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“I WAS CAROL'S HAIRSTYLIST.GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR BOYS. SHE WAS A GREAT WOMAN AND I ENJOYED HER VISITS. MICHELE MATKOVICH ”
1 of 35 | Posted by: Michele Matkovich - Matthews, NC

“Our deepest sympathy to you all and your families. We know all to well what your going through. Our Elma Drive memories will always be with us. ...Read More »
2 of 35 | Posted by: Michelle Bauman Fiola - PA

“Dear Paul and family, I fondly remember Carol's quick wit, humor and love of fun times as well as always caring about others from my days at UD with...Read More »
3 of 35 | Posted by: Kathy Kinzeler Mantica - OH

“Dear Paul, John and Will, We are so deeply saddened by the loss of your beautiful wife and mother. Please know that our thoughts and prayers continue...Read More »
4 of 35 | Posted by: Ragnhild and Rogerio Jost - NY

“Dear Paul, Will, and John, We are so sorry to hear of your loss. With our deepest sympathies. Jim, Debbie, and Nicole ”
5 of 35 | Posted by: The Iantorno Family - Somers, NY

“Paul, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family..our deepest sympathy and all of our love. ”
6 of 35 | Posted by: John & Joan DeRuzza - Bedford, NY

“My deepest sympathy to Paul, John, Will and Family. Love and prayers at this very difficult time, Elaine Cranston, St. Augustine's Pre-k 4, Ossining,...Read More »
7 of 35 | Posted by: Elaine Cranston - Ossining, NY

“Dear Paul, John and Will, We remember Carol best as one who loved her family and lived her life fully. Carol was a beautiful, smart and witty woman...Read More »
8 of 35 | Posted by: Patty and Bob McHugh - NY

“Dear Paul, John and Williiam We are so sorry for you loss. You all are in our thoughts and prayers. ”
9 of 35 | Posted by: David and Sandra Braswell - TX

“Dear Paul, John & William. We were so saddened to hear of Carol's passing. She was a truly special person whom we'll always remember from the Holy...Read More »
10 of 35 | Posted by: Dorothy & Bob Ferguson - Croton, NY

“Dear Paul, John and Will, Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers at this very sad and difficult time. With our deepest sympathy,...Read More »
11 of 35 | Posted by: The Crumb Family - NY

“Paul, John and Will We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We feel privelaged to have known Carol and call her our...Read More »
12 of 35 | Posted by: The Steinberg Family - NY

“Dear Paul, John, and Will, We are so sorry for your loss. We are so grateful, though, for having known Carol. She was always so witty, yet full of...Read More »
13 of 35 | Posted by: Jackie Ardito-Barletta

“You are in our thoughts and prayers. Carol ws remarkable person . Love Mary & Benny ”
14 of 35 | Posted by: Mary & Benny Santella - NY

“Paul, We are thinking of you often and praying for you and the boys. Carol was a wonderful partner and mother to you guys and I know this has to be...Read More »
15 of 35 | Posted by: The Luntz Family - NY

“Carol was a friend from UD and a Gamma Gamma Kappa sorority sister. I will always remember Carol as one who worked hard and played hard. Carol was...Read More »
16 of 35 | Posted by: Marie Elias - Brecksville, OH

“Patty - Carolyn just let me know about your sister. I'm so sorry to hear this - I know you were close to her and wanted to send my sincere sympathy...Read More »
17 of 35 | Posted by: Sharon Branchen - Aliso Viejo, CA

“Dear Paul and family, The boys at A&S and I want to extend our deepest sympathies for this tragic lose. Your friends, Paul, Felix, Dom, Chris...Read More »
18 of 35 | Posted by: Felix Cortese - croton-on-hudson, NY

“Paul, John and Will, May the grace of God get you through this time. We continue to pray for you and are deeply saddened. We like many will miss...Read More »
19 of 35 | Posted by: Efrain and Lee Colon - NY

“Paul, John and Will, Carol always had smile and kind words. We will always remember her with her family, enjoying every minute with her boys. Our...Read More »
20 of 35 | Posted by: The Cariker Family - NY

“Sorry for your loss we never knew Carol , were good friends with John Tirella. I know from speaking to John what a good person she was and I wish she...Read More »
21 of 35 | Posted by: JERRY & SHEEELEY SACHS - AUSTIN, TX

“Please extend my sincere sympathy to your entire family. May God be with you during this difficult time. The entire Fedrizzi family, who were...Read More »
22 of 35 | Posted by: Paula Lash - Huntersville, NC

“Carol was a friend at UD. She was always happy and smiling and she made every one's life a little brighter. I am glad to know that she had a loving...Read More »
23 of 35 | Posted by: Monica K Carroll - Buffalo, NY

“Our deepest sympathy to Paul and family on the loss of your wife. Rose and Robert Lovallo and family. ”
24 of 35 | Posted by: Lovallo Family - Harrison, NY

“Carol was a wonderful woman and a fun friend. I will miss her laugh, her quick wit, and great insight during our Book Club meetings. She'll always...Read More »
25 of 35 | Posted by: Britt Stuart - Charlotte, NC

“I went to grade school and high school with Carol. My sympathy to the family. ”
26 of 35 | Posted by: Cindy Kriss - Pittsburgh, PA

“Even though I was not privileged to know Mrs. Tirella personally, it saddens me greatly to learn of her passing from my friend John Tirella. It's...Read More »
27 of 35 | Posted by: John A Uphaus - Georgetown, TX

“Please accept my deepest sympathy and condolences. I attended grade school with Carol at St. Albert's. Always kind and friendly,I'm sure all our...Read More »
28 of 35 | Posted by: jan fedrizzi girdano - butler, PA

“I knew Carol from UD. She always made me laugh and was a great singer. I can still envision her singing "Build me up buttercup" and think of her...Read More »
29 of 35 | Posted by: david martens - rocky river, OH

“Dear Paul, John and Will, We are deeply saddened by Carol's death and send you our love and prayers. "When it seems that our sorrow is too great to...Read More »
30 of 35 | Posted by: Christine & Robert Banta - NY

“May Carol rest in peace. She was a fun, energetic and caring person whom I have fond memories of from my Univeristy of Dayton years. Prayers to her...Read More »
31 of 35 | Posted by: Sarah Bryan - Dayton, OH

“A wonderful tribute to a beautiful person. Carol will be missed and all of our love and support goes out to Paul, John and Will. ”
32 of 35 | Posted by: MaryAnn & Ken Gmoser - NY

“Dear Paul, John and Will: We were so sorry to hear about the loss of your beautiful wife and mom. Your family is in our prayers. Wishing you our...Read More »
33 of 35 | Posted by: The Addeo Family - NY

“I knew Carol from The University of Dayton and will always remember her love of life and her wonderful laugh. She will be missed but not forgotten. ”
34 of 35 | Posted by: Phyllis Rothstein - OH

“Much gratitude for the lovely person Carol was, a devoted partner and wife to Paul and wonderful mother to their children. I am grateful to have...Read More »
35 of 35 | Posted by: Cynthia Chandler - New York, NY


Mrs. Carol A. Tirella, 50, passed away Monday, February 2, 2009 at Presbyterian Hospital in Charlotte. Her family will receive friends on Thursday, February 5, from 2:00-4:00 and from 7:00-9:00 PM at Heritage Funeral Home, Weddington Chapel, 3700 Forest Lawn Drive, Matthews, NC 28104, and again Friday, February 6, from 7:00-9:00 PM, at St. Matthew Catholic Church in the Chapel. Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated Saturday, February 7, at 11:00 AM at St. Matthew Catholic Church with Monsignor John J. McSweeney, celebrant. Interment will follow the service in the Garden of St. Matthew at Forest Lawn East Cemetery, Matthews, NC.

Mrs. Tirella was born June 28, 1958, in Pittsburgh, PA, daughter to Elizabeth (Hilbert) and the late William Levis. A graduate of Baldwin High School and the University of Dayton, Carol worked in sales and finance for NCR, and after receiving her MBA,
served as treasurer of Coopers & Lybrand in New York. She also served as the chairperson of TMA, a national financial professional organization. She left these roles for her most cherished career of lovingly raising her precious sons and caring for her family. Carol was a talented comedic actress, singer and public speaker.
As a member of The Holy Name of Mary Catholic Church in New York, she served in many capacities including the Choir and the Financial Committee. Carol devoted many hours volunteering at her children's schools, advocating for the Anaphylactic Allergy network, and lifting up those she knew with her kindness, generosity, ready wit and grace. She most recently was an active member of St. Matthew Catholic Church in Charlotte.

Survivors include her devoted husband and best friend, Paul Tirella of Charlotte; beloved children and lights of her life, John J. and William H. Tirella of Charlotte; mother and step-father, Betty and Richard Sweeney of PA; brothers, William (PA),
James (OH), Daniel (FL), and Richard (PA) Levis, and sister, Patricia Collopy (PA). Numerous other family members and friends are also left to cherish memories of this wonderful woman.

Memorials should be made to the Lupus Foundation of America, Piedmont Chapter, P.O. Box 2414, Matthews, NC 28106.Arrangements for the family are in the care of Heritage Funeral Home, Weddington Chapel. An online guestbook is available at
www.heritagefuneral.net

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