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“Javier, Morty and I went to your resting place again today, Lester wanted to go and take his grandmother. Also today I had a notary come over to...
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1 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, Morty and I just came from your resting place. You know Javier that as soon as I get close the tears start and by the time I get there it...
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“Javier, I expected a lonely saturday but Lesters Mom asked if some guy could put new brakes on her van in our garage, you know they can't do that...
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3 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, awhile ago I was cleaning the kitchen and I was doing the stove and I started thinking and remembering you at the stove. And remembering...
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4 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“javier, Nothing much happening, I'm just trying to watch TV but it seems like every program deals with sickness or pain or some kind of loss. So...
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5 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, Here using your laptop and remembering you sitting in your chair and onlline. I can still see how you enjoyed it. Now mostly I use your...
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6 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, Well Cecilia and Daniel came by for awhile, had a nice talk. She also updated me on Lupita and the girls. All I can say javier you would...
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7 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, I was looking at the TV and remembering when we bought it, how excited we were at having a 65" TV in our family room and how many...
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8 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, Here trying to read a new book but also remembering sundays that you and I did nothing but relax. You watching TV and me reading,...
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9 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, Its saturday afternoon I am here with our Morty and Goldie and I'm trying to get interested in TV but doing a lot of remembering of you....
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10 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, I spent most of the evening cutting Morty's and Goldie's hair, they are so good you know how they are. Oh Javier the first thing in the...
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11 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, Feeling about the same . Anyway Lester came over for awhile this afternoon. Its nice to have company but when they leave for some reason I...
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12 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, Not much going on except I am still having problems with my back and taking pain med for that. Combined with the pain and my depression I...
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13 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, Starting another week but my back went out on me, you know that happens to me every once in awhile. Being in pain and not having you here...
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14 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, Today Morty and I went to your resting place. I just cannot believe that is the last place we were together but that is one of the reasons...
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15 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, Not much happening just sitting here on saturday night with Morty anf Goldie. Wishing you were with us! Miss you so so much!
Love Joseph
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16 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, Some how I got through another week without you. I was sitting here remembering so many things and letting the tears fall, Javier I do...
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17 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, The last few days have still been cold and rainey but I needed to stop at your resting place., even if it makes me so much sadder. It was...
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18 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, I was just feeding your fish and I was remembering how you enjoyed looking at all the different fish in your tanks. I remember just about...
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19 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, I am feeling better today and I finally got some company today. Lester didn't have to work today so he spent the morning and early...
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20 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, Still have a cold and I haven't been out all weekend, mostly because of the rain and cold wheather. But I had to get out for a little bit...
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21 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, Its sunday Morty and I were going to visit your resting place but Its cold and rainey and I have a cold or something so I decided to stay...
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22 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, Not feeling well maybe the flu or a cold. So I stayed in all day, I probably would of anyway. Well Javier not much to say except life...
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23 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, Well its another weekend coming up, my days seem to drag but for some reason the weekend comes fast. I know it dosen't make sense. Anyway...
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24 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, I can't seem to start any kind of life without you here. Missing you seems to take all my energy. All my plans, hopes and dreams seem to...
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25 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, I was cleaning and I was looking at your chair. The imprint of your head is still in the leather of the top of the chair. I can almost see...
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26 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, Here watching TV and everything I see reminds me of you. I miss relaxing with you and watching the many programs we liked. I can't...
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27 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, Today Morty and I and Lester went to your resting place. Its always so hard for me but I feel I need to be there. Javier I didn't tell you...
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28 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, Well I got through another lonely weekend. I am still going through things in the store room, trying to get it back to a bedroom again....
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29 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, Oh Javier its another lonely weekend without you, just Morty and Goldie and me. I am trying to keep somewhat busy around the house. But...
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30 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, Today I started to clean the store room I made more space in the garage to put a lot the merchandise we have left. Also I found a lot of...
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31 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, Today I went to do some business with Cecilia and then she took me to lunch since we had to give Lester a ride home from work she also...
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32 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, Feel better today but I haven't been out of the house since Monday. Anyway Lupita's boyfriend isn't staying at our house. After thinking...
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33 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, Stayed in today not feeling to well. Things getting harder each day not easier without you. Miss you so so much.
Love Joseph
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34 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, Morty and I went to your resting place today. I took down all the Christmas decorations. I also took you a picture with praying hands. As...
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35 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, Just got back from Sacramento. Lupita's boyfriend called me and asked if I could do him a favor, he asked me if I would pick him up and if...
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36 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, Its saturday and as usual I am alone and doing a lot of remembering. I was remembering the saturdays we went out to dinner or for a drink...
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37 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, Oh Javier its the first day of the new year and your not here to start it with me. Just how am I suppose to start new. Javier in my mind I...
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38 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, Well its New Years Eve. Today Morty and I went to your resting place and took you a green champagne glass with floweres in it and I put...
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39 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, Trying to keep busy today, I went grocery shopping. I found your receipe for chicken adobe so I am going to try and make it tomorrow. I...
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40 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, Just another quiet day only went out to give Lester a ride home from work, of course Morty went with me. Still can't listen to the radio...
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41 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, Sitting here with Morty right next to me and remembering how you rescured him. At the time I wasn't to sure if I wanted another animal,...
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42 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, I have been home all day, It seems not worth it to get myself together today. I have been remembering the times on cold days we would stay...
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43 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier somehow I got through christmas, I cannot tell you how hard it was without you. You were on my mind the whole time. I found myself when...
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44 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier todays christmas, Morty and I went to your resting place and took you a picture that I took of you last christmas and we stayed for an hour...
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45 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier its Christmas eve and I am sitting here alone with Morty and Goldie. I am remembering last christmas eve, you were so strong and appeared...
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46 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, Last night when everyone was here we shared so many memories of you and missing you so much. For me thinking of you and missing you is a...
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47 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, We had christmas dinner today, like before Sergio has to work the holiday so we celebrated christmas today and we exchanged gifts. Javier...
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48 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier I was kind of busy today, Gladys (Lesters mom) came by and bought some of our merchandise. I really didn't know how much to charge because...
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49 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, Today Morty and I went to your resting place, we took you 2 more ornaments. They were little dogs with Morty and Goldie's name on them....
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50 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier Today our friend Lester came over after work and spent the afternoon and evening with me . He had dinner with me and we watched a movie. It...
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51 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, This evening I forced myself to do a little more christmas shopping. I think you would be satisfied at the things I bought for your family...
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52 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, I went with Lester today to the fish store that we always use to go to, where we brought most of the fish for your tanks and the owner was...
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53 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, This afternoon Morty and I and Lester went to your resting place today. I wanted to leave you a christmas card with a special message...
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54 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier I have been meaning to go to your resting place but its been so cold and rainey. You know I like to take Morty but he will get all muddy....
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55 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier sitting here alone except for our Morty and Goldie my constant companions. Anyway I am here watching Judge Judy and all of a sudden as...
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56 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier its sunday afternoon I am sitting here trying to concentrate on TV but its really raining hard outside and its cold. It made me start...
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57 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier tonight I was driving home from the store and I was looking at all the Christmas lights at the different houses and I was remembering all...
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58 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier I am here writing some christmas cards and wishing I was writing one to you. This is suppose to be a happy season ????????? Missing you.
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59 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier another day , well I did go do a little christmas. shopping. And as I looked at all the things in the stores, I saw so many cool things...
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60 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier Morty and I and Lester took a christmas tree and some small presents to your resting place today. Javier I hope you know how much I am...
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61 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier I put more christmas decorations up but its just no fun without you here. I put your christmas stocking up I decided that yours is the only...
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62 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier I put up our christmas tree today with only Morty and Goldie to watch me. I was remembering all the times we put up our tree and also I was...
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63 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier I went to your resting place with Morty today we took you some of those small red berries from our back yard. I put them in a vase. This...
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64 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier Morty Goldie and I are sitting here on a saturday nite we are so so lonely without you to keep us company and make us feel safe and...
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65 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier its friday and a start of another weekend without you. Thinking of you always and in everything I do. I ask God every day WHY?????????...
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66 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier Morty and I visited your resting place again today. I wanted to change the lights I put there. I changed the ones i took from the back yard...
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67 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier I was looking through some pictures and I found one of you and Shadow. You were smiling happy and holding Shadow, I made a copy found a...
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68 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier
Still unbearable without you.! Miss you more each day! Still lonely for you! Still trying to continue some kind of life!
Love Joseph
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69 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier not much to say today , I couldn't sleep last night then today I didn't want to get up. i have been more depressed today. If it wasn't for...
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70 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier I went to your resting place with Morty today, we stayed about 2 hours or so. I took you one of your favorite sm. cactus plants that you...
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71 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, Saturaday started out as another lonely day, but Lester came over after work and he wanted to download some music on our computer. I said...
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72 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, Well the holiday is over and somehow I made it without you. Now I am back to our quiet lonely house, me morty and goldie, also a start of...
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73 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier today is actually Thanksgiving and Lester his mother and sister and grandmother who just came from Guatamala came and had another dinner...
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74 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, Well we had Thanksgiving dinner today with all your family including Lupita and the girls. I remember last year you were hoping and...
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75 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier I went to your resting place today to take your Thanksgiving flowers. Oh Javier I hope I can make it through tomorrow with everyone here...
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76 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, Today I was talking with Cecilia about Thanksgiving, like last year we are celebrating on Weds because Sergio works thursday. I said...
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77 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Morty and I went to your resting place today to finish somemore work on your cement block I took you yesterday. We stayed for quite some time. I...
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78 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Oh Javier its 11 pm saturday night I am here petting Morty and thinking of you and missing you. You would be proud of our Morty he very rarely...
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79 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier I went to your resting place today I wanted to put a new cement block with your name on it. The old one I put before needed the letters...
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80 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier I have been remembering how good of a partner you were, I always felt safe and secure and I knew together we could handle any problems life...
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81 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier its getting harder and harder and next week will be Thanksgiving I hope I can be strong . I don't think its ever going to get better. I...
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82 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier You are the only one I can tell and the only one I felt who cared how I feel and who understood me, especially when I had a problem. Well...
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83 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier today Lester invited me to the movies, I wasn't going to go but he talked me into it. Anyway we went to Lodi cinema 12, you know the place...
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84 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier today is 2 months since you left. Morty and I went again to your resting place, I took you your favorite soup cup with a handle and in it I...
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85 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier went to your resting place today I know that was the last place I was with you but I feel you more in my heart and at our home. MISS YOU......
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86 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, I know you would be glad to know I went to lunch with your mother, Gilbert and Brad. I know you were always happy when everyone got along....
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87 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier I had a busy day. I picked up Brad who flew in from Texas to drive our Van back to Texas. We visited your resting place. We also had dinner...
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88 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier still here thinking of you and missing you. Hope I can get through another night without you.
Love Joseph
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89 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier today cecilia gave me a picture of you and the twins, taken by alex just before you became ill. Javier you looked so handsome and happy, I...
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90 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier I went to your resting place today with Lester. I took you the statue of Jesus on the cross that my mother had painted, I know you would...
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91 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Missing you with all my heart. Nothing is the same without you. Still cannot believe your not coming home or calling.
Love Joseph
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92 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier I have been cleaning out the store room and I have been coming across so many things of yours that I haven't seen in a long time. Each...
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93 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier I came across this Inspirational phrase "THERE ARE NO GOODBYES FOR ME WHEREVER YOU ARE YOU WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY HEART". This fits how I...
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94 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Always thinking of you, everything I do I do it with you in mind. But Javier I realize that this is the only way I can get through every day and...
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95 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Sitting here wishing you were here with me. Morty and Goldie. Javier I am trying my hardest to move on but I am not doing very well. At times I...
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96 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Oh Javier what can I say nothing seems
to change, thinking of you and missing you. What can I do........................
Joseph
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97 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Another lonely sunday night, trying to watch TV, trying to read just trying to fill the long days and nights. I can't say it enough Javier I miss...
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98 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier today is Halloween and Morty and I went to your resting place and left a Halloween gift for you. At home I debated to weather to give out...
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99 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier things arn't getting any better my heart is feeling heavier and heavier as time goes by. My mind says go on Javier would want you to, but...
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100 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier another empty day with out you . Morty Goldie and I are sitting here lonely as ever. Still can't believe your gone it dosen't seem real. I...
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101 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier I am going to try and go to sleep I hope I dream of you. Miss you as always.
Love Joseph
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102 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier I had a dream last night it was so real. You know how we use to go out late at night to the store to get something sweet whatever we felt...
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103 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier I am trying to keep busy I have been changing the furniture around. I moved you recliner from the family room to the living room, I don't...
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104 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier its after 4am I am trying to sleep but so many thoughts of you are going through my mind. I had to write to you, I was thinking how you use...
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105 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier I am sitting here in our family room by myself with Morty and Goldie trying to watch TV. But I keep looking at your recliner and wishing...
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106 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Morty and I just came from your resting place we took you flowers from our yard and a garden light to shine at night, we stayed there for over an...
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107 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Oh Javier its not getting any better there's not too many things I want to do without you. I'm loosing interest in many things that we liked to do...
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108 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“hey tio i had a dream of u last nite we were in da bak yard da last place i seen u n shadow n goldie were playin man i miss u so bad tio ive been...
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109 of 159 | Posted by: lupita mendoza sacramento CA
“I come on your online site and I see your picture and I feel like a knife is tearing at my heart. Oh every day seems worst instead of better, I...
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110 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, Todays my birthday and I am missing hear you wish me a happy birthday first thing in the morning and later the card cake and present. BUT...
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111 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“im always gonna remember the last nite i spent with u tio,we wer in your backyard at ur house wher u helped raised me. we had da best conversation...
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112 of 159 | Posted by: guadalupe mendoza sacramento CA
“javier I was reading the cards your co-workers had sent and they said things that I already new, like what good guy you are and a good worker and...
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113 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“javier, Thinking of all our good times together and wishing we could have had many more.....................
Love Joseph
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114 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier so lonely for you today! I know you would want me to be strong and I am really trying. But I need to talk to you I miss not talking to you....
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115 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Can't stop thinking about you in everything I do. Miss you.
Love Joseph
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116 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Day after day Javier nothing changes except I miss you more.
Love Joseph
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117 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Missing you so much your always in my heart. Can't wait till we are together again.
Joseph
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118 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier you left me 1 month ago today and ofcourse I'm still having a hard time with you being gone. I think of you all the time and you are always...
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119 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier tomorrow will be 1 month since you left us.........I miss you so much, I still wait for your call or for you to come home. It's not getting...
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120 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier I was sitting here thinking of how you were so happy on your birthday last year with everyone celebrating with you. Also how no one could...
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121 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, Today I took your favorite cactus plant from our yard to you. Oh Javier I miss you so much, missing you is like missing a hand or a arm. I...
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122 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier another saturday night without you I miss you so much. I tryed watching a movie but I cannot enjoy it without you here. You are so missed....
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123 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier I had to go to my appointment in San Francisco and I was driving alone I remember all the times we drove there with you singing along with...
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124 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Dear Joseph, I never had the pleasure of meeting you but after reading your tributes, it comforts me to know, you and Javier shared in a wonderful...
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125 of 159 | Posted by: Tia Lolis Chicago, IL
“Javi,
I can't help it to think about you every time I'm in my zumba class. It just comes to my head all those many times you and I dance and dance...
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126 of 159 | Posted by: Cousin Yoli
“JAVIER WE MISS YOU SO MUCH,YOU WERE ALWAYS SO MUCH FUN TO BE AROUND.YOU ENJOYED LIFE HERE WITH US,NOW YOU ARE ENJOYING ETERNITY IN HEAVEN WITH GOD...
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127 of 159 | Posted by: Brad Greene
“Javier another day without you is still UNBEARABLE.
Love Joseph
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128 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Dear Family, This is about the 4th time that I visit this site and I just didn't feel good enough to write because words are not enough to express...
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129 of 159 | Posted by: Cousin Yoli
“Javier, Today Sergio, cecilia and I were talking about what a smart and even tempered person you are. And those are only some of the reasons that...
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131 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“hello memory this day that we pass it phenomenal the one that I take this picture was joe
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132 of 159 | Posted by: ricardo mendoza
“My heart goes out to the family of this wonderful man. I cherish the memories of the wonderful times of our childhood during my visits to Tampico....
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133 of 159 | Posted by: Lolis Chicago, IL
“Javier, I've had a bad bad day today because I feel that part of me is missing and that part is you and also My heart is so heavey it hurts. I...
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134 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“MISSING YOU I JUST CANNOT BELIEVE GOD TOOK YOU FROM ME. WITHOUT YOU I FEEL SO EMPTY AND LOST.
LOVE YOU FOREVER JOSEPH
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135 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, Another sad day. I tried to somewhat have a ok weekend but you are constantly on my mind and I miss you so much. I came back to a house...
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136 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“the days pass and sometimes not yet can assimilate it but me you that your now these in a better place contaminating with your smile all that you...
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137 of 159 | Posted by: ricardo mendoza
“javier son will always remember and God willing one day god allows me the happiness of go to visit although it is since your habitation I didn't...
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138 of 159 | Posted by: javier mendoza
“Oh Javier it's early in the morning and I can't sleep I miss you so so much, Morty is right next to me it helps a little when I pet him. And I...
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139 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, As usual I've had you on my mind all day and I have been thinking how you worried about my well being. I could always count on you when I...
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140 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, You were always a very good friend to me and my family and I will always miss your friendship... And we will always have you in our hearts...
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141 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, Love for you keeps on going, today you had a nice mass and 9 days of rosary's. I know you would be so proud. All this but I miss you more...
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142 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“You were the one kept us togheter and you are the one will keep us togheter. You will be always in our hearts, we love you, we miss you very much.
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143 of 159 | Posted by: Cecilia Mendoza Stockton CA
“Javier, your constantly on my mind I miss you so much I cannot wait till we are together again.
Joseph
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144 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, Another day without hearing your voice your laugh and also without seeing your handsome face. I miss you so much,I know you knew I would....
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145 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“It's 4AM and I am missing our late night talks. It'a so lonely here.
JD
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146 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Another day without you is unbearable, you are so so missed and loved. I know you knew how important you were to so many people especially to me.
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147 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Javier, Goldie, Morty and me love and miss you so much. You were the glue that held us together. We will wait for you to come for us.
Love You...
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148 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“The sadness invades our hearts to the knowledge that you have left, but now we know that these in a better place, where it doesn't exist the...
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149 of 159 | Posted by: Brandon Yarami Mendoza
“You were to me, more than a brother in law. You were my brother and I will always miss you. I hope we can see each other some day because I really...
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150 of 159 | Posted by: Cecilia Stockton, CA
“Javier was lost on Sept. 15th. I feel so lost without him. He supported me and I supported him in lifes journey. Without Javier how can life go on...
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151 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“DEAR UNCLE:
I WILL MISS YOU, MA OF WHAT YOU CAN IMAGINE
ALONE YOU THAT WHILE YOU LIVE IN OUR HEARTS YOUR YOU ACCOMPANIED US
I LOVE YOU AND YOU...
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152 of 159 | Posted by: guadalupe yaolli
“you will always live in my heart
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153 of 159 | Posted by: aracely
“not yet I can resign to not having you to non listening to I didn't continue seeing that smile that conquered I will always remember I want
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154 of 159 | Posted by: ricardo mendoza
“ANOTHER SPECIAL CANDLE FOR A VERY SPECIAL PERSON WHOM IS MISSED MORE AND MORE EVERY DAY. WITHOUT HIM LIFE IS NOT WORTH ANYTHING TO ME ANYMORE.......
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155 of 159 | Posted by: joseph
“Javier is a special person who is loving and the best friend and partner of my life. I will miss him more than life it self. I wish that god will...
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156 of 159 | Posted by: joseph duran
“Missing you!
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157 of 159 | Posted by: Cecilia Mendoza
“We will miss you forever.
Love,
Cecilia
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158 of 159 | Posted by: Cecilia Mendoza Stockton CA
“I worked with Javier at the Record. He was a very nice person, always polite. I speak very little Spanish and he would speak to me in Spanish so...
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159 of 159 | Posted by: celeste pascua stockton CA
Francisco Javier Mendoza, 46, was born in Tampico, Mexico on April 26, 1963 and passed away in French Camp, CA September 15, 2009. Mr. Mendoza lived in Stockton for many years and had worked for the Stockton Record for 7 years. He was the beloved son of Javier Mendoza and Tereza Chavez and step-son of Gilbert Huante. Loving brother of Sergio Mendoza (Cecelia) and Ricardo Mendoza (Araceli). Dear uncle of Alex, Jennifer, Lupita, Daniel, Yaolli, Brandon, Destiny, Allizay, Kailley and Emily. Loving cousin of Yolanda, Paola, Lorelli, Rebeka, Graciella and Albert. Loving Companion of 17 years, Joseph Duran. Nephew of Emma Guillermina, Juana, Laura and Ofelia Montes.
Family and friends are invited to attend a Rosary on Monday, September 21, 2009 at 6:00 p.m. at the DeYoung Memorial Chapel, 601 N. California St., Stockton, CA. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at St. Mary’s Church on Tuesday, September 22, 2009 at 9:30. a.mThere will be visitation at DeYoungs on Friday, 3:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m., Saturday and Sunday, 9:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m. and Monday, 9:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m.
Burial will be at San Joaquin Catholic Cemetery.
Only the primary photo has been provided by the family or the funeral home. If you would like to add pictures, please Click Here.
Javier, Morty and I went to your resting place again today, Lester wanted to go and take his grandmother. Also today I had a notary come over to notarize a new will and health care form since so many things have changed. I even put in a part to take care of Morty and Goldie. I feel better that these things are taken care of. Javier I do these things like a robot (like I do with just about every daily thing I do) just because I know they have to be done. Javier I miss you I miss you I miss you!
Love Joseph
Posted by: joseph duran Feb 09, 2010
Javier, Morty and I just came from your resting place. You know Javier that as soon as I get close the tears start and by the time I get there it feels like someone kicked me in the stomach. When I look at your picture there it hurts so much just like when I see your picture here on your site. Javier I have said it before but I need to keep saying it that it seems to get worse as the days without you add up. You know who I feel the only one that really understands this is your Tia Lolis, I want you to know that her words are so comforting. I wish that you could of reunited with her again, I think that would of made you happy. I remember that seeing or even talking with your family was something you enjoyed the most. I don't think that your family including your mother really knew how important family meant to you, but Javier I did. Javier you know who ever I talk with somehow I bring up your name in the conversation. Sometimes I think that people don't mention you because they know it hurts me, but I wish they would know that even if it hurts me (and it does) It feels good to to know that someone is thinking about you and it also feels good for me to talk about you. That is something the I never tire of, remembering, talking or thinking of you. Well Javier I am going to try and get through another day without seeing you talking to you or just to enjoy your presence or company. Javier I miss you so so much!
Love Joseph
Posted by: joseph duran Feb 07, 2010
Javier, I expected a lonely saturday but Lesters Mom asked if some guy could put new brakes on her van in our garage, you know they can't do that at their apartment. So Lesters mom and grandmother came over about 11am and it took about a few hours also the guy fixed a light that was out in the suv. Then Lester came over after work. So I had company all afternoon. Then they invited me for pizza. Ofcourse we went to that pizza place that has a big arcade. Also Lesters sister with her two friends also went; I ate alot and kind of enjoyed watching them play games you know I am not much into those games but I played a couple with Lester. But also I remembered the last time at this place it was you, Lester and me. I kept my thoughts to myself I didn't want to ruin anybodys time. But I couldn't help doing a lot of remembering of you. Anyway at least I wasn't alone today. Javier I miss you so so much!
Love Joseph
Posted by: joseph duran Feb 07, 2010
Javier, awhile ago I was cleaning the kitchen and I was doing the stove and I started thinking and remembering you at the stove. And remembering all the great dinners you prepared at this stove. Also all the times you told me I didn't do a good job cleaning your stove. I was remembering that sometimes that would irrate me and then Javier I felt tears in my eyes and wishing I could talk to you. Everyday these tears fall all through the day, I could be driving or in a store or anyplace. Theres not a day that this dosen't happen at least 3 or 4 times or sometimes practically the whole day when I am alone in which I am alone more times than not. Javier I am never never going to stop missing you. You were my center and Javier I go through each day off balance with you not here. I hope I am making sense. I can tell you that everyday I write you the tears are falling the whole time. Again I miss you so so much!
Love Joseph
Posted by: joseph duran Feb 06, 2010
javier, Nothing much happening, I'm just trying to watch TV but it seems like every program deals with sickness or pain or some kind of loss. So most of the time I just read. The times I relax is when I pet Morty and Goldie. Especially Morty hes at my side every minute I have to be careful because every time I turn around I practically trip over him. But without them I am not sure how I would make it throgh the day. Javier I miss you so much!
Love Joseph
Posted by: joseph duran Feb 05, 2010
Javier, Here using your laptop and remembering you sitting in your chair and onlline. I can still see how you enjoyed it. Now mostly I use your laptop, it makes me feel closer to you. Javier things are't getting any better for me, I find I can't find any new direction. I feel I am stuck in a place that I can't seem to get out of, I am trying because I know you would want me to. I guess I will wait to see what happens. Miss you so.
Love Joseph
Posted by: joseph duran Feb 04, 2010
Javier, Well Cecilia and Daniel came by for awhile, had a nice talk. She also updated me on Lupita and the girls. All I can say javier you would be very disappointed in Lupita. But then again you know her. Daniel offered to sweep the walkway and driveway for me, hes a good kid. I really appreciated it since my back is still giving me a little trouble, but better. After they left I had my dinner alone as usual, always at dinner time as I am eating I think of all the great dinners I will never have again. Remember I always told you that your dinners beat any dinners that we had out. Just like I always said that I will never have home made tortillas like my mother use to make. Javier as you can see even dinner time is heartbreaking without you. Miss you so much.
LOVE Joseph
Posted by: joseph duran Feb 03, 2010
Javier, I was looking at the TV and remembering when we bought it, how excited we were at having a 65" TV in our family room and how many pleasurable hours we had with it. I can still see you in your recliner enjoying. I still can't believe your not sitting here with me, Morty and Goldie. Oh Javier I miss you so much.
Love Joseph
Posted by: joseph duran Feb 02, 2010
Javier, Here trying to read a new book but also remembering sundays that you and I did nothing but relax. You watching TV and me reading, sometimes not even in the same room. Sometimes not talking much but I new you were there and I felt relaxed and comfortable. It seems that I have lost that comfort the comfort of knowing that you are somewhere in the house. Javier I don't think the tears will ever stop or MISSING YOU will ever change for me.
Love Joseph
Posted by: joseph duran Feb 01, 2010
Javier, Its saturday afternoon I am here with our Morty and Goldie and I'm trying to get interested in TV but doing a lot of remembering of you. Javier I've told you often that your constantly on my mind but I feel I can't say it enough to you. Every thing I do I do it with you in mind. I wake up thinking of you and go to sleep thinking of you. Javier I miss you so much!
Love Joseph
Posted by: joseph duran Jan 31, 2010

