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“Paul's love and concern for the students and staff at Dominion were reflected in his smile, his kind words, and the care he showed in the work he did...Read More »
1 of 37 | Posted by: Louise Mann - Harpers Ferry, WV

“So sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Paul was so kind to our Mimi. We will always remember him fondly. ”
2 of 37 | Posted by: Ken & Kathi Barefoot - VA

“Paul was a very good neighbor. He would always help you if you needed it. The last time I saw Paul, he was in my house helping a friend of mine...Read More »
3 of 37 | Posted by: Corinne DeLisle - Sterling, VA

“Denise, I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I hope you feel the love that surrounds you, now and...Read More »
4 of 37 | Posted by: Stefani Wareham - Leesburg, VA

“Denise - so sorry to hear of Paul's passing. The staff and volunteers at the Senior Center at Cascades send our deepest sympathies and are keeping...Read More »
5 of 37 | Posted by: Brenda Davis - Sterling, VA

“Denise and family, I am so sorry or your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. ”
6 of 37 | Posted by: Kim (crawford) Wade - unionville, VA

“Remembering his wonderful and gentle soul will forever remain in our hearts. May he rest in peace! I will never forget his kindness. May God give...Read More »
7 of 37 | Posted by: Rita Giampaoli - Aldie, VA

“May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived. ”
8 of 37 | Posted by: Mary Strenko - Clear Brook, VA

“My friend and neighbor of 15 years, we will miss you everyday. Thank you for all the laughs and beautiful memories. May you Rest In Peace ❤ ”
9 of 37 | Posted by: April Ciaramella - Sterling, VA

“My thoughts and prayers go out to you all! May you ALWAYS find comfort in your memories! ”
10 of 37 | Posted by: Evonne DeNome - Falls Church, VA

“Denise, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. ”
11 of 37 | Posted by: Diana Parks - Leesburg, VA

“Our condolences to all the families of our beloved friend Paul Friedman. I remember him when he visited our students in the gym or in the classroom...Read More »
12 of 37 | Posted by: Rita Chauca - Leesburg, VA

“Denise, we are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. ”
13 of 37 | Posted by: Irene & Mike Legerlotz - Manheim, PA

“Our thoughts and prayers are with Denise. His constant enthusiasm was contagious. Even thoug I spent little time with Paul, he will be missed. ”
14 of 37 | Posted by: Gordon Friedman - Charleston, SC

“Denise and Family, We are saddened to hear of Paul's death. Our thoughts are with you ”
15 of 37 | Posted by: The Menard Family - Silver Spring, MD

“May God give comfort to His family Our prayers are with youDolores ”
16 of 37 | Posted by: Dolores Finney Speight - VA

“Paul was my brother-in-law for well over 37 years. He and Denise were a perfect match, and I was so happy that he had found his true soul-mate! He...Read More »
17 of 37 | Posted by: Jennifer Arnhold - Issaquah, WA

“Sorry to hear of his passing . Peggy and me will be praying for you and family ”
18 of 37 | Posted by: Richard Ulrey - Virginia Beach, VA

“I am sorry. Unfortunately I never had the chance to meet him, but he must have been one awesome man to be loved by such a wonderful family he married...Read More »
19 of 37 | Posted by: Mary Anne and David Gertson - MD

“My nephew Paul was a loving, caring person who was a joy to be with.His death has taken a light out of the world and he will be missed byeveryone who...Read More »
20 of 37 | Posted by: June Greenwald - Laguna Woods, CA

“Our condolences to every family member & friend who are grieving especially his sister Sherry Lohse who has shared many loving sentiments and her...Read More »
21 of 37 | Posted by: Deborah Scheimann - CO - friend

“I met Paul when I worked with my friend Denise at UAL. They had just started dating, and I thought something special was developing between them. It...Read More »
22 of 37 | Posted by: Jennifer Storz - Arlington, TX

“My dear brother, Paul, I will always love and miss you. I cannot believe you are gone from this earth. I take comfort in knowing I will see you again. ”
23 of 37 | Posted by: SHERRY LOHSE - Colorado Springs, CO

“So sorry to hear of this loss ”
24 of 37 | Posted by: Paul Dee and Ann Friedman - MA

“We are so very sorry for you and your family ”
25 of 37 | Posted by: Fritz and Debbie Heimer - VA

“So sorry to hear of your loss Denise. ”
26 of 37 | Posted by: Beth Sanchez (Zolecki) - NM

“Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. I will always have memories of Paul's humor and kindness. My love to you and your family...Read More »
27 of 37 | Posted by: Tanya Wilder - Atlanta, GA

“Gone to soon. Denise our love to you. Jim and Carol Herrle ”
28 of 37 | Posted by: Carol & Jim Herrle - Genesee, WI

“Our deepest thoughts and prayers go out to Paul's family. I worked with Paul at Loudoun County Public Schools and I will always remember him as a...Read More »
29 of 37 | Posted by: Mitch Cunningham - Hagerstown, MD


30 of 37 | Posted by: Todd Taylor - Tacoma, WA - family


31 of 37 | Posted by: Todd Taylor - Tacoma, WA - family

Had  great time when we visited pete you will be missed!
32 of 37 | Posted by: Todd Taylor - Tacoma, WA - family

“Pete,Todd and shaun Taylor may 2018 ”
33 of 37 | Posted by: Todd Taylor - Tacoma, WA - family

“I am sad to hear the passing of Paul I and my family called him Pete,he moved in next door to me and my family when he was a kid a few years older...Read More »
34 of 37 | Posted by: Todd Taylor - Tacoma, WA - family

“Oh my! Another great guy gone way too soon. I remember Mr. Paul always working at Dominion. He was around the school talking with everyone and doing...Read More »
35 of 37 | Posted by: Patti Matsos - Bluffton, SC

“I could not even breathe when I heard this news. Mr. Paul, as we lovingly called him, frequented the special education classrooms I worked in for 12...Read More »
36 of 37 | Posted by: Jessy Montero - Ashburn, VA

“We are completely shocked and heartbroken to hear of Paul's passing. He had just visited with us last week, and looked and sounded better than ever!...Read More »
37 of 37 | Posted by: Margee Mangus - Sterling, VA


Paul David Friedman was born on October 6, 1962, in Oakland, California - a true Raiders fan! He grew up in Seattle, WA, joined the US Army, and eventually made his way to Virginia. He worked for United Airlines for 10 years, where he met and married Denise. He also worked at Loudoun County Schools for over 13 years. He was a wonderful husband, father, brother, son-in-law, and uncle. He had an infectious laugh that will be remembered by everyone who knew him. He is survived by his loving wife of almost 21 years, Denise, many nieces and nephews, his son Dhane of Seattle, his mother-in-law (Arline Torcisi), 4 siblings-in-law - Frank (Lisa), Tony, and Michael (Fawn) Torcisi, Vicki Torcisi-Constein (Troy), his Aunt June, four brothers (Paul, Jim, Ed, Gordon), and a sister (Sherry). He has now joined the Lord in heaven with his mother Blanche, father Paul Sr, uncles, and aunts. "He will truly be missed by the Friedman, Arnhold, and Torcisi families. A celebration of life will be held at a later time, no immediate services are planned.