Paul M. Stanford
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Paul M. Stanford

  • November 18, 2011
  • Albuquerque, New Mexico
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“My Dearest Betty, We are truly heartbroken to hear of Paul's passing. Our prayers and thoughts are with you, John, Jenna, Meagan and your beautiful ...Read More » ”
1 of 32 | Posted by: Michael & Christi McNamara - NM

“Our Dear Betty. Sending you our heartfelt sympathy in the passing of your beloved Paul. We are so blessed to know Paul as a person and a very...Read More » ”
2 of 32 | Posted by: Pat and Carolyn Newman - TX

“Dear Betty, Jon and Jena- What an genuine, loving and wonderful person Paul was, and one of the nicest people I've ever had the pleasure to know. ...Read More » ”
3 of 32 | Posted by: Jill Solomon Flynn - Albuquerque, NM

“I will always remember Paul as a gentleman in the true sense of the word: a gentle man. The service was a touching tribute to a beautiful life. ”
4 of 32 | Posted by: Janelle Reed - Albuquerque, NM

“Betty, Jon and Jena, My deepest condolences to you and your families, you are in my thoughts and prayers. I had the pleasure of meeting Paul...Read More » ”
5 of 32 | Posted by: Linda Barncord - Emerald Hills, CA

“Dearest Betty, We are so grateful that our sons grew up with the two of you as surrogate grandparents next door. Paul, ever the gentleman was...Read More » ”
6 of 32 | Posted by: Peter and CJ Feng - Albuquerque, NM

“Betty: Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. We were shocked to read of Paul's passing in today's Journal, unfortunately too late...Read More » ”
7 of 32 | Posted by: Brooks & Barbara Gauert - NM

“Dear Betty, our love and prayers are with you in the loss of Paul. He was an inspiration to us as he fought a long battle with cancer. We will miss...Read More » ”
8 of 32 | Posted by: Bob and Sue Macfarlane - Ruidoso, NM

“To Paul's Family, My husband, Larry, and I had the privilege of work with Paul for many years at Sandia National Laboratories. He always kept the...Read More » ”
9 of 32 | Posted by: Dori Ellis - Albuquerque, NM

“Mr. Stanford was a fantastic role model and friend. Coming back to New Mexico won't be the same without him next door. You will all be in my thoughts...Read More » ”
10 of 32 | Posted by: Tom Feng

“Dear Betty Jena, Jon and all of Pauls beautiful family. Paul was a truely dear man. He was always a joy to be around. I will always remember how we...Read More » ”
11 of 32 | Posted by: Lucinda Sanchez - Albuquerque, NM

“Jon, Jena and Betty and their families: Our love and sympathy goes out to you all. Paul and Betty were the most welcoming parents of our friends --...Read More » ”
12 of 32 | Posted by: Erika Birch - Boise, ID - Friend

“We shall NEVER forget the trip to Red River - July 1, 1962! We have wonderful pictures to prove it! The four of us shared a pallet on the floor in...Read More » ”
13 of 32 | Posted by: Jerry & Nancy Kaufman - Burnet, TX

“Dear Betty: Please accept our deepest sympathy on the passing of your wonderful husband Paul. He was a unique individual, always positive and loved...Read More » ”
14 of 32 | Posted by: Jack and Frances Holmes - Lehi, UT

“Betty and family: My deepest condolences to you and your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. I am truly grateful that I had the...Read More » ”
15 of 32 | Posted by: Pauline Duran - Albuquerque, NM

“I'm so glad we had many happy times together this past summer. Betty, you and Paul were an almost second family to me and I always looked forward to...Read More » ”
16 of 32 | Posted by: Claudellen Barsh - Ruidoso, NM

“Mrs. Stanford, Jon and Jena, I just can't believe that the next time I come home I will not have the pleasure of visiting with your dad again. We...Read More » ”
17 of 32 | Posted by: Elliot Feng - Albuquerque, NM

“The few times we met Paul, he was always willing to hear about your ideas and what your concerns were. He will be missed. ”
18 of 32 | Posted by: Steve and Hope Lucero - NM

“Dear Betty - We wish you and your family our deepest sympathy in your time of grief. We trust it gives you some comfort to know Paul is in a better...Read More » ”
19 of 32 | Posted by: Earl & Jean Gremillion - Ruidoso, NM

“Jon, Jenna and Mrs. Stanford, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Having lost my Dad to cancer 5 years ago, I...Read More » ”
20 of 32 | Posted by: Beth Nolan Paiz - Albuquerque, NM

“Dear Betty and family, Thinking of you during this time and sending healing thoughts. Al and I are very fond of you both and wish you and your...Read More » ”
21 of 32 | Posted by: Shanna Narath - Albuquerque, NM

“Betty, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I just want you to know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. In the bonds, ...Read More » ”
22 of 32 | Posted by: Jean Smith Stagner - Wimberley, TX

“Although Paul was my boss twice, more importantly he was always my friend. I've never known a more positive person. I always marveled at his ability...Read More » ”
23 of 32 | Posted by: Paul Brewer - Gualala, CA

“Betty, Paul was a wonderful man. We are so sorry for your loss. We know Paul will be greatly missed. Betty, you have been there for everybody,...Read More » ”
24 of 32 | Posted by: Arline. Gregoire - Albuquerque, NM

“Betty Alice I am so sorry to hear about Paul's death. I have had and will continue to remember you in my prayers. Thank goodness for precious...Read More » ”
25 of 32 | Posted by: Sue (Shugart) Drautz - TX

“Betty Alice, I just wanted you to know that I'm thinking about you - and I'll surely have you in my prayers. I'm so glad we got to see you at that...Read More » ”
26 of 32 | Posted by: Laine Jennings - Lubbock, TX

“I never met your Dad, Jena, but I want to say that I know it's hard- I lost my Dad at age 21. I hope things go as easily for you as possible,...Read More » ”
27 of 32 | Posted by: Julie Pastore - Oakland, CA

“What a fine man, neighbor and good friend Paul has been along with his loving caring wife, Betty. We are not surprised because of his recent stuggles...Read More » ”
28 of 32 | Posted by: Jule & Bob Sterchi - Ruidoso, NM

“Paul's warm smile and engaging personality endeared him to all his neighbors on Timberline and we looked forward to his visits here with Betty. He...Read More » ”
29 of 32 | Posted by: Sally Burkstaller - Ruidoso , NM

“Paul was my first employer at Sandia National Laboratories. Paul was a very kind soul, compassionate, and supportive of all his employees. You...Read More » ”
30 of 32 | Posted by: Gila Yaniv - Albuqueruque, NM

“My heartfelt love and sympathy are with you at this sorrowful time. I will continue to keep you in my prayers , knowing that God will hear me and...Read More » ”
31 of 32 | Posted by: Brooks R Wright - Houston, , TX

“On behalf of the French Family of Companies we express our deepest condolences. ”
32 of 32 | Posted by: Faith Miner - Albuquerque, NM


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STANFORD, PAUL M.

Paul M. Stanford, 76, resident of Albuquerque and native of Texas, passed away peacefully just after midnight on Friday, November 18, 2011 in Presbyterian Hospital. Paul is survived by his wife of 53 years, Betty Stanford; children Jon Stanford and his wife Meghan, Jena Siedler and her husband Jim; grandchildren Riley Paul Stanford, Maxwell Stanford Siedler, Kate Stanford and Marielle Siedler; sister Arvalee Saul, brother Jess Stanford and many other relatives and friends. Paul was preceded in death by his parents Reverend E. Lee and Flora Stanford, and his sister Dorothy Stanford Tadlock. Paul was born in Van Alstyne, Texas and graduated from Dimmitt Texas High School. He graduated from Texas Tech University with a Bachelor's of Science in Accounting in 1957. Paul served honorably as a Reserve Officer in the United States Air Force as part of the New Mexico Air Guard. Paul began his career at Sandia National Laboratory as the youngest Accountant ever hired at the time. He remained at Sandia for the duration of his 40-year career, advancing through the ranks of General Auditor, Comptroller, and eventually Chief Financial Officer/Vice-President. He was a loyal supporter of the New Mexico Lobos Men's Basketball team and a season ticket holder for 53 years. Paul was an active and zealous supporter of numerous local charities including Meals On Wheels and the United Way. In 2001, he received The United Way's Arthur H. Spiegel Lifetime Achievement Award. Paul was a longtime member of St. John's United Methodist Church, serving as Financial Advisor for many years. A memorial service will be held Monday, November 21, 2011 at 2:00 p.m. at St. John's United Methodist Church. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made in Paul's honor to University of New Mexico Cancer Center or Presbyterian Hospital Cancer Center. Paul will be remembered for his infectious optimism, boundless generosity, unwavering loyalty to family and friends, but most of all, as a devoted husband, father and grandfather.