Mr. Darrell Everett Fielder

Anita & Family, My heart sorrows for you and all of your son's family and friends. I ache for you. I will talk to you when I get home from Boston, but know that I love you dearly and will continue to pray for you and that God will strengthen you as only He can. Genevieve Waddell

"We are so saddened to hear of your loss. We are thinking and praying the memories and love you shared bring you comfort. God Bless. We love you. xo"

Catherine wrote: "Sorry for the loss of your brother, a father and a Fielder son. May he rest in peace. I will always remember his antics at Oak Hill School, like ketchup on orange sections . May God bless all of you and help you through this trying time.

"yes we do remember Darrell your younger brother. Our thoughts fly to you all.xx"

"Dear Brenda and Anita,

I'm sitting here in Ocoee Tennessee at a Hampton Inn thinking bout you both and the sadness
that permeates The Fielder Family. I've read several of the Facebook entries and it comforting to see
How many people love you and care for you. Darrell is now with his daddy feeling more loved
(and love ) than all of our love combined. He's feeling God's love the greatest love of all.
So how can I feel sorry for

"Dear Brenda and Anita,

I'm sitting here in Ocoee Tennessee at a Hampton Inn thinking bout you both and the sadness
that permeates The Fielder Family. I've read several of the Facebook entries and it comforting to see
How many people love you and care for you. Darrell is now with his daddy feeling more loved
(and love ) than all of our love combined. He's feeling God's love the greatest love of all.
So how can I feel sorry for him? - I'm happy for him. My sorrow and sympathy is because of your
sorrow. No mother should ever have to say goodbye to any of her children before they say
goodbye to her. Anita, I pray that sooner than later you will smile, laugh, and feel real joy as
I have known and seen from you in the past. You know how fond fond I am of Brenda and
I know your sadness is felt very deep within Brenda and all of your children. Your healing
sooner than later is what I will be praying for as I believe Darrell's heeling took on a whole new
meaning June 22nd, 2012.

I love you both. Love, Jon

"Dear Brenda and Anita,
Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers during this sad time. You both have been in my life for a long time and I hope that a bit of my love and support will help you to begin the healing process. Please take care of each other. Sent with love, Bob"

We are so sorry for your loss and know this is so hard for your Mother. Losing a child, no matter what age is just not the natural order of things as we learned my sister died too young. Dad, like your Mom, had a very hard time accepting it. He once told me he dealt with it by imagining she was still in California enjoying his life. Each has his own ways. It sounds like your brother lived

We are so sorry for your loss and know this is so hard for your Mother. Losing a child, no matter what age is just not the natural order of things as we learned my sister died too young. Dad, like your Mom, had a very hard time accepting it. He once told me he dealt with it by imagining she was still in California enjoying his life. Each has his own ways. It sounds like your brother lived life to the fullest from the stories I have read. Losing someone is so very, very hard, but the memories do keep us going. God Bless you all and I will pray for you and your family. I'll see you very soon."MrP87

Hi Brenda,
Andy Norman commented on your status.
Andy wrote: "Dear Brenda, Been thinking about you all everyday. Tried to call Anita a few times and it says "Don't leave a message" so I didn't. Tried Gary too and didn't get him. Some of my most fun and funny times as a kid were spent at the Fielder house on Battery Lane. Sitting between Darrell and Gary at the movies with your mom or going bowling at Melrose or to the boat

Hi Brenda,
Andy Norman commented on your status.
Andy wrote: "Dear Brenda, Been thinking about you all everyday. Tried to call Anita a few times and it says "Don't leave a message" so I didn't. Tried Gary too and didn't get him. Some of my most fun and funny times as a kid were spent at the Fielder house on Battery Lane. Sitting between Darrell and Gary at the movies with your mom or going bowling at Melrose or to the boat show with your dad. One of my favorite childhood events is your mom finding a snake in Darrell's shirt pocket in the middle of a church service while my dad was in the pulpit preaching. I think I told you Darrell had recently reconnected with me via Facebook and I was so happy to hear from him. Will keep calling till I get Anita on the phone. XOXO, a"

Barry Somerville posted on your Wall
"Dear Brenda, Jimbeau, Anita and family,
Our hearts are heavy, sad and filled with sorrow hearing of Darrell resting in the arms of God. Know that he is free of all pain and fly's high through the clouds with your Daddy and all who share Heaven's eternal light. You will meet again someday but for now he lives within your heart and soul. Love never dies. All our Love, blessings, thoughts and prayers are with you all during this sad time.
With Deepest Sympathy,
Barry, Mariecris, Bradley, Ken and Chris Somerville"

To the Fielders:
Roland and I were saddened to read of Darrell's transition.I'm sure your hearts are heavy and that's okay. But know this that weeping shall endure for a night but joy comes in the morning. This too shall pass.The body leaves us but the memories remain.
We will keep you in our prayers.
In His love and with ours,
Roland & Sharron. (friends of Brenda & Kevin)