, one more word, one more touch, we may not understand why you left this earth so soon, or why you left before we were ready to say good-bye, but little by little, we will begin to remember not just that you died, but that you lived. And that your life gave us memories too beautiful to forget.
Posted by: Elizabeth Jackson - Modesto, CA - Girlfriend Mar 20, 2011
There hasn't been a day since the day I met you that I haven't thought of you. I miss you.
"There's this place in me where your finger prints still rest... your kisses still linger and your whispers softly echo... It's the place where a part of you will forever be a part of me." - Anonymous
Posted by: Elizabeth Jackson - Modesto, CA - Girlfriend Jan 18, 2011
Our lives are ever changing. We move from one space to another without ever being sure of what the new space will bring to our us. Sometimes it's joy, but sometimes it's sorrow. If when I'm gone from this earth people will say that I brought something worthwhile into their lives I will have had a successful life. When I leave this earth no one will know what my next space will involve. But be sure, as I am, that
Our lives are ever changing. We move from one space to another without ever being sure of what the new space will bring to our us. Sometimes it's joy, but sometimes it's sorrow. If when I'm gone from this earth people will say that I brought something worthwhile into their lives I will have had a successful life. When I leave this earth no one will know what my next space will involve. But be sure, as I am, that Jeff is in a space inside all the hearts of all who knew him. I know this because all of you have told me so. Where else is he? I don't know, but I believe that if it's possible, he's somewhere looking at us and telling us the time to mourn him is passing. Now he wants only smiles when he's remembered. He was a happy guy. He loved to laugh and make his friends laugh with him. I know this because Elizabeth told me so as did the pictures they shared with me. None of us will ever forget him. None of us will ever stop wishing his time with us could have been longer. But, there will be fewer and fewer tears and more and more smiles when we think of what time he was able to share with each of us. So, on this anniversary, let's say Thanks Jeff, it was good to know you!
Posted by: Linda McQueen - CA - girlfriend's mother Nov 04, 2010
Here we are coming upon 1 year since you left us. One year ago today was an important day for us. We made it to our 90 day mark. I had taken a class that said by the time you reach 90 days the chemical response would be worn off and you will be able to see the real person. You loved to tease me about it and said I would wake up on the 89th day and realize I
Here we are coming upon 1 year since you left us. One year ago today was an important day for us. We made it to our 90 day mark. I had taken a class that said by the time you reach 90 days the chemical response would be worn off and you will be able to see the real person. You loved to tease me about it and said I would wake up on the 89th day and realize I didn't want you. You and Rick drove down to celebrate our important milestone. You and Rick laughed and said I had until midnight to change my mind then there was no gong back. We would be locked together forever. We all went to my dance class and you learned to do a line dance called 'aint going nowhere" then you learned to Two Step and later we sang Karokee. We danced and sang all night. At midnight you made a toast stating that you and I were forever now. You said we were special and everyone there knew it. It was a great night.......
Posted by: Elizabeth Jackson - Modesto, CA - Girlfriend Oct 28, 2010
