Condolence & Memory Journal

"Survivors include his wife of 19 years, Imelda and his brother and sister in law, Kenneth and Kathie DeFay, Sr. and numerous nieces and nephews."

Survivors also include two daughters, Donna & Michelle, who Paul never acknowledged or recognized. He disavowed us even in death. Just because he never acknowledged us or reached out to us, doesn't mean we did not exist. I thank God every day for my Step-father, who is the only father I've ever known. God works in mysterious ways sometimes. I count my blessings frequently that he placed such a great man and role model in my life. You can run from your past, but you cannot hide; not even in death. R.I.P. Mr. DeFay.

Posted by Donna - Acquaintance   February 08, 2016