Barbara E. Lanier
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Barbara E. Lanier

  • February 4, 2012
  • Hamden, Connecticut
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“Barbara Ellen was more than a first cousin and a very special, close friend....SHE was more like a BIG SISTER, and I loved her dearly. She was...Read More » ”
1 of 24 | Posted by: Patricia Lanier Murrell - NC

“We were at Barbara's service & I have to say it was just beautiful. The ulogies & remembrances described her to a tee. I have so many good memories...Read More » ”
2 of 24 | Posted by: Betty & Tom McDonald - Guilford, CT

“To the family I would like to express my condolences and deepest sympathy as a pass co-worker at SNET and also a staff memeber of the VAMC of West...Read More » ”
3 of 24 | Posted by: SELMA EDWARDS - WEST HAVEN CT, CT

“As you remember Barbar and share stories with fond memories of how she lived her life and how much she meant to many of us, know that I have deep...Read More » ”
4 of 24 | Posted by: Luvenia Johnson - Fayetteville, NC

“TO: OUR FAMILY We the daughters of the late Hattie Slade give our condolences to you. May God give you the strength to endure and know that we...Read More » ”
5 of 24 | Posted by: Maggie Knight & Catherine Dixon - NY

“We, the ST. DELIGHT CHURCH OF CHRIST, DISCIPLES OF CHRIST BEAUTIFYING AND MEMORIAL ASSOCIATION give the LANIER FAMILY our deepest sympathy. Our...Read More » ”
6 of 24 | Posted by: ST. DELIGHT CHURCH OF CHRIST DISCIPLES OF CHRIST - NC

“May God give you the strength to endure and make it through your hour of bereavement. Sorry I can't be there with you but I will keep all of you in...Read More » ”
7 of 24 | Posted by: William Daniels - Brooklyn, NY

“You will always be in our hearts... Tina,Maria and Veronica Leal ”
8 of 24 | Posted by: veronica leal - New haven, CT

“You will always be in my heart,may the repose of you spirit be with GOD forever.. Love You. ”
9 of 24 | Posted by: Gail Patterson - New haven, CT

“My heartfelt condolences to the entire family and in particular to her brother and my long time friend and associate Jesse. I will always remember...Read More » ”
10 of 24 | Posted by: Edward J. Fortes - New Haven, CT

“To the Lanier family you have our deepest sympathy and condolences Barbara were very close with my daughter the one they call baby and my name is...Read More » ”
11 of 24 | Posted by: mr.&mrs. luber mabery - NC

“To the Lanier Family, May God comfort you, keep you and give you a peace that surpasses all understanding in your time of loss. Richard (Ricky...Read More » ”
12 of 24 | Posted by: Richard Oden - Hampton, VA

“A special cousin who was always there for me and my parents . Love Nick ”
13 of 24 | Posted by: Nick Lanier - Columbus, OH

“A special cousin who was always there for me and my parents . Love Nick ”
14 of 24 | Posted by: Nick Lanier - Columbus, OH

“It is very rare in life that you find someone so thoughtful, genuine and full of life. That was Barbara. She formed a 40 year bond at SNET with a...Read More » ”
15 of 24 | Posted by: Elaine & marcel Aardewerk - CT

“We would like to express our deepest condolences for the loss of your loved one. We truly regret that we will not be able to be with you for the home...Read More » ”
16 of 24 | Posted by: Elder Linvert & Gloria Spencer - NC

“My heart goes out to my extended family. Aunt Barbara as I called her was more than that she was my mom's (Iva Rae) trusted and dear friend. She...Read More » ”
17 of 24 | Posted by: Raymond Spencer - Ocean Springs, MS

“I worked with Barbara years ago in New Haven. Her stories and laughter will always be remembered. She could bring sunshine to everyone's day. I feel...Read More » ”
18 of 24 | Posted by: Nancy Strampach - Hamden, CT

“I am so sorry for the loss of your sister. I will remember Barbara with fond memories. ”
19 of 24 | Posted by: Jill Kieffer - Rome, NY

“To the Lanier Family, my heart goes out to you in trying times, I lived on the floor below Barbara for years, could not ask for a better friend, may...Read More » ”
20 of 24 | Posted by: Tommy Waller - Reidsville, NC

“O Barbara--I miss you already. You were the perfect friend. We shared soooo many thoughts! Of course we had fun times together also!! You are missed...Read More » ”
21 of 24 | Posted by: Mary Kay - Hamden, CT

“TO: THE LANIER LANIER My deepest sympathy to all of you. I pray that your hearts will understand that God makes no mistakes. As much as we loved...Read More » ”
22 of 24 | Posted by: Eunice Oden - Brooklyn, NY

“A very special sister and an exceptional dear friend. Always affable and dependable to the very bitter end. ”
23 of 24 | Posted by: Jack O. Lanier - Richmond, VA

“Cary & Ginger Arotsky ”
24 of 24 | Posted by: Ginger Arotsky - Berlin, CT


At WH VAMC Feb. 4, 2012, Barbara E. Lanier of 670 Mix Ave, Hamden, CT. Daughter of the late Beather and Daniel Lanier. Sister of Lillian Owens of Carson, CA., Dr. Jack (Becky) Lanier of Richmond, VA., Dr. Daniel (Kay) Lanier of Chester, VA., Thomas (Patricia) Lanier of Cleveland, OH., Jesse (Barbara M) Lanier of Suffield, CT., Ronald (Marge) Lanier of Stamford, CT., Dr. Garrie (Lavonne) Moore of Greenville, NC., and the late Doris Dada. She also leaves a host of Nieces, Nephews, Cousins, and dear friends. Barbara left no stone unturned. She lead a very active and enjoyable life. She was a member of Dixwell Avenue Congregational United Church of Christ, in younger years active in Sunday School and later years Bible Study and a Good Member. She retired from Southern New England Telephone (SNET) after 32 years. She joined the US Navy while on a Military leave from SNET and later, "Try One" with Connecticut Army National Guard. Barbara graduated from the University of New Haven. Barbara received numerous awards, citations, and good conduct services. With SNET she held numerous positions and retired as a computer systems specialist. She was active with the Telephone Pioneers of America-Morris F. Tyler Chap. # 9. She was also active in Hamden community organizations and a life member of several Veteran's organizations. Barbara loved to travel. She vacationed in Europe, West, East and North Africa, Middle East, Egypt, Bermuda, Caribbean Islands, and most states in America. Family and friends may call on Friday, Feb. 10 from 10-11 am and attend a Funeral Service at 11 am in the Dixwell Avenue Congregational United Church of Christ, 217 Dixwell Ave. New Haven, CT. Interment with Military Honors will follow in State Veteran's Cemetery, Middletown. Arrangements in care of BEECHER & BENNETT, 2300 WHITNEY AVE. HAMDEN. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be sent to the Dixwell Avenue Congregational United Church of Christ, Missionary Board, or to the charity of your choice.