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3926 Devine Street
Columbia,
SC
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“I wish I could have been there for you, the way you were there for so many years for my son and I, you were my strength, council and support, You...
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1 of 27 | Posted by: Gary and Adrien Morley - Friend
“Alfred and Steve, high school friends from little Southern towns are friends forever, and Johnny was mine ... no, ours. We all loved him. He...
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2 of 27 | Posted by: Anne Palmer Hodges White RI
“John and Alfred were always inspirations to me, both personally and professionally. As a medical student finishing by studies in Columbia, John...
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3 of 27 | Posted by: Richard F. Little, MD DC
“He was a good GodFather when I was around.
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4 of 27 | Posted by: John J O'Neil Worthington IN
“My condolences to the family of Mr. John Thomas Windham III
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5 of 27 | Posted by: Mary Golden Sumter, SC
“I feel lucky and blessed to have known John Windham.
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6 of 27 | Posted by: Susan Sylvester West CA
“John was always willing to help patients in need. We often spoke on the phone to figure how to best help people so we were more "phone buddies"...
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7 of 27 | Posted by: Daphne Joseph Columbia SC
“When I first move to SC, I remember taking care of a patients who had very few options left for his HIV treatment, and I was connect with John who...
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8 of 27 | Posted by: Tonda Jackson columbia SC
“John was one of the dearest people I ever knew. A true renaissance man.
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9 of 27 | Posted by: Allen Bardin Columbia SC
“Warmest thoughts and sympathies to you all. I wish I had known John better because from what I do know, he had a profound effect on the lives of...
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10 of 27 | Posted by: Jeff Z. Brooker, III SC
“Thank you, John for your care and concern for people with HIV. You were certainly one of my heroes.
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11 of 27 | Posted by: Carmen Hampton Julious SC
“Dr Burnside and Family,
I worked with John Windham at the Dept of Corrections and only have pleasant memories of the times he came to the clinic....
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12 of 27 | Posted by: Anne Jamison West Columbia SC
“john was a large part of my life during my years working at the chateau. i loved every minute of being there with him and the gang. he subtlely...
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13 of 27 | Posted by: butch carnes
“my whole life changed the moment i walked thru the back door of le petit chateau. i was lucky to have john in my life and he will be greatly missed
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14 of 27 | Posted by: lynn talmadge SC
“Dear Alfred and Bill,
Please know my sorrow for your loss of John.
He was an icon that led people down paths to their success today.
Even though I...
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15 of 27 | Posted by: sylvia myers columbia SC
“John helped so many people with his caring and understanding. This is a great loss for the Columbia community. My prayers are with you, Dr. Burnside.
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16 of 27 | Posted by: Eddie Varner Hammond, LA
“To the Founder of Le Petit Chateau and the Chateau Family, I salute you dear friend and mentor for the legacy you passed to us all.
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17 of 27 | Posted by: Maureen Fitzgerald Grimes GA
“A wonderful man, a great life, a huge loss.
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18 of 27 | Posted by: Barbara Dobkin Seattle WA
“A WONDERFUL MAN.
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19 of 27 | Posted by: JOHN JOYE JACKSONVILLE FL
“Thank You John for being in our lifes, we'll miss you!
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20 of 27 | Posted by: Leigh & Michelle Talmadge SC
“The fun memories with John and his many adventures will always be with me. You'll be missed my all who knew you or knew of you.
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21 of 27 | Posted by: Artie Folk Columbia, SC
“From my first visit to the Burnside Clinic, John was rock for me. Keeping me calm, and staying one step ahead of my concerns. Without Without the...
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22 of 27 | Posted by: Walter Sears Columbia SC
“I cannot even put into words how much John is going to be missed not only by me but the many lives he touched. He truly is someone I am honored to...
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23 of 27 | Posted by: Brian D. Morgan Columbia SC
“So sorry to hear of John's passing. Heaven has added a very special angel. I'll never forget his call to me informing me of my HIV status. He was...
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24 of 27 | Posted by: Jerry Trowell Columbia SC
“Alfred and Bill,
It's difficult to express what an honor it was to be with you and John in those last days. Though I came there as an employee of...
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25 of 27 | Posted by: Tracey Waters
“My sincere condolences to the family and to Dr. Burnside. John helped me and a lot of other people with his work through the Burnside Clinic. He...
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26 of 27 | Posted by: Cale Peake
“The staff of Dunbar Funeral Home extends deepest sympathy to the Windham family.
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27 of 27 | Posted by: Joey Tanner Columbia, SC
COLUMBIA - John Windham, an artist and innovative restauranteur who became one of the leading figures in the fight against HIV/AIDS in South Carolina, died Saturday morning, May 2, 2009 at his home in Arcadia Lakes. He was 66 and had battled prostate cancer for ten years.
John was born in Farmville, North Carolina, on May 23, 1942, the eldest of John Thomas and Doris Flowers Windham, and came to Columbia in the 1960s to study art at the University of South Carolina. His painting style was abstract, colorful, and highly energetic, condensing large emotions on relatively small canvases. He continued to paint even as he was confined to bed in his last months, saying "Painting is an avenue that liberates me from my confinement. The almost cacaphonic use of colors is new for me, and is quite cathartic in and of itself. I can barely contain the vibrant and vivid colors on the canvases. I enjoy the muscular fight each one presents with its exciting new battle and opportunity." Some of his works can be seen at www.flickr.com/photos/jtwindham.
In the mid 60s he met local physician Alfred Burnside, who became his lifelong companion. Together they created an enviable life, which on the social side included birding in the tropics, rare plant collecting, and memorable entertaining. To attend a party at their home was to have stories for years.
In 1970, John opened Le Petit Chateau, an intimate, cosseting restaurant discreetly tucked into a strip of obscure shops on Devine Street. Riding the wave of American interest ignited by Julia Child a decade earlier, it was the first restaurant in Columbia to focus on French cuisine and style, and soon became a favorite haunt, dependable not only for good food but a good time as well. With characteristic modesty, John decorated the small space with his own paintings, and made sure the staff was as well cared for as the patrons. The eclectic clientele meant there was an equal chance that the person at the next table might be a struggling actor, a prominent professional, or an international artist, such as opera diva Leontyne Price, who became a friend. In 1983, he sold the restaurant to new owners, who reëestablished it as Ristorante Divino.
After selling Le Petit Chateau, John became manager of Dr. Burnside’s medical practice, which he said was not such a big switch: both required attentive supervision of needy people and sharp objects. In response to the exploding number of AIDS patients and the staggering lack of medical resources available to them in the mid-80s, John and Alfred decided the Burnside Clinic would focus exclusively on HIV treatment and research. While Alfred provided professional medical care, John took charge of their patients’ related needs, making connections with social service agencies, legal and financial resources, and psychological counselors. As the epidemic grew, John managed numerous clinical trials of new drugs and protocols, carefully screening and matching patients with experimental programs. Seeing so many patients encounter rejected insurance claims and other financial obstacles, the Clinic established the John Windham Patient Assistance Fund, a charitable organization that provided crucial support for HIV patients in need. Despite his cancer diagnosis and treatment, John continued his HIV work until Alfred retired and the Burnside Clinic closed last year.
John’s life, like his paintings, his parties, and his personality, had just a little more color, flair, and drama than most, and unless you interrupted the Saturday afternoon opera broadcast, he shared it exuberantly. In addition to Alfred, John is survived by his brother, Steve Windham of Wilmington, North Carolina, and by Bill Phillips of the home; he was predeceased by his parents, his younger brother, Phillip Windham, and his beloved aunt, Delphia Mae Parker.
Visitation will be Monday, May 4, from 5:00 – 7:00 p.m. with a memorial service to be held Tuesday, May 5, at 11:00 a.m., all at the Devine Street Chapel of Dunbar Funeral Home. Memorials may be made to the John Windham Patient Assistance Fund, c/o Haywood Barnett, Carolina First Bank, Post Office Box 12249, Columbia, S.C. 29211.
No photos have been provided by the family or the funeral home.
I wish I could have been there for you, the way you were there for so many years for my son and I, you were my strength, council and support, You were my sons cherished adopted godfather and guiding light through his darkest hours.
While we have lost a friend the world has lost one of the most beautiful people I have ever known.
My Friend
My light
My Faith
My Feeling
Travel well beautiful man
Posted by: Gary and Adrien Morley Adelaide Australia - Friend Jan 30, 2010
Alfred and Steve, high school friends from little Southern towns are friends forever, and Johnny was mine ... no, ours. We all loved him. He organized our forays into the world, directed our funny little attempts at stage plays, and connected our disparate groups -- nerds, jocks, cheerleaders, musicians, country kids and town kidds, even the teachers he strung together with us as only charming Johnny could. He was one of the happiest, most unselfish people I have ever known, and one of the most talented. And something else: he knew himself early on, and I think this one rare thing supported his gift of himself to others. Johnny, the lanky kid with the handsome face, moving with our little clutch of friends from class to class, ideas spilling out of him, suggesting our next risky move, and laughing that laugh I can still hear. He lives as such in my stories.
Posted by: Anne Palmer Hodges White Cumberland, RI Jun 13, 2009
John and Alfred were always inspirations to me, both personally and professionally. As a medical student finishing by studies in Columbia, John was taken aback when I said my concern about going to Boston for internship and residency was that there may be too many AIDS patients. My career has ended up focusing on AIDS, and whenever in the early days sometimes I would despair, John's loving sternness would come to mind. Although it has been over 20 years since seeing either John or Alfred, there influence never wore off. I'm grateful to have known John.
Posted by: Richard F. Little, MD Washington, DC May 06, 2009
He was a good GodFather when I was around.
Posted by: John J O'Neil Worthington, IN May 05, 2009
My condolences to the family of Mr. John Thomas Windham III
Posted by: Mary Golden Sumter, SC May 05, 2009
I feel lucky and blessed to have known John Windham.
Posted by: Susan Sylvester West Mill Valley, CA May 05, 2009
John was always willing to help patients in need. We often spoke on the phone to figure how to best help people so we were more "phone buddies" than actually getting to see one another. His presence in the HIV/AIDS community will be missed. He was a great man!
Posted by: Daphne Joseph Columbia, SC May 05, 2009
When I first move to SC, I remember taking care of a patients who had very few options left for his HIV treatment, and I was connect with John who was able to get my patient into one of the studies they had going on. Dr. Burnside I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. You and John made the care of HIV patient a care that stressed dignity and respect.
Posted by: Tonda Jackson columbia, SC May 05, 2009
John was one of the dearest people I ever knew. A true renaissance man.
Posted by: Allen Bardin Columbia, SC May 04, 2009
Warmest thoughts and sympathies to you all. I wish I had known John better because from what I do know, he had a profound effect on the lives of many and the effect he had is visible today.
Posted by: Jeff Z. Brooker, III Columbia, SC May 04, 2009
Visitation:
May 04 2009
5:00 PM to 7:00 PM
Dunbar Funeral Home, Devine Stre
3926 Devine Street
Columbia, SC
Funeral Service:
May 05 2009
11:00 AM to 11:45 AM
Dunbar Funeral Home, Devine Stre
3926 Devine Street
Columbia, SC
