Robert Herbert Lancer

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“Dad,It's your first anniversary in Heaven. It's been a year of heartache for all of us. You are missed so much. I know you are watching over us...Read More »
1 of 13 | Posted by: Linda Stewart-Passantino - NY

“Hi Dad, Merry Christmas... thinking of you on your first Christmas in Heaven... it's very sad... wish you were here... love you, miss you.love always...Read More »
2 of 13 | Posted by: Linda Stewart-Passantino - NY

“Hi Dad,I was on the site for Aunt Irene's heavenly anniversary, and just wanted to say hi to you and tell you how much I miss you.Christmas is coming...Read More »
3 of 13 | Posted by: Linda Stewart-Passantino - NY

“Hi Dad,Tomorrow is your birthday, and this will be the first year that you are not here to celebrate it. There have been a lot of tough days for all...Read More »
4 of 13 | Posted by: Linda Stewart-Passantino - NY

“Hi Dad,Today is the 4th anniversary of Frank's incident. I hope that you guys are together and doing a lot of fishing. I can picture the two of you...Read More »
5 of 13 | Posted by: Linda Stewart-Passantino - NY

“Dad,Sending tons of hugs and kisses to you on your first Father's Day in Heaven.Miss you so much.love always,Lindaxoxoxo ”
6 of 13 | Posted by: Linda Stewart-Passantino - NY

“Miss you so much Dad !! I light a candle for you everyday !! ”
7 of 13 | Posted by: Jeanine Grady - Harrisburg, PA

“Wonderful Dad. Everyday, several times a day something happens or I see something and the first thing I think of is to call you to tell you. I miss...Read More »
8 of 13 | Posted by: Jeanine Grady - Harrisburg, PA

“Hi Dad,Thinking of you on this first Valentines Day without you. Can't even bring myself to wish anyone HAPPY Valentines Day because it is just not...Read More »
9 of 13 | Posted by: Linda Stewart-Passantino - NY

“RIP grandpa,even though you're gone you can never be forgotten,the memories from motorcycle trips ,eagle lake trailer trips ,three and four wheeler...Read More »
10 of 13 | Posted by: Chris Stewart - Bayshore, NY

“Hi Dad,They say the third time is the charm, so here goes my 3rd try to get this message in.Today is 4 weeks since you left us. I think of you every...Read More »
11 of 13 | Posted by: Linda Stewart-Passantino - NY

“Dad,I'm still in disbelief that you are gone. There isn't a moment in the day that you aren't in my thoughts. I see something or read something...Read More »
12 of 13 | Posted by: Jeanine Grady - Harrisburg, PA

“Dear Dad,It's been just over 2 weeks, yet it seems like ages since I heard your voice or saw your smile. I don't know how I will get through this. ...Read More »
13 of 13 | Posted by: Linda Stewart-Passantino - NY


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Robert H. Lancer was born in Queens, NYC, NY on November 29, 1934. He grew up in Maspeth, and was the middle child of Herbert and Elsie Lancer. He had an older sister Irene, and a younger brother Walter. Robert married Jean Gibson on July 23, 1954. Their marriage lasted more than 65 years, and produced 4 children - Linda, Laureen, Jeanine and Rob. Robert was a good provider, a wonderful husband, and terrific father. Robert loved motorcycles, and went on road trips with his son, grandson, and son-in-law well into his 70's. He lived a full and happy life.

Robert died suddenly on January 2, 2020. He is survived by his loving family - wife Jean, daughters Linda, Laureen & Jeanine, son Rob, grandsons Chris & Robert, granddaughter Emily, great-grandaughter Miranda, great-great grandson Landyn, great-great granddaughter Leilah, son in law Al, son in law Jim, daughter in law Olga, granddaughter in law Lauren, great-grandson in law Randy... and cousins, other in-laws, and friends.

He is loved, and will be missed very much.