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“I was married to Bob Kirkman, Carollyn's grandfather Dave's brother. We had one daughter, Maria and it was she who found the notice regarding Carolyn...Read More »
1 of 61 | Posted by: Katherine Kirkman Harrobin - NJ

“Dear Joan and family, I was so sorry to hear of the death of Carolyn. Children are quite precious, aren't they? I remember a few years ago seeing...Read More »
2 of 61 | Posted by: Deborah Schoenfelder - Iowa City, IA

“My partner and I only had the pleasure of Carolyn's company on a handful of occasions but it was clear from the first minute what a kind, open, warm...Read More »
3 of 61 | Posted by: David Semel - San Francisco, CA

“I am so sorry for your loss. Carolyn had the best laugh and always seemed so happy, I feel lucky to have known her and know she will be missed by so...Read More »
4 of 61 | Posted by: Corie (Anderson) Tarara - MN

“I have many wonderful memories of Carolyn from high school. She was such a kind and generous spirit. I am truly saddened by the news of her passing...Read More »
5 of 61 | Posted by: Caitlin Bohlken Lemke - Iowa City, IA

“I'm so sorry for your loss. I went to City High with Carolyn and she was a wonderful person. My thoughts are with your family. ”
6 of 61 | Posted by: Sara Kennedy - Seattle, WA

“My sincere thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. I knew Carolyn from high school and will always remember her gorgeous smile and...Read More »
7 of 61 | Posted by: Kayla Lalor - Iowa City, IA

“Dear Joan, I was so sad to hear about Carolyn's passing and the difficult time you you must be going through. I was out of the country at the time...Read More »
8 of 61 | Posted by: Helen Jameson

“Dear Joan and family, I was so sorry to hear about Carolyn. She was such a great friend! I knew her from when we were young little girls at Grant...Read More »
9 of 61 | Posted by: Heather (Leu) Link - classmate

“Joan, What a mysterious thing that our paths crossed at this painful time. I am sorry for your loss, for your family's loss. As was written, the...Read More »
10 of 61 | Posted by: Hunter Sharpless - Iowa City, IA

“Dear Joan and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Carolyn had the kindest soul and warmest heart. I met Carolyn while working at the old Sycamore...Read More »
11 of 61 | Posted by: Erin Piper - Friend

“I was so sorry to read about Carolyn in the paper. I went to school with her for four years at City High and have memories of many good times shared....Read More »
12 of 61 | Posted by: Amanda Jordison Carey

“Dear Joan. I cannot imagine the pain you must feel from losing your beautiful gave her life and shared your brilliance with her.....Read More »
13 of 61 | Posted by: Larry Bruse - Iowa City, IA

“Dear Joan -- We are so deeply sorry for Carolyn's ordeal, and for your loss. Through it all she must have known how much she was loved. Natasa...Read More »
14 of 61 | Posted by: Natasa Durovicova - Iowa City

“My Dearest Laura, I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. Words are never enough at times like these but never forget that you are loved and that...Read More »
15 of 61 | Posted by: Staci Renea Kirsch - Iowa City, IA

“Thoughts and prayers are with you... so sorry to hear of your loss. ”
16 of 61 | Posted by: Tammy Wiley

“Dear Joan, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Carolyn's life story is a full one, as is yours. I wish for you and your family and friends real...Read More »
17 of 61 | Posted by: Thom Paulson - Interlochen, MI

“Dear Joan, We've laughed together at public radio meetings. A childless woman (with a lifetime full of deejays as surrogates), I can only imagine...Read More »
18 of 61 | Posted by: Kate Lochte - Murray, KY

“Joan - so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family. Tim ”
19 of 61 | Posted by: Tim Eby - St. Louis, MO - Friend

“Joan, My thoughts and prayers are wtih you and your family at this difficult time. The pictures of Carolyn reflect a beautiful, happy young woman...Read More »
20 of 61 | Posted by: Regina Dean - friend of Joan

“I am sorry to hear about Carolyn. I have such happy memories of having fun in high school. My condolences and sympathy to her family. May her memory...Read More »
21 of 61 | Posted by: Amy (Johnson) Kish - CO - Friend

“Joan, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. It truly is heartbreaking. My thoughts are with you, your family, and friends. ~Amy Cockrell ”
22 of 61 | Posted by: Amy

“Dear Joan, You and your family have my deepest sympathies. Please know that I'm praying for you and wishing you God's comfort. Peter Bloesch ”
23 of 61 | Posted by: Peter Bloesch - Iowa City, IA

“Dearest Joan, I'm thinking of you at this moment in time when the world isn't as bright as it once was. My heart aches for you and your family. May...Read More »
24 of 61 | Posted by: Beverley Ervine

“I'm very sorry to hear about Carolyn. I went to highschool with her and have fun memories of the time we spent together. Karimah ”
25 of 61 | Posted by: Karimah Seals

“Joan and Family,We send our deepest sympathies. Carolyn was a shining personality and she always made people feel welcome in her presence. We can...Read More »
26 of 61 | Posted by: STEPHEN AND BECKY BOBEK - IA

“Joan, David, Greg and family, I was honored to be able to share in your time tonight honoring Carolyn. It gave me a very heavy heart to learn not...Read More »
27 of 61 | Posted by: Stephanie (Guthrie) Legislador - IA

“Dear Joan, Jay and family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult and momentous time. We wish you peace and comfort and joyful...Read More »
28 of 61 | Posted by: Robin and Steve Ungar - Iowa City, IA

“We would like to extend our sincere sympathy to Carolyn's family and friends! Our son, Brian, was in grade school, jr. high and high school with...Read More »
29 of 61 | Posted by: Kathy Brechler - Coralville, IA

“Chris and I were so shocked and saddened to hear about Carolyn. We worked together at Cinemas I and II when we were teenagers, and I always thought...Read More »
30 of 61 | Posted by: Crissy - West Lafayette, IN

“I am so very sorry to hear of Carolyn's passing. I have such fond memories of her beautiful smile and loving personality. I'll always remember...Read More »
31 of 61 | Posted by: Denise Close - Ann Arbor, MI

“I just wanted to express my deep sympahty to Carolyn's family and friends. I knew Carolyn in junior high and high school and have many fond memories...Read More »
32 of 61 | Posted by: Allison Cole - Seattle, WA

“Though we did not know Carolyn personally ,we were deeply touched by her life through Jackie, her aunt. We want to send our deepest sympathies to you...Read More »
33 of 61 | Posted by: Sonatina Fernandes - Coralville, IA

“I was so saddened to hear of the loss of Carolyn. She was in my high school class, and she was so beautiful, intelligent and warm. She was so...Read More »
34 of 61 | Posted by: Kristine Crane - Iowa City, IA

“Dear Joan, I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter. Thinking of you, Jean Walker ”
35 of 61 | Posted by: Jean Walker

“Dear Joan, News of the death of your beloved daughter has reached us in northern Wisconsin. I can only imagine the sadness and loss you must be...Read More »
36 of 61 | Posted by: Ellen Buchanan

“Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of tremendous loss but please know that Carolyn's spirit, energy and enormous passion and love...Read More »
37 of 61 | Posted by: Lois Gray - Coralville, IA

“Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult time. Even though we only met your daughter a few times she was the...Read More »
38 of 61 | Posted by: Jann & Tom Baughman - IA

“Joan,We are so sorry for your loss and our thoughts are with you at this very difficult time. While we didn't know Carolyn as long as many others, we...Read More »
39 of 61 | Posted by: Scott & Angee Vezdos - Columbus, OH

“Dear Joan and family: You are in my thoughts and prayers. With our deepest sympathy for your loss. May your heart be healed and may God's mercy and...Read More »
40 of 61 | Posted by: Shams Ghoneim - Iowa City, IA

“It was an honor and privledge to care for Carolyn during her chemotherapy treatments. I always left Carolyn feeling truly inspired by her grace and...Read More »
41 of 61 | Posted by: Linda Moeller

“Dear Joan, I am so sorry for the loss of your daughter. I know she will continue to live in your heart and that her love will help you through this...Read More »
42 of 61 | Posted by: Andrea Niehaus

“The world was a better place for having Carolyn in it. She always had a way of cheering people up and bringing a smile to everyone's face! She will...Read More »
43 of 61 | Posted by: Kara Rector Strabala

“Joan, my deepest condolences to you and your family. I can only imagine Carolyn's personality being warm, friendly, bright and bubbly just like her...Read More »
44 of 61 | Posted by: Lori Eiserman

“Dear Joan:I was so very sorry to read of the death of your dear daughter. I'm in Maine now so I cannot share my condolences in person. I know how...Read More »
45 of 61 | Posted by: Peter Nathan - Iowa City, IA

“You are in our hearts and prayers. ”
46 of 61 | Posted by: Lorena Gingerich - Iowa city, IA

“Joan--I am so sorry for your loss. My heartfelt sympathies to you and your family. ...Betty Breazeale ”
47 of 61 | Posted by: Betty Breazeale

“I would like to offer my deepest sympathies to Carolyn's family and friends. The stars were a little brighter the last couple of nights, and it...Read More »
48 of 61 | Posted by: Laurie Baumgartner - Iowa city, IA

“Greg, Dave and Joan, So sorry for your loss. I have many found memories of Carolyn giving us rides to school before we could drive. I hope you...Read More »
49 of 61 | Posted by: Scott Jensen

“To Carolyn's family and friend, I am so sorry for your loss. It's a terrible thing to lose someone so young and with so much to give. It is clear she...Read More »
50 of 61 | Posted by: Anne Duggan

“Joan, just wanted to say that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Please take care of yourself during this challenging time. ”
51 of 61 | Posted by: Jeff Harney - coralville, IA

“I went to high school with Carolyn and graduated in 1994 from City High School with her. She was always so very nice in high school and was always...Read More »
52 of 61 | Posted by: Jennifer Montgomery - Schoolmate

“Sadly I didn't get to know Carolyn before she was sick. Luckily I got to meet her during one of the greatest challenges of her and her families life...Read More »
53 of 61 | Posted by: Steve Carignan

“know that my sympathy surrounds each of you at this time. linda sexton fobian~a friend of Laura's ”
54 of 61 | Posted by: linda jean fobian - iowa city, IA

“I am so sorry to hear about Carolyn. We had such a good time together in college and I will always treasure her friendship. I was so impressed with...Read More »
55 of 61 | Posted by: Jenny Struthers - Iowa City, IA

“I am so saddened to hear of Carolyn's passing. I cared for her when she was an inpatient at UIHC. Although I didn't know her well personally, she...Read More »
56 of 61 | Posted by: Becky Latta

“I'm sorry to hear about Carolyn. I will remember her as being outgoing and upbeat. She always had a smile on her face. She will be missed. Stacy ...Read More »
57 of 61 | Posted by: Stacy Fultz - North Liberty, IA

“Miss Carolyn was such a wonderful, sweet, caring, kind, generous soul. I am so sorry about your loss - she was a sweetheart who will be missed. You...Read More »
58 of 61 | Posted by: Emma Bluemel - Kalona, IA

“Joan and family, it was only after I posted the below that I read the truly beautiful tribute you wrote to her (posted on this site). It says so MUCH...Read More »
59 of 61 | Posted by: Barney Sherman - Cedar Falls, IA

“No words I can think of even come close to conveying how kind, generous, gracious, warm, gentle, beautiful and loving a human being Carolyn was. She...Read More »
60 of 61 | Posted by: Barney Sherman - Cedar Falls, IA

“We're very sorry about Carolyn and would like to offer our condolences and sympathy to her family. ”
61 of 61 | Posted by: Wayne Tuttle and Anna Hope - IA

Carolyn Joan Kirkman, 35, beloved daughter of Joan Kjaer and David Kirkman of Iowa City, passed away in her home after a long and hard-fought battle with cancer on Monday, June 27 surrounded by family and loved ones. Carolyn grew up in Iowa City and attended Iowa City schools, graduating from City High in 1994. She received her B.A. in English at the University of Iowa; lived and worked in Edinburgh, Scotland; and returned to Iowa City where she worked for many years at the University of Iowa Community Credit Union. Most recently, she was a counselor at Waypoint in Cedar Rapids, providing caring services for women, children and families under stress.

Carolyn was a passionate and compassionate woman who loved life and made the most of it. She loved her family, books, travel, music, movies, politics, fairness, crossword puzzles, science fiction, baseball, shopping, design and her favorite Italian coffee. Carolyn, our beautiful, golden girl, has made the heavens richer by her presence.

Carolyn's family includes her father David, mother Joan and partner Jay Semel; her brother Greg Kirkman, his wife Jennifer and daughter Gwendolyn; grandmothers Ruth Kjaer and Elizabeth Mansfield (Jim); aunts Jacqueline, Diane (Ron) and Kathryn Kjaer; Sara and Laura Kirkman; Susan Aschenbrenner (Jon); Marcia Larson (Dan); cousins Erik, Quinn, Malory, Katy, Kristin, Erich and Jay; and Semel family members Diana, Sophie, Bennett, David, Ame, Isaiah and Charlie. She was preceded in death by her grandfathers Theodore Kjaer and David J. Kirkman.

Memorial services will be held at 3:00 p.m. Friday, July 1, 2011, at Gloria Dei Lutheran Church in Iowa City with the Reverend Karl Divine-Koch officiating. Visitation will be from 4 to 7 p.m. Thursday at Gay & Ciha Funeral and Cremation Service. In lieu of flowers memorial donations can be made in Carolyn’s memory to the Holden Cancer Center c/o University of Iowa Foundation. Online condolences may be sent for her family through the web @