Jerry Toffelmire
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Jerry Toffelmire

  • September 14, 1952 - January 9, 2012
  • New Buffalo, Michigan
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“I am so sorry for your loss. He is now with my dad, and his brothers and sisters who have already passed. I saw Jerry a few years ago with Nancy in...Read More » ”
1 of 17 | Posted by: Virginia Madrid - El Paso, TX

“I have this picture in my mind whenever I think of My mom and her brothers. Poker and grandma and grandpas house I got to tell grandpa what his cards...Read More » ”
2 of 17 | Posted by: Lynda Thomas - Rio Rancho, NM

“My condolences to Jerry's family and all his friends. Jerry and I were classmates. He was a fun person to be around, and will surely be missed. ”
3 of 17 | Posted by: Gary Sternaman - Parma, MI

“Dear Shelley & Family, It was wonderful to see you today. I am so sorry for your loss. May you find peace and comfort in all your happy and loving...Read More » ”
4 of 17 | Posted by: Debbie Anderson - CA - old friend

“For Shelley and Jerry, I hope you rest in peace Jerry. I hope you, Shelley and your family know that you are resting in a better place. My...Read More » ”
5 of 17 | Posted by: Jeff Durren - Benton Harbor, MI

“I am known as "Grandma" to all of Craigy's friends in Coloma. I know how much it hurts to lose the one that you have shared your life with, but the...Read More » ”
6 of 17 | Posted by: Judy Crane - Oahu, HI

“You are now resting in peace my friend, after a good fight! We have had a lot of great times over the years with our family's. Boating being the...Read More » ”
7 of 17 | Posted by: Donna Jacobs - Coloma, MI

“Shelley I am so sorry for your loss. You and the boys are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. ”
8 of 17 | Posted by: Susie Burkhardt - Watervliet, MI

“Shelley - Jerry was a blessed man to have you - you were good to him all the days of his life. I pray you and the boys will feel the tangible...Read More » ”
9 of 17 | Posted by: Deb Clements - OR

“To Shelley and sons..... Jerry was one of my first friends in St. Joe when we moved there in 1964. Although we became distanced after high school...Read More » ”
10 of 17 | Posted by: Paul C. Koehneke - Dayton, OH

“I remember when at one of Mcfadden's christmas party's-(a casino night), and Jerry was on top of his game...whew, he and Shelley took home the top...Read More » ”
11 of 17 | Posted by: Raceen Buck - MI

“Thoughts and prayers are with you every day. Hold on to the good memories and remember time and faith heal. Love You, Lois ”
12 of 17 | Posted by: LOIS - Fennville, MI - Friend

“I'm am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts, love and prayers are with you. ”
13 of 17 | Posted by: Sandra Bruder-Ridley - MI

“So very sorry for your family's loss Shelly! ”
14 of 17 | Posted by: Sue Fortenbacher - Saint Joseph, MI

“We all Love you. <3 You will be missed. ”
15 of 17 | Posted by: Samantha Toffelmire - IN - Uncle

“Hugs to you and your sons, Shelley. ”
16 of 17 | Posted by: Donna Mesirow - Woodinville, WA

“Dear Shelley, Please know that you are in my heart, thoughts and prayers. What wonderful friends you have been. I would do anything...ANYTHING......Read More » ”
17 of 17 | Posted by: Kathy Ketcham - Stevensville, MI


Jerry Toffelmire, 59, of New Buffalo, passed away Monday, January 9, 2012 at Lakeland Hospital in St. Joseph.

A Memorial Service will be held 3:00 P.M. Saturday, January 14, 2012 at Starks & Menchinger Chapel, 2650 Niles Rd., St. Joseph with Pastor Paul Koehneke officiating. Friends may visit from 1:00 P.M. until 3:00 P.M. Saturday at the funeral home. Memorials may be made to the Berrien County Cancer Service. Those wishing to share a memory of Jerry may do so online at www.starks-menchinger.com.

Jerry was born September 14, 1952 in St. Joseph, MI to Robert & Anna (Woodrick) Toffelmire. He graduated from St. Joseph High School in 1970. Jerry worked as a self-employed truck driver. On June 11, 1983 he married Shelley Ives in St. Joseph. In his spare time he enjoyed motor sports and was an avid University of Michigan Fan. Jerry also loved spending time with his family and friends.

Jerry is survived by his wife Shelley Toffelmire of New Buffalo; three sons Kenny Toffelmire of Chicago, IL, DJ Toffelmire of New Buffalo, MI, and Jarod Toffelmire of Paw Paw, MI; two grandchildren Cody and Elizabeth; brother Randy Toffelmire of Michigan City, IN. Jerry was preceded in death by his parents, two brothers Robert and Richard and two sisters Sandy and Nancy.